(For the ladies) Would you be able to handle ...

[JANIRA]

Your boyfriend being accepting of job :Escorting /Adult business? Ok , I know some Girls that would & some that can't Why well.. ok, I have heard from my fellow Tgirl friends that if a guy is accepting of what she does that he does not really care for her ,& I also have heard that if the guy loves her he has to understand that it is only a job. Its kinda of a double ended sword. What is your take on this.?

[MrsKellyPierce]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Your boyfriend being accepting of job :Escorting /Adult business? Ok , I know some Girls that would & some that can't Why well.. ok, I have heard from my fellow Tgirl friends that if a guy is accepting of what she does that he does not really care for her ,& I also have heard that if the guy loves her he has to understand that it is only a job. Its kinda of a double ended sword. What is your take on this.?

It's a hard situation to manage IMO. I see it this way: If a guy is "inlove" with you he would have no choice but bite his tongue close his eyes and ears and pretend everything's fine on his end dating you. Eventually though (through time) he wouldn't be able to deny the fact that you are having sex with different men and that would cause him to question his relationship with you. E.G. If he allows you to sleep with other men wouldn't he be allowed to do the same and sleep with other transexuals or women? And If you are OK with it (just to keep the relationship with him) then it's become an open relationship where both of you are at RISK of falling for another guy or girl. This is sorta like when a couples invites a third for a 3 way. The dynamics of your whole relationship changes. I mean, could you really "share" the guy you are inlove with with someone else? It's the same thing just in complete reverse when it comes to guys. Any guy who says it's OK are lying through their front teeth because they either don't really care for you enough to admit it or they're just buying time (crunching numbers) for when the right girl tgirl comes along.

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[JamesHunt]

forget it

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved?

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[TJ347]

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved?

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None that don't involve actual work, which is why you'll be waiting a good while I imagine for a response, much less one that isn't a scathing attack on you as a person given that you dare say what I've gathered should never be said here... GET A REAL FUCKING JOB.

Thank you.

Sorry... this thread was for the ladies, wasn't it? Pardon the interruption... I'll now let Hara continue being the voice of reason on her own.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I agree with the last part. I do porn to raise money for surgeries. It's a job.

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved?

~Kisses.

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I work also, but I'd like to be young still lol

However I just can't see this being true. To love someone is one thing, and people do OPEN RELATIONSHIPS all the time and it works for them. So whats the difference?

We all love differently and only we can tell US what is the perfect relationship and what works. Noone else can judge you or take that gratification from you, if you are truly in love.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL Well No one said escorting is a dead end job. Girls could use it as a stepping stone..make those coins, save it and use part of it to go back to college and get a degree. Then get a decent job and quit escorting all together.

The problem is not every girl wants to work hard to get the proper education they need to ready themselves before their beauty fades.

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[MrsKellyPierce]

That's TRUE. But aren't there any other job that won't add complications (As if dating a TG isn't complicated enough) and would allow you to have an LTR type of relationship with a guy without the unnecessary drama involved?

~Kisses.

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None that don't involve actual work, which is why you'll be waiting a good while I imagine for a response, much less one that isn't a scathing attack on you as a person given that you dare say what I've gathered should never be said here... GET A REAL FUCKING JOB.


Sorry... this thread was for the ladies, wasn't it? Pardon the interruption... I'll now let Hara continue being the voice of reason on her own.

TJ I like you the other day, now not so much once again. I have a real "fucking" job. But I'd be working till I was 30 for all the surgeries I want. And I live my life for me and not through other people's eyes.


And if you don't think what Allanah does or Vicki does isn't hard work and dedication. You are fucking stupid. I've only done a few and porn is a lot harder than I thought it was gonna be.

Same with escorting girls there is it's hard points too, so for you to demean them you are a crackjack and blowing your own horn.

Thank you.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Kel I think you're over reacting. The opinions given according to what Janira posted..The situation she gave were answered and addressed in a general tone and was NOT aimed particularly at you or anyone on this board.

But seriously though, An escort is only a hot commodity while she is beautiful, thin and young. Once those selling points are all gone..well you get the picture.

~Kisses.

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