T-girlfriend?

[RubyTS]

Its funny how u guys have tg girlfriends yet still cruise this forum...... ?

I suspect my girl fantasizes about other guys, but she doesn't act on it. Same for me with other Tgirls.

Look but don't touch...

ok tru, but ur not only cruising porn, you're also interracting with some of the same girls u watch in film... If u caught ur girlfriend talking to.. John Holmes (god rest his soul) would u not feel betrayed? Offended? Hurt? distrusting?

No, not really. If my girl was talking to him i wouldnt care less.

The reason for that is because he was ugly and my gf wouldnt fancy him.

I dont care if he has some 12 inch dick. You seem to think that most real girls are cocksluts, this is not the case. Most real girls want a man who is good looking, funny, with a decent sized cock, who loves them. Someone they can have prospects with.

Most real girls do not fancy male porn stars, there are far better looking guys out there with much much more going for them than a pornstar.

This is what you have to understand. Now add in that a pornstar might be a frigging sex worker as well, how many educated girls from good backgrounds who's families have money and they have decent jobs would want to date a male escort who is also on camera fucking lots of women (or men)?

Be serious. Live in the real world.

If you said brad pitt who is a v good looking guy, an a list hollywood star, multimillionaire and probably has a regular sized dick, except he doesnt escort and he doesnt do porn, he just sells hollywood mega busters and gets paid 10-20 million dollars per movie. Then you might have had a point.

Conversely do you think that someone as succesful as brad pitt (lets take out the whole movie star part, because that is unrealistic) but lets say that you have the oppurtunity to go out with a guy you really really fancy. He treats you with lots of respect (he doesnt know you are a prostitute at this stage), he takes you on a few dates and doesnt try sexual advances because he has more respect for you than that. Respectful guys will not try to have sex with a date after the first or second date, they are dating because they respect women (or ts women as the case might be) and dating for a reason, to find someone they like and want to be in a relationship with.

Yet on the date (that he booked and paid for in a nice restaraunt) you say you need to go to the toilet, so he says 'oh hun, whilst you're up, can you get 2 drinks in please, i'll have a bud please, thanks hun, see you soon).

Yet you are appauled and shocked, you feel it is terrible behaviour, how dare he ask you to spend 12 dollars on a drink (when he is buying you dinner, paying for taxi and bar entrance, bowling, cinema etc), how dare he! How dare he ask you to buy the next round of drinks!!!

So are you saying that this would make you feel very upset?

He asked if you would buy the next round of drinks?

Some of the advice given to you on here is truly laughable.

One person in particular who is what, in her 50's, a sex worker, has a transexual gf. To that person, would you charge your transexual girlfriend money to take you on a date, or does she charge you?

The bottom line is that young ts girls (either sex workers or not) are attracted to men, they are not attracted to other trans or women (or maybe 10-20%, but they want a boyfriend). What boyfriend in their right mind would simply expect to put up with a greedy and selfish ts girl, when he has the goods to simply find another one or a real girl who will be kind and friendly and not see a relationship as some sort of money agreement.

This is what prostitution does. You have been tarnished now. You seem to think a relationship is an exchange between sex and money. It doesnt work like that in the real world. A proper relationship is about love, not about money. A relationship that works is one about companionship and about mutual love for each other.

It is because you love each other that you have sex, to make love, to feel something special, to have the connection with the person you love, with the guy you fancy and who makes you go weak at the knees. Its not about money, its not about 'oooh, does he have 9 inch dick or is it 11 inches?' It is about who you feel special with, if you fancy him, if he turns you on and you feel good together.

Otherwise you can expect never ever to get married and definately never to meet anyone who loves you for you and not for something between your legs because he sees you as a freak or something, his little pet freak that he will pay for sex in return to keep you quiet whilst he goes and marries a rich regular girl and has a family with her, is that what you want?

Love is not about money. Find a guy that you fancy (if he fancies you), go on a few dates with him, see how things go. If he treats you well, forget about who pays what or when, he will probably pay at least his half anyway, then if you feel the spark and the romance is there, that you get good vibes and slowly you can trust him, you know he is your man.

There are good men out there.

But expect your relationship to end as soon as he finds out you are a prostitute, thats for sure in 90% of cases.

You missed the enire point.... The question was to guys who are in relationships with TRANNYS, so if u would have read the whole thread before posting u woulda saved yourself a lot of time writing such irrelevant nonsense

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Its funny how u guys have tg girlfriends yet still cruise this forum...... ?

I suspect my girl fantasizes about other guys, but she doesn't act on it. Same for me with other Tgirls.

Look but don't touch...

ok tru, but ur not only cruising porn, you're also interracting with some of the same girls u watch in film... If u caught ur girlfriend talking to.. John Holmes (god rest his soul) would u not feel betrayed? Offended? Hurt? distrusting?

No, not really. If my girl was talking to him i wouldnt care less.

The reason for that is because he was ugly and my gf wouldnt fancy him.

I dont care if he has some 12 inch dick. You seem to think that most real girls are cocksluts, this is not the case. Most real girls want a man who is good looking, funny, with a decent sized cock, who loves them. Someone they can have prospects with.

Most real girls do not fancy male porn stars, there are far better looking guys out there with much much more going for them than a pornstar.

This is what you have to understand. Now add in that a pornstar might be a frigging sex worker as well, how many educated girls from good backgrounds who's families have money and they have decent jobs would want to date a male escort who is also on camera fucking lots of women (or men)?

Be serious. Live in the real world.

If you said brad pitt who is a v good looking guy, an a list hollywood star, multimillionaire and probably has a regular sized dick, except he doesnt escort and he doesnt do porn, he just sells hollywood mega busters and gets paid 10-20 million dollars per movie. Then you might have had a point.

Conversely do you think that someone as succesful as brad pitt (lets take out the whole movie star part, because that is unrealistic) but lets say that you have the oppurtunity to go out with a guy you really really fancy. He treats you with lots of respect (he doesnt know you are a prostitute at this stage), he takes you on a few dates and doesnt try sexual advances because he has more respect for you than that. Respectful guys will not try to have sex with a date after the first or second date, they are dating because they respect women (or ts women as the case might be) and dating for a reason, to find someone they like and want to be in a relationship with.

Yet on the date (that he booked and paid for in a nice restaraunt) you say you need to go to the toilet, so he says 'oh hun, whilst you're up, can you get 2 drinks in please, i'll have a bud please, thanks hun, see you soon).

Yet you are appauled and shocked, you feel it is terrible behaviour, how dare he ask you to spend 12 dollars on a drink (when he is buying you dinner, paying for taxi and bar entrance, bowling, cinema etc), how dare he! How dare he ask you to buy the next round of drinks!!!

So are you saying that this would make you feel very upset?

He asked if you would buy the next round of drinks?

Some of the advice given to you on here is truly laughable.

One person in particular who is what, in her 50's, a sex worker, has a transexual gf. To that person, would you charge your transexual girlfriend money to take you on a date, or does she charge you?

The bottom line is that young ts girls (either sex workers or not) are attracted to men, they are not attracted to other trans or women (or maybe 10-20%, but they want a boyfriend). What boyfriend in their right mind would simply expect to put up with a greedy and selfish ts girl, when he has the goods to simply find another one or a real girl who will be kind and friendly and not see a relationship as some sort of money agreement.

This is what prostitution does. You have been tarnished now. You seem to think a relationship is an exchange between sex and money. It doesnt work like that in the real world. A proper relationship is about love, not about money. A relationship that works is one about companionship and about mutual love for each other.

It is because you love each other that you have sex, to make love, to feel something special, to have the connection with the person you love, with the guy you fancy and who makes you go weak at the knees. Its not about money, its not about 'oooh, does he have 9 inch dick or is it 11 inches?' It is about who you feel special with, if you fancy him, if he turns you on and you feel good together.

Otherwise you can expect never ever to get married and definately never to meet anyone who loves you for you and not for something between your legs because he sees you as a freak or something, his little pet freak that he will pay for sex in return to keep you quiet whilst he goes and marries a rich regular girl and has a family with her, is that what you want?

Love is not about money. Find a guy that you fancy (if he fancies you), go on a few dates with him, see how things go. If he treats you well, forget about who pays what or when, he will probably pay at least his half anyway, then if you feel the spark and the romance is there, that you get good vibes and slowly you can trust him, you know he is your man.

There are good men out there.

But expect your relationship to end as soon as he finds out you are a prostitute, thats for sure in 90% of cases.

You missed the enire point.... The question was to guys who are in relationships with TRANNYS, so if u would have read the whole thread before posting u woulda saved yourself a lot of time writing such irrelevant nonsense

If you actually took heed of advice, that was neither supposed to be 'against' or 'buttlicking' you might actually learn something.

But, youll carry on doing the same shit, listening to the same fools (look at the state of them in the whole scheme of things) and carry on dating the same idiots and expecting a beautiful male adonis with lots of money who will stay totally faithful to his transexual prostitute girlfriend

Come on, its about living in the real world.

Just think like a real girl for a minute. YOU ARE A WOMAN! So think like one!

If all these women can have regular relationships and get married, why can you not?

How many female prostitutes end up with great caring families and gorgeous husbands?

Be honest with yourself rather than try to attack me or pull off a snide remark.

You're a nice looking girl, save up for an education, when youve got it, you can get a nice regular job with nice regular people and get a nice relationship with a guy you fancy.

Yourself and others will end up with absolutely nothing in the long run, if you continue on self destruct mode. Im not trying to be rude, just writing advice.

Your choice whether you take it though. Anyway, maybe youll find the guy for you in the future, if/when he comes along...THINK...be normal!

Dont be 'hmmm this is a business transaction, you get to fuk me if you buy me things'...you want to date a guy, you dont want to be his dirty secret he has whilst he is secretly in a relationship with pretty real girl from a wealthy family, you dont want to be his little pet freak do you...you want to be his beautiful girlfriend, and the pair of you are faithful and in love...just think how true lovers act. Its got nothing to do with money or who pays for what.

Just some friendly advice. Love is far superior than money, it is also far harder to come by.

[RubyTS]

its not firendly advice, ur makins assumptions on what type of person i am and u dont even know me.

I dont feel a relationship is a business transaction, but if u really think about it, how many women lock men into relatiosnips by purposely getting pregnant? How many women do u know who would rather date a plumber over a doctor?

IF i were to involve myself in a relationship., YES he would have to be hott and hung, faithful, he would need a car, he needs to have a good well paying job. This is not up forr debate! its my own personal preference and its not gonna change.

Im not gonna date someone im not attracted to!
Im not gonna date someone who cant satisfy in the bedroom!
Im not gonna date someone who cant do things for me that i can already do for myself

Until then, im happy to remain single and an escort. And like this girl said earlier, its just as easy to fall in love with a rich guy. (not that in looking for a rich guy but it would be nice)

[phobun]

If all these women can have regular relationships and get married, why can you not?

How many female prostitutes end up with great caring families and gorgeous husbands?

Oh get real, silly! Pretty Woman was a fucking documentary. Everyone knows gerbil boy was doing a reality show. And of course Disney edited out that Cinderella was a working girl too. But she ended up happily ever after!

Just some friendly advice. Love is far superior than money, it is also far harder to come by.

Much of your advice is just common sense if people just sit down and consider potential consequences over the long-term.

My sense is that this ability gets lost the longer one is in the business.

The mark of a jaded prostitute, who has sort of lost touch, is that she begins to see every guy as a john, or at least willing to pay for sex. For too many prostitutes, their entire outlook and personality gets corrupted by this demeaning work, and it is a slow downward spiral. Listen to the tales from that choker Spitzer's whores... physical and emotional abuse is all too common, not to mention the fear from the danger of catching something (genital warts, herpes and the serious STDs); all this takes a toll, and it is surprising that drug abuse by prostitutes is not more common as a means of escape. All the emotional baggage is too much for most self-respecting guys (who would want it?), and they will almost always choose a less attractive girl, who is not a call-girl, as the better option.

Besides, there is such a cynical view about marriage anyways, that people are gold-diggers and such, so why would a guy choose a professional faker who sells herself for cash as a wife? I think most guys would perceive that option as a set-up for failure.

[dj4monie]

I've said it once and I'll say it again. American TS take on the WORST traits of an American Genetic Woman. Saying many woman would rather marry a doctor than a plumber. I guess she's just thinks "Joe The Plumber" is typical and only makes 30-35K a year. That would be false, because for ONE he's not an actual plumber he's a a Plumber In Training, my god the man was on Welfare once... He's WHITE TRASH, period.

The average plumber makes about 50K or more a year. Doctors don't make as much as they used too when you add in malpractice insurance.

Its seem all half way decent looking women feel they deserve the sexiest, richest man they can get. Good looking and Money bring a whole multitude of problems nobody even thinks about until its too late, nor does it automatically mean you'll have a happy and successful relationship.

Rich good-looking men beat their wives too...

Some people think I'm out of line for demanding any T girl I was involved with to sound, move and look like any other girl out there and I prefer post op contrary to many on this board, I don't have a "thing" for she-dick it does nothing for me.

Many providers have successfully married a "John" or some guy they met "off duty". In the case of the man they met off duty, many do not tell of their past life and often relocate to further distance themselves from their former lifestyle. That is concealing the truth, is it fair that the man your with or married doesn't know about your past life? Doesn't he have the right to know?

They are plenty of nice looking, faithful men that would date or marry a T-girl, even if they never considered it otherwise.

I also understand the desire to find a protector, somebody that will confront those people out there that have clocked you and resort to physical violence like they killed your mother and not just said "That's a Boy!". What's the saying "Sticks and Stones....." If you wanna date these pee-brained papi chulos and black thugs, go ahead. They'll more than likely end up in jail or dead as corp thugs don't exist, its a fabrication.

Nice men finish last but only until your a GG past her "best used before" date has 1 or 2 children from fair weather males/husbands and nobody wants an old T-Girl, but that's when dating Nice Men is finally acceptable...

I call that "Damaged Goods"

[russtafa]

im worried that one wants to move in with me and i dont know if shes right for me

[Teydyn]

ur makins assumptions on what type of person i am and u dont even know me.

he would have to be hott and hung
he would need a car
he needs to have a good well paying job.

You dont have a relationship with a cock, a car or a job.

Thats just bonus.

The personality is the one and only thing important for a good, long relationship. I hope you realize that before you are old.

[RubyTS]

ur makins assumptions on what type of person i am and u dont even know me.

he would have to be hott and hung
he would need a car
he needs to have a good well paying job.

You dont have a relationship with a cock, a car or a job.

Thats just bonus.

The personality is the one and only thing important for a good, long relationship. I hope you realize that before you are old.

Yes i do realize that. If i were to simply fall in love with someone then what can i say? What will be will be. I dont see that happening through the means of which i meet people now. I would not invest my time in getting to know someone that im not physically attracted to.

[ef9hatchman]

ur makins assumptions on what type of person i am and u dont even know me.

he would have to be hott and hung
he would need a car
he needs to have a good well paying job.

You dont have a relationship with a cock, a car or a job.

Thats just bonus.

The personality is the one and only thing important for a good, long relationship. I hope you realize that before you are old.

Yes i do realize that. If i were to simply fall in love with someone then what can i say? What will be will be. I dont see that happening through the means of which i meet people now. I would not invest my time in getting to know someone that im not physically attracted to.

Awe Rubes talking about falling in love....Imma cut u if u do lol J.K Have fun in NJ

[Ts CinthyaNY]

IF i were to involve myself in a relationship., YES he would have to be hott and hung, faithful, he would need a car, he needs to have a good well paying job. This is not up forr debate! its my own personal preference and its not gonna change.

Im not gonna date someone im not attracted to!
Im not gonna date someone who cant satisfy in the bedroom!
Im not gonna date someone who cant do things for me that i can already do for myself

Until then, im happy to remain single and an escort. And like this girl said earlier, its just as easy to fall in love with a rich guy. (not that in looking for a rich guy but it would be nice)

Good girl.... Your said Ruby... Some man find hard to believe this but we all have our perfect man in mind and love start in sight . Most guys here overrated us about we being whores even in our relationships and it's not completely true.

We can find our true love in the average Joe, without this one to be a thug or someone who abuse us but instead a guy who may be supporting us all the way in every decision we make, that's love.

If a guy who is looking for love with a TS he better be ready to live with it and open up to society, family and more. It require a great level of maturity to carry a relationship with a TS woman and who escort for a living, unfortunately those men are hard to find.

Love...

Cinthya.