(For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....

[Tobe]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.

There's a big difference b/w drooling over a girl's picture and actually having a relationship with her. In a LTR, a person's personality and other qualities become more important than their appearance. I've known many smoking hot girls with whom I'd be miserable.

As far as having a relationship with an escort... It's hard enough to get a relationship to work well at baseline; the extra baggage is just asking for trouble: Emotional/attachment issues, STD risks, dangers of violence, etc.

Personally, I could not handle my girl being with someone else while also dating me. In this case, I don't believe that work can be separated from one's personal life effectively.

[TJ347]

I'll answer this question with a couple of questions.

If a TS should eventually find someone to be in a LTR with, chances are she's gonna pull down more money annually [from escorting] than he does at his job. Can the guy she's with handle her pulling down more money than him? Can she handle the idea of him making less money than she does?

Right from the start, you're assuming a TS is automatically going to be employed in the lucrative field of escorting, which is particularly interesting to me, but I'll move on with respect to that...

"Can the guy she's with handle her pulling down more money than him?" Obviously, it depends on the guy, and similarly it depends on the woman as to whether she could deal with him making less money than she does, but that's all really irrelevant. What's relevant is that the success of this possible LTR in the scenario you give is based entirely on money, and if the more traditional relationships between GGs and men are anything to go on, LTRs like that don't really work... even in cases where neither one is employed in the sex trade. Thus, we can expect that in a situation such as you've described, it'd be more of the same, though I'd imagine such a relationship would probably disintegrate faster. But then, when you consider the types of guys who get into these "relationships", they're looking to be taken care of anyway, so they'd probably stick around at least long enough to find someone else to mooch off of, rather than let their pride get in the way.

I was also going to reply to Night Rider's comment, but Tobe said it all really, so...

[JamesHunt]

99% of people that say they wouldn't have a relationaship with a stunning escort are lying....let's keep some reality in the subject.

I assume this is a joke?

[Night Rider]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.

There's a big difference b/w drooling over a girl's picture and actually having a relationship with her. In a LTR, a person's personality and other qualities become more important than their appearance. I've known many smoking hot girls with whom I'd be miserable.

As far as having a relationship with an escort... It's hard enough to get a relationship to work well at baseline; the extra baggage is just asking for trouble: Emotional/attachment issues, STD risks, dangers of violence, etc.

Personally, I could not handle my girl being with someone else while also dating me. In this case, I don't believe that work can be separated from one's personal life effectively.

Maybe your the 1%, but I don't care what the rest say, If the sexiest escort (whoever that is) was to ask them out then they wouldn't decline. That goes for you too James, you're a heavey drooler...

Men don't care about the hang ups, it's in our genes to be shallow and not give a fuck.

[Fox]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.

There's a big difference b/w drooling over a girl's picture and actually having a relationship with her. In a LTR, a person's personality and other qualities become more important than their appearance. I've known many smoking hot girls with whom I'd be miserable.

As far as having a relationship with an escort... It's hard enough to get a relationship to work well at baseline; the extra baggage is just asking for trouble: Emotional/attachment issues, STD risks, dangers of violence, etc.

Personally, I could not handle my girl being with someone else while also dating me. In this case, I don't believe that work can be separated from one's personal life effectively.

Maybe your the 1%, but I don't care what the rest say, If the sexiest escort (whoever that is) was to ask them out then they wouldn't decline. That goes for you too James, you're a heavey drooler...

Men don't care about the hang ups, it's in our genes to be shallow and not give a fuck.

no u

[Night Rider]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.

There's a big difference b/w drooling over a girl's picture and actually having a relationship with her. In a LTR, a person's personality and other qualities become more important than their appearance. I've known many smoking hot girls with whom I'd be miserable.

As far as having a relationship with an escort... It's hard enough to get a relationship to work well at baseline; the extra baggage is just asking for trouble: Emotional/attachment issues, STD risks, dangers of violence, etc.

Personally, I could not handle my girl being with someone else while also dating me. In this case, I don't believe that work can be separated from one's personal life effectively.

Maybe your the 1%, but I don't care what the rest say, If the sexiest escort (whoever that is) was to ask them out then they wouldn't decline. That goes for you too James, you're a heavey drooler...

Men don't care about the hang ups, it's in our genes to be shallow and not give a fuck.

no u

I'm afraid you're in the minority, my friend. My statistics might be wrong, because I forgot where I was for a minute. There are a lot of closet homos that think and act like bitches, I'm not saying you're one of them.

[Fox]

Heh, either way, I was just looking for an excuse to post that.

[Night Rider]

Well I'm glad you got that off your chest..

[yosi]

All I will say is, some of the guys that say they wouldn't have a LTR with an escort, are the same guys drooling over them here.

will YOU have LTR with a escort?

[MacShreach]

I dated a stripper a long time ago. Not much different.

Yeah except strippers cell phones arent ringing every two minutes.

..and strippers don't come home smelling of cock

Maybe it's just me but smelling of arse is so much nastier....

But the answer is, yes, I have had relationships with escorts and continue to. I see them, we have a nice time, I fuck them, we talk some, I pay them. There's nothing in the john-whore arrangement says you can't have a relationship. But it will always be a john-whore relationship.

But a SO relationship with a working escort? No, I have never tried and never would. Sorry, she would have to stop.