Anyone ever do the "Dinner Date" escort thing?

[TsVanessa69]

Even if they didn't have to pay, would a guy in REAL time, not cyber time, actually take a ts to dinner. I get tons of fake invites, yet never happens. The only "dinner" dates I actually had were from paying clients. And those were few. And trust me for a quality escort guys spend wayyy more than $75. I just have found that most guys pay and escort for a fuck and dash. A few memebers of HA from NY post on the board and PM me that they would gladly take me to dinner, and I'm heading that way, lets see how many were real. I hope at least one. Just to keep my hope alive, LOL

[TsJennifer]

I have had lots of clients take me on dinner dates. I think its a great way of making an intimate connection. I feel you have a better encounter when you get to know each other. I get paid a lot more than $75....lol I never heard of that...lol

Jennifer Paris

[Danielle Foxxx]

Never tried it

[hwbs]

Even if they didn't have to pay, would a guy in REAL time, not cyber time, actually take a ts to dinner. I get tons of fake invites, yet never happens. The only "dinner" dates I actually had were from paying clients. And those were few. And trust me for a quality escort guys spend wayyy more than $75. I just have found that most guys pay and escort for a fuck and dash. A few memebers of HA from NY post on the board and PM me that they would gladly take me to dinner, and I'm heading that way, lets see how many were real. I hope at least one. Just to keep my hope alive, LOL

opcorn

[frank]

I have found that it only the western cultures that insist that prostitution must be a cold quick as possible transaction.

Many other countries or cultures ( Brazil, Asia, Middle East) are laid back about it. I have spent days with girls that if they were in the US would be considered prostitutes. I do have a different relationship with most of the girls, but I know that it is common for them to spend days at a time with “Clients”.

Frank

[NadiaUSA]

There are many gentlemen that prefer dinner dates and building a rapport. They are not all exceedingly wealthy.

I know some comments here are in regards to taking the high road in by not paying for someone to eat and talk with. Is it because you are a pure hobbiest or insulted by the circumstance?

Keep in mind that others take the high road in the view of avoiding the "wham bam thank you maam" attitude. This also builds a rapport for a business travler that wants to establish a repeat client status which always leads to a better time together.

The pretty and passable TS can not do it for less than 400 to 1200 and up because there are too many jokers out there that would be spinning our wheels.

[BeardedOne]

Not to sound dumb but what loser would pay $75 just to take someone out to eat, not including meal expenses. Doesn't seem like something that a guy that gets chicks on the regular would do. Seems desperate.

Some of us are just tired of playing the schizophrenic game-playing horesehockey that all of our past 'relationships' dragged us through.

Do I 'get chicks on the regular'? I honestly can't remember when I did (Though there was a time when I was involved in two or more concurrent 'relationships'). Personally, I've got better things vying for my attention than some whiny-ass bitch complaining about her last or current abusive/cheating boyfriend/husband or why men don't seem to be interested in them (Apparently, I'm not a man, I guess ).

I have yet to pay for a dinner date (Aside from the dinner expense itself), but if it means that I get a couple of hours of good company with an attractive companion that doesn't make it their life's mission to ruin my every waking day, then yah, call me a 'loser' and I'll gladly fork over the scratch.

And by professionals, I mean real professionals... of the M.D. variety, to be specific.

There are things I can and will tell a gurl that I might not tell a therapist. Shame that the gurl, the more effective of the two, is not a deductible medical expense.

Even if they didn't have to pay, would a guy in REAL time, not cyber time, actually take a ts to dinner.

Um.......Yah. Me. BTDT. We're rare, so treat us well and you may get to keep us.

And trust me for a quality escort guys spend wayyy more than $75. I just have found that most guys pay and escort for a fuck and dash.

Yah, I don't know where the $75 figure came from. One gurl that is truly puzzled by my nature once told me that most guys "...just pop a nut and leave...". She's never been clear...Does that make me a treasure or an annoyance?

A few memebers of HA from NY post on the board and PM me that they would gladly take me to dinner, and I'm heading that way, lets see how many were real. I hope at least one. Just to keep my hope alive, LOL

Best wishes that your hope spring eternal. And if you ever find yourself in Philly...

I have had lots of clients take me on dinner dates. I think its a great way of making an intimate connection. I feel you have a better encounter when you get to know each other. I get paid a lot more than $75....lol I never heard of that...lol

Maybe that's just the meet-n-greet. If you want her to actually enter the restaurant and sit down...$$$.

Keep in mind that others take the high road in the view of avoiding the "wham bam thank you maam" attitude.

I don't see it as necessarily the 'high road', but it is far more relaxed and enjoyable for me. I spent a most wonderful day with a gurl a couple of years back. She not only gave me a good rate on the 'roses', but ended up staying beyond that. Yah, we got nekkid and partied down a couple of times during the day, but mostly we sat and talked, watched teevee, and hung out. What you make of what you spend and who you spend your time with, are all up to you.

This also builds a rapport for a business travler that wants to establish a repeat client status which always leads to a better time together.

This has worked for me with the aforementioned gurl, who I have visited with more than once and will again. It has also worked well for me (And them) in other cases.

Any twenty-dollar street whore can polish your knob for a Jackson. Only a true lady can make you happy. And happiness does not come cheap.

[juggerman]

i'm thinking if the guy pulls off a good date, he might end up with much more afterwards without paying

[LBCDO]

Im not gonna say anyone is "taking the high road" or trying to throw salt in anyones game, I just wanted to know if anyone has done it.

I had a point in my life where I was making A LOT of money, but I had little time for anything but making money. And I was young[er] too, so I was getting pissed because I thought I should be enjoying myself more. So I manned up and went to one of the hundreds of "Happy Ending" spas we got here in ATL and got my happy ending. Long story short, I left, and couldnt complain about anything. I felt good. At that time, I didnt have time to be running around, trying to find a female, do the whole dating song and dance, and then days later get what I wanted. I picked a girl out and got her, and there was no bullshit.

I imagine if I kept up that lifestyle I might be tempted to take a girl out to eat. But I think the part of paying for the meal AND for the time would keep me from doing it.

The same way that someone gets a nut and the girl you got off with leaves, I dont want to pay for a meal, and have a good convo, and then the girl is clock watching and shit while Im trying to eat. Cant knock the hustle, but not for me.

Plus I save certain things for certain people. I dont even take females out in the "REAL WORLD" out to eat unless they are more than a jump off, so if the motivation for a TS to eat with me is to get paid, fuck i look like blowing bread for someone who looks at me as the payment for their cellphone that month?

[NadiaUSA]

The same way that someone gets a nut and the girl you got off with leaves, I dont want to pay for a meal, and have a good convo, and then the girl is clock watching and shit while Im trying to eat. Cant knock the hustle, but not for me.

I think the whole point is to not have a clock watching evening and to get a good rapport established.

In a sence the girl is saying, pay me enough up front so I know you are not a joker and so I don't have to watch a clock. Then we can both forget about it and relax.

If you don't have time for dinner and still want a similar experience then know that some guys drop double the amount on the table or more to defuse the money and time issue.

If she is relaxed you should feel it.

Alot of it is in your own head as a client. You have to roll with it. She should obviously be trying to dispell the feeling of a clock being watched. If you are insistint on seeing through it you may spoil your own experience.