A MAN THAT DOESNT KNOW... My story

[MacShreach]

, unless they want to gang rape me... then we have a concern... cause I won't last long and bust prematurely

LMFAO nice one Danni, coffee all over the desk again....

[Shining Star]

From someone who has "been there" and "done that", would say it is wise NEVER to assume anyone knows anything. The more passable and attractive you are the less it could be likely a man "knows". Oh sure he may suspect something, but am here to tell you 8 out of 10 times when you sit him down saying "I have to tell you something" and he says "yes, I know" what he thought he knew has nothing to do with you being a trannie.

Two standard schools of thought are to either wait and see where things go, then tell the man. Or, not tell him and break things off if you feel he does not know nor would likely appreciate the real *you*.

It is never wise to s**t where you eat, so telling someone who works in a place you frequent often, will usually lead to everyone else finding out as well, something to consider.

My advice is to take things slow at first, coffee or a "light" date is fine, and take things from there. It is entirely possible that spending time with this person will let you see him in a real light and that you don't fancy him that much at all. He could be a total idiot or worse A**hole, in which case you might want to get far away from him as possible.

Now that Candis Cayne is on TV, you might wish to bring up "Dirty Sexy Money" some how during a date and see where he goes with the TS bit. If he starts mouthing off things like "disgusting", and such, grab your purse and run fast and run far! *LOL*

Best of luck

SS

[Shining Star]

From someone who has "been there" and "done that", would say it is wise NEVER to assume anyone knows anything. The more passable and attractive you are the less it could be likely a man "knows". Oh sure he may suspect something, but am here to tell you 8 out of 10 times when you sit him down saying "I have to tell you something" and he says "yes, I know" what he thought he knew has nothing to do with you being a trannie.

Two standard schools of thought are to either wait and see where things go, then tell the man. Or, not tell him and break things off if you feel he does not know nor would likely appreciate the real *you*.

It is never wise to s**t where you eat, so telling someone who works in a place you frequent often, will usually lead to everyone else finding out as well, something to consider.

My advice is to take things slow at first, coffee or a "light" date is fine, and take things from there. It is entirely possible that spending time with this person will let you see him in a real light and that you don't fancy him that much at all. He could be a total idiot or worse A**hole, in which case you might want to get far away from him as possible.

Now that Candis Cayne is on TV, you might wish to bring up "Dirty Sexy Money" some how during a date and see where he goes with the TS bit. If he starts mouthing off things like "disgusting", and such, grab your purse and run fast and run far! *LOL*

Best of luck

SS

[TJT]

Tell him you're Turkish just after you reveal your secret. That will get him doubly excited.

[Coroner]

Tell him you're Turkish just after you reveal your secret. That will get him doubly excited.

[Jack59]

Danielle, let's not forget the fact that you are moderately famous. If he's surfed the net for porn, and he probably has, then he's probably run across your pics or vid clips at some time or other. So the odds are that he already knows. In fact that might be part of the attraction for him ... well, in addition to your being awfully pretty ... and sweet ... and sexy ... and, well, you get the idea.

Good Luck, I hope it works out well for you.

[hondarobot]

I apologize for the "nyah nyah" line, it was not meant in a mean way but I can see how it could have been interpreted that way. I'm posting this because it seems like the right thing to do.

I think Foxxx has some apologizing of her own to do now, and not to me.

I had a dream last night, where this forum was kinda like Lord Of The Flies, an island inhabited by kids. That's somewhat accurate in many ways.

[Jericho]

Tell him you're Turkish just after you reveal your secret. That will get him doubly excited.

[Oli]

Tell him you're Turkish just after you reveal your secret. That will get him doubly excited.

LMAO

[Ecstatic]

Hey Danielle, maybe he already knows that you are a Transexual girl. I was listening to Howard Stern this morning and he was interviewing Ru Paul. Howard aked her if any guys ever asked her out and did not know that she was a drag queen. She told him that every man that asks a drag queen or T-girl out on a date already knows that she is a T, even if they act like they don't know. I don't know if that is true for every guy, but I know that I would not ask a girl out if I knew she was not a T-girl.

I know that you are totally passable and Ru Paul is not... But what she said made me wonder if there was really any truth to what she said...??? Anyway, I hope you have a great time with him. Maybe his is the man for you to have forever!!!

Ru Paul is 6'4" and famous, and as noted not truly passable (though she doesn't look half bad), so it is highly doubtful that someone would not know her "T." Danielle, you are of course famous too, though in a smaller circle, so it may be that this hot mechanic knows your "T" but just as likely that he doesn't. I think that most guys who don't know who you are would never clock your "T." Sounds like fun. I'd say be careful, but you're not naive and I'm sure you know all the signs to look out for.