Ashamed of being TS !!!

[Bing147]

Danielle, I feel badly about you getting that message, no decent human being should do that to another.

That said, I can sort of understand where they're coming with on the racist comments. Racism isn't just hating all people of a different race, its treating people of a certain race a certain way because of their race. You admit to doing that when you say you don't see black men. That is by definition racist. You group all people of a certain race together, saying that because some have stiffed you you'll assume all will.

Its your job and you have the right to see whoever you want. If you're just not attracted to black men and choose not to see them for that reason, that's fine, as long as one doesn't see anyone they aren't attracted to. I'm a clean cut white guy. I'm also fairly overweight. Admittedly not the most attractive guy around. Would you not see me because of this? If so, fair enough, but most escorts realize its a job and they aren't being paid to be attracted to the guy. Your time, your choice how to use it, but the reasoning you used was by definition racist.

As for the whole ebonics issue you brought up, I can perfectly understand not wanting to see someone using it over the phone. But what about a college educated black man who called you speaking perfect english. What reason is there not to see him?

[TJ347]

Just wanted to chime in again here, after which point I'll keep it moving, as this thread really isn't going anywhere, and won't...

If an escort chooses not to see a client because of his race, religion, accent... whatever, then fuck 'em is my opinion. There are other escorts out there, as hot or hotter even. Now, I didn't always feel that way, but that's where I'm at today. Next week, I may modify my position a bit.

In any event, the only issues I have with an escort refusing minority clients at present is when the escort in question is herself a minority. People with self-hate issues simply piss me off to no end, and no justifications I've heard to date have ever convinced me that those escorts who fit the above scenario don't have issues with their own identities.

Black guys want to haggle, Latinos have accents, Middle Easterners wear turbans... Any reason an escort gives for her particular "restrictions", they ultimately breakdown to being rather traditional stereotypes. Funny thing is, if someone were to stereotype them as simply being effeminate gay men, these women would have the audacity to be offended, as if the things they've said were any less insulting. Not that I care, mind you. I'm out of the escort game, and could give a shit who sees whom, or why. I just want to call it for what it is very clearly one time... bigotry. Case closed.