(For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....

[wombat33]

Relationship with a Tgirl who is a escort /adult business ? This thread arose , because I was asked "What will or what does your boyfriend think of you doing this"? I answered honestly, i am single, "By choice" , and i have been in relationships and it has cause some sort of chaotic episode,and also have been with someone who was totally accepting , because he knew how to separate " MY JOB, FROM MY PERSONAL LIFE" I know this is a very touchy subject for some of you, but i would love to hear some different point of views on this.

I saw an escort a while back. I really really liked her as a person as well as a gorgeous creature.

I we became friends. I told her I would date her in a minute and would proudly walk awith her as my girl if she ever wanted. The escort thing would not bother me much at all except for the possibility of diseases.

Other than that I would be ok with it. I dated a stripper a long time ago. Not much different.

[DJ_Asia]

I dated a stripper a long time ago. Not much different.

Yeah except strippers cell phones arent ringing every two minutes.

[Night Rider]

I dated a stripper a long time ago. Not much different.

Yeah except strippers cell phones arent ringing every two minutes.

..and strippers don't come home smelling of cock

[goldtop]

I absolutely could not deal with it. I suspect my psyche is also too fragile to handle a relationship with someone who even used to escort

[BeardedOne]

I've had relationships with people in the sex industry and don't recall any issues about it. It helps that I am poly to begin with and try to gravitate towards people with a fair amount of intelligence and common sense (Therefore they are careful in their profession). Though these relationships changed and ended in various ways, it was never because of their chosen profession (At least not so far as I was concerned, I can't speak for their thoughts and feelings on the matter).

Of course, there is always a level of jealousy, as much a variety of any that relates to a home/work balance. "You love that job more than you love me!"

As to the phone ringing every five minutes: I'd expect my lover to have the courtesy and good sense to turn the damned thing off when they want some downtime.

[TJ347]

Shy Guy and braveman summed things up nicely, no? Well of course they did. And why hasn't a single man stepped up and said that he'd be willing to have a real relationship with an escort if, as some escorts have claimed, there are so many men willing to?

We didn't even need an episode of Myth Busters to disprove that theory...

[Night Rider]

99% of people that say they wouldn't have a relationaship with a stunning escort are lying....let's keep some reality in the subject.

[GrimFusion]

Relationship with a Tgirl who is a escort /adult business ? This thread arose , because I was asked "What will or what does your boyfriend think of you doing this"? I answered honestly, i am single, "By choice" , and i have been in relationships and it has cause some sort of chaotic episode,and also have been with someone who was totally accepting , because he knew how to separate " MY JOB, FROM MY PERSONAL LIFE" I know this is a very touchy subject for some of you, but i would love to hear some different point of views on this.

Honestly, I don't think I could. I think any QUALITY dude that says he's OK with it is full of shit. There's a laundry list of reasons a dude would say "yes" but really mean "no".
He might think he cares about you enough that escorting wouldn't get in the way.
He may think things are good temporarily and a breakup may be inevitable anyhow, so why not say yes?
He might be so desperate or fetish-drawn that he says "yes" just to keep from losing her.
He might be a quality guy and actually think it just won't get in the way, but shit like that has a way of becoming a problem anyhow.

[redtiger]

I'll answer this question with a couple of questions.

If a TS should eventually find someone to be in a LTR with, chances are she's gonna pull down more money annually [from escorting] than he does at his job. Can the guy she's with handle her pulling down more money than him? Can she handle the idea of him making less money than she does?

[Night Rider]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.