(For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....

[slinky]

Are we only talking about Tgirls here, or anyone of any gender who is an escort/in the adult biz?

"TGIRLS"

Well, then the answer is "I think so" (if it were anyone of any gender, it would be "I know so and have").

One of the biggest problems dating someone who is an escort is that you almost always end up with this Catch-22: If you want them to leave the business, then you are a controlling asshole. But if you don't want them to leave the business, you are cold and uncaring, because "if you really loved me you couldn't deal with me doing this".

[JamesHunt]

[quote="Danny partridge"][quote="JANIRA"]

If you want them to leave the business, then you are a controlling asshole.

Not neccesarily, it's what she wants to hear, if you're worth it, LOL

[Floyd R]

I personally could not have a relationship with a woman that escorts.

[alphanumeric]

I would have to say no, I was in two relationships like that and it did bother me, but to honest what really broke us up was their drug use more than anything else.

[mbf]

I have been there.

in fact, after some time you will just ignore all the bad stuff that comes with it, simply bc you like/love your GF. I furthermore had the strong feeling she needed the feeling of beeing loved to balance out all the BS that comes with escorting.

but without an exit-strategy those relationships will NEVER work. the problem, like stated repeatedly before on this board is, an escort SHOULD save money and be planning seriously a career for the time after her prime. will she do it? according to what she says - yes - but in reality it didnt happen.

why? she was used to all the money and the spending, and wasnt able to change that disposition.

an addendum: as long as you havent been actually in a situation like the scenario described by the OP, you cant really asnwer the question meaningfully. you can "imagine" a lot of things, but when those imaginations become reality, its a whole different ballgame.

[gunn]

I would want you all for my self.No shearing

[Bluejay]

I can't be bothered to explain any more, but yes it can be done if you can seperate love and sex in your relationship.

[TheShyGuy]

NO way! A girl like that is for having fun with once in a while, not a relationship. A relationship is way more than just sex. For example, youre at the museum together or a game and she runs into a client or her phone is constantly ringing and each call is someone who's going to do your GIRL. It's not even like it's being "controlling". Just imagine wondering every time you have sex with her if she's been using protection and maybe if she slipped once...now you have it. Not to mention every time you kiss her...uggghh. gross.

[theone]

Honestly, I don't think I could.

I don't wish to be derogatory in my comment, however, I am a strong believer in committed monogamous relationships.

As had been mentioned before, I do not associate love with sex, yet I would be concerned about the potential risk for infection.

This is a very good thread Janira, and people have added some very good comments. Kudos to all.

[Night Rider]

I could if they bought me nice things

LOL So you mean, you would tolerate her escorting just because she buys you nice things (buying your silence with $)? LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

I was joking, I'd need to love her and all that emotional connection stuff :P But I wouldn't say no to a few gifts LOL