Should I get the chop???

[lust4ts]

Im sure it was directed mainly at the guys, but i just like to say my POV, I am not fond of girls jumping , or rushing into something. Call me mother theresa ,..lol... i just like offering advise, which when i was transitioning i never had, so i would think from a fellow tgirl that it would be comforting for her to hear different views on her topic.

Totally, what you said was very sweet and from the heart. I didn't mean it in a negative way, it's that when someone writes something from the heart like you did, it's kind of hard thinking of it falling on deaf ears. Like I said I may just be a cynic!

[JANIRA]

lollll ... i know what you mean

[lust4ts]

lollll ... i know what you mean

Maybe I've just had a few too many drinks, and I'm emotional tonight it was just a really nice and helpful thing you wrote, just maybe a little too nice in the context of the threads purpose, but like I said that just shows you are a caring person................Damn, no more fucking drink for me, otherwise I think I'm going to cry lol

[whatsupwithat]

Sweety i think you need to do alooooooooot of research! This is not like your buy a dress & your asking "DO YOU LIKE HOW THIS LOOKS ON ME?" Its a extremely delicate matter, the one that knows weather its for you or not is you , no one else. I know a few post-ops that before the change they had this idea, actually this mind set , that once they went forth with the SRS that their lives would be filled with less problems, and that they will be happier, and that haveing this done wil put a end to all their problems" "NOT TRUE". Im not saying that you will have the same outcome, who knows maybe you wil have great sucsess from getting the SRS. Just think it through sweety . aswell as knowing the post -ops i just mentioned i also know some that have done it and have great results, and they feel& seem very happy with what they did. Its just when girls think that getting the SRS will solve all their problems that some end up disillusioned , and wondering why.Im speaking on girls who i know & who i have spoken with and what they have said to me. Many post-ops are happy, and many are not. Just think it throughly and get as much as info as you can from docters, physciatrists , and so one. SRS, is not for everyone.

you made the points i would've made. it's right for some, not for others. the choice doesn't come bearing gifts, but it can bring an internal peace if it's what you truly, truly want...and i guess that is a gift.

but as lust4ts pointed out, one look at the poll choices shows the true intent of the thread.

[whatislove]

For the skimmers, TB is keeping her hair. But way to go Janira! Great answer.

go for it, love short hair on a girl.

[lust4ts]

See that kind of goes to my point why threads like this aren't funny, people such as Janira and others offer true advice from the heart, out of the kindness of their heart, to find it was a joke all along

[Night Rider]

See that kind of goes to my point why threads like this aren't funny, people such as Janira and others offer true advice from the heart, out of the kindness of their heart, to find it was a joke all along

I fell into the trap too, but it was pretty funny!

[lust4ts]

Maybe NR, I'm pretty drunk right now and emotional though, and I thought what Janira wrote was really sweet and caring, maybe too many beers down the pub that's all, who knows

[Night Rider]

Maybe NR, I'm pretty drunk right now and emotional though, and I thought what Janira wrote was really sweet and caring, maybe too many beers down the pub that's all, who knows

LOL

I've been there myself (walking the emotional tightrope!)

Luckily I've been off the drink tonight but tomorrow should be messy..

[lust4ts]

Maybe NR, I'm pretty drunk right now and emotional though, and I thought what Janira wrote was really sweet and caring, maybe too many beers down the pub that's all, who knows

LOL

I've been there myself (walking the emotional tightrope!)

Luckily I've been off the drink tonight but tomorrow should be messy..

Yeah it either goes one of two ways with me, trying to fight everyone, or acting like a bitch, I don't know which one is worse