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    Default (For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....

    Relationship with a Tgirl who is a escort /adult business ? This thread arose , because I was asked "What will or what does your boyfriend think of you doing this"? I answered honestly, i am single, "By choice" , and i have been in relationships and it has cause some sort of chaotic episode,and also have been with someone who was totally accepting , because he knew how to separate " MY JOB, FROM MY PERSONAL LIFE" I know this is a very touchy subject for some of you, but i would love to hear some different point of views on this.


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    I wouldn't like it but I could deal with it. If it didn't ruin our sex life then I could tolerate it.



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    Default Re: (For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....

    Quote Originally Posted by JANIRA
    Relationship with a Tgirl who is a escort /adult business ? This thread arose , because I was asked "What will or what does your boyfriend think of you doing this"? I answered honestly, i am single, "By choice" , and i have been in relationships and it has cause some sort of chaotic episode,and also have been with someone who was totally accepting , because he knew how to separate " MY JOB, FROM MY PERSONAL LIFE" I know this is a very touchy subject for some of you, but i would love to hear some different point of views on this.
    Janira hun, I have re-logged into the forum to answer your question. If I hit it off with a GG/TG, who escorts, fucks 4 money etc... she would have to pack it in immediately. If she came out with the excuse that I my income couldn't support her lifestyle, she'd be dumped immediately. Hope this helps



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    I would not / could not have relationship with ts or a gg who is in the adult industry. When I am in a relationship it is monogamous. The opportunity / potential for complications in a relationship are difficult but adding the strain of knowing your partner is having sex with someone else would be too difficult to bear.

    One man's feelings on the subject. My hat is off to those who can sustain a relationship while in the business.

    BTW, my reasoning has nothing to do with a lack of self-confidence or with low self-esteem.


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    I could if they bought me nice things



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    If I could have sex with other people too it might be okay.

    I was enaged to a stripper for two years- I was a stripper myself- and she was not jealous of the women I danced for and I wasn't jealous of the men she danced for. We once had a couple that wanted to sleep with us, but we never did.

    after we broke up I kind of "dated" generous older women before my career took off about 7 years ago.

    I think my college experience was a little different than most peoples

    Sooo ...yea maybe it wouldn't be a big deal if all things were equal or we had an understanding


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    I'm a stingy mutherfucker, I couldn't do it. I could have a relationship with a girl that used to do it though.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Night Rider
    I could if they bought me nice things
    LOL So you mean, you would tolerate her escorting just because she buys you nice things (buying your silence with $)? LOL

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    I could do it, provided I didn't really care about her at all. But then, it wouldn't make sense to me to be involved with someone I didn't care about. So, I guess the answer is no. No, I couldn't do it.


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    I don't know. It might depend on how often she does it. If she makes her living off of it, probably not. I'm not entirely convinced that it won't interfere with the relationship. I don't like the idea of leaving so some chump can come and screw my girl, sorry. In a relationship like that, I think I'd want the opportunity to see other women while she's doing her thing, otherwise I think I'd feel... slighted. Ultimately, while she's doing it I think I'd be wasting my time.

    By the way, I have absolutely nothing against girls who escort to make that paper. Do your thing.


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