Why so shallow?

[GrimFusion]

You not getting a hot Hunangel has something to do with Camilia d'Castro's death?!

Please explain?

None of this conversation has anything to do with me. It's just a trend I've noticed. I'm in NO WAY trying to disrespect Camilla. I was just bringing her up as a means to support my argument. She leaped off the top of a building because despite looking, she couldn't find anyone she felt genuinely loved her. Sure, it may be an assumption, but I suggest that perhaps she wasn't looking in the right place and simply expected too much out of a dude.

It doesn't have to be about relationships or lovey-dovey bull shit, though. I just notice that most TGs downright don't have anything to do with average-looking men outside of escorting and I don't think that having to deal with less-than-desirable dudes while running tricks has much to do with it.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Yeah, it makes sense. I just have problems understanding what determines a guy attractive enough to be easy to deal with.

It all boils down to one's preference I suppose since beauty is subjective.

I mean, you make it sound like the only assholes in the world are all ugly as hell.

On the contrary. I actually didn't mean it like that. I have met lesser attractive men who are extremely nice and are perfect gentlemen. :P But making it to my bed is a different story! LOL

Why have sex or sexual attraction be a quotient at all when a chick selects guys worth talking to, hanging out with, or befriending?

I don't personally get that either. I had guy friends whom I didn't find attractive also. But the thing is..sometimes they are damn too slow to get it! That I am NOT into them and only wants us to be good friends.

As far as logic is concerned, I'd think they'd do just the opposite, since attractive men are usually far more high maintenance and high drama than average dudes. You'd think that going to a club with an average dude on your arm would just make you look better. I mean, am I totally off the right track here?

If women and tgirls are "wise" and would follow "logic" everyone would be dating ugly/undesirable men but one who can take care of them and offer financial security.

~Kisses.

HTG

[GrimFusion]

Oh and while I'm here...

You are absolutely right honey. T-girls are narcissict bitches who are in love with themselves and your money...

And sadly the honest Joe often doesn't get a chance. How is his blue collar job going to compare with her six figure income? And if you are talking non escort, non-porn star "real" TS - who doesn't look like a truck driver - the pickings are slim.

So you either lower your standards and find a nice girl who will love you even if you aren't Brad Pitt. Or you move to Hollywood, get a house in Malibu and a porsche and plastic surgery until you DO look like Brad and find a shallow gold digging bitch - like most hollywood sorts end up with...

Giggle,
TS Jamie

Please excuse me while I mix another drink... or slit my wrists...

WOW. That is the kind of honesty I like. I wish everyone were that blunt. I think that was the answer I was searching for. I know it's pretty Captain Obvious shit, but nobody ever has the guts to actually lay it out on the table like that and because the topic is a bit taboo, it lead me to thinking that it might just be some OTHER reason.

That's kinda upsetting, really. I've never thought of myself being the type of guy who'd shell out for sex, but now I kinda realize that because I do fall into that blue collar, average group of guys; it's either throw down some cash and unrealistically hope that an escort sees something in me she hasn't seen in the 20-some guys before me that day, or just put up with the fact that my interests, no matter what their intentions, are going to go on completely undiscovered.

That's kinda depressing. lol.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

And if you are talking non escort, non-porn star "real" TS - who doesn't look like a truck driver - the pickings are slim.

So you either lower your standards

This pretty much sums it up! but Ive to add..

So you either lower your standards (accept her for everything that she is including flaws) or settle for a ts that looks like a truck driver. LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

[MrsKellyPierce]

cause I am

[GrimFusion]

cause I am

Good answer! Pfft! You're such a dildo. lol.

[MrsKellyPierce]

hehe hee

[submisboi]

here's the thing see, they take their clothes off in front of the whole world, so they obviously have alot of fans. if they were to be friends with all of them then they would have no time to take their clothes of for us.

[mimiplastique]

here's the thing see, they take their clothes off in front of the whole world, so they obviously have alot of fans. if they were to be friends with all of them then they would have no time to take their clothes of for us.

SO TRUE!!!!
but at the same time just like every man had a dream girl so do us tgirls i mean you guys are very picky over who you will date too i would give an example but i do not want to stir up any hard feeling s

[GrimFusion]

here's the thing see, they take their clothes off in front of the whole world, so they obviously have alot of fans. if they were to be friends with all of them then they would have no time to take their clothes of for us.

SO TRUE!!!!
but at the same time just like every man had a dream girl so do us tgirls i mean you guys are very picky over who you will date too i would give an example but i do not want to stir up any hard feeling s

I don't think I'm an exception here... and I'm not very picky. My ex and I lasted two years and I told her right from the start that had we not been friends for 3 years before our relationship, I would have NEVER approached her about it. I wasn't attracted to her and our likes, opinions, hobbies, and beliefs were total opposite to each other. Contradictory to that, we had a long, good relationship. Not because I coward the whole time, but because she grew on me and I learned to love her despite our differences. We broke up because she moved away. If she ever moves back, I'm sure we'll at least attempt getting back together.

My point is that while you seem to be proclaiming that you're shallow and have every right to be (I'm not saying it's wrong or that you don't have the right, mind you), you're balancing the argument by saying all of us are equally as shallow. See the fallacy here?