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11-11-2007 #61Veteran Poster
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Thank you Peggy,
Your views are very respected. I agree. I gave it up too fast. But I have a slight problem with intimacy, having been an escort since the age of 18 or so. But yes, his first question was " Do you still have a dick? " and my answer to that was " My final surgery will be in March but you don't have to deal with that aspect of me because it is not expected of you ".
I usually wear my panties while on my personal encounters as opposed to work so to hide it and just " get it out of the way ".
I agree that things will change, but it will be hard not to get noticed as I have been very public about my life. But that is an essential aspect of my soul, to be accepted as I am and have both my past and future embraced by my partner as I do. I am not ashamed of who I was or what I am. I can't help but to get frustrated a bit...
Well he texted last night from his friends birthday party and asked if he could come over and spend the night... I don't even know the guy... You see how I have the intimacy thing all screwed up? LOL
" We always get to the sky but it's never far enough to reach the stars or even a cloud for that matter. Our dreams and hopes are as shallow as a puddle of merky water " . DF
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11-12-2007 #62Professional Poster
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What a lucky guy!
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11-13-2007 #63
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This deemed bumping because its such an excellent example of why this forum is great.
Danielle,
Sounds like you need to find someone who is happy with who you are, who you've been and who you will be in future. Thats not easy, but being up front about it, you're going about it the right way because hiding any of that is no basis for anything other than a few world-class blow jobs and never hearing from them again.
Perhaps you're not a Genetic Girl, but you're certainly a Genuine one. Hope that your SRS will do for you everything you want it to. I'm sure you'll do just fine.
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11-14-2007 #64Rookie Poster
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I don't know if this helps, but I can tell you not to worry or despair Danielle bc i feel like youll find the ONE. Different guys are diff in terms of how far you can take a relationship with them. For example, someone who is really traditional or hangs out with a certain crowd just won't be able to be totally open with you because even if he really likes you, he'll think "well what if we break up, then it will all have been for nothing and people will think differently about me...my family will think...ill just stick to discreet sex since thats the best part anyway".
I think that's the most common end of the spectrum. Some guys wont go long bc you were in movies, or even because a girls been divorced a few times, has kids, has escorted, etc. But when it DOES happen for real, you can be sure that this person probably is the PERFECT one for you so isn't that a great thing!
I'll tell you a personal story. I had never even known much about tgirls, whatever the term was until 24 (last year) when I met a girl at the ny public library of all places. I went to get a book waaay in the back in fiction, just 1 copy to borrow in the entire city, very obscure. So this girl was looking for the same thing (found out later she wasn't really) and hey, what a way to get a girls number right? I really needed it so I offered to call her in a day or two when I was done with it and she accepted. It helped that she was superbly dressed and very very attractive. She thanks me by taking me out to dinner a week later, we get to talking, meet up again and walk around the city on a cold january night. I thought, what an amazing woman, what a conversationalist, just magic. At one point she tells me she had SRS when she was 22 (she was 25 at the time) and I had to think for a minute and I said, "that's cool". I was worried more about my reaction than anything else but I didn't even think about the baggage. I mean, I honestly felt like we connected on such a level that I really didn't even care about the other stuff! I hadnt ever known a trans person or even seen any of that type of porn either. It was just intuitive "this girl is someone ive already fallen in love with so what does it even matter?"
Well the sad part is she got an amazing job, moved cross country and we came apart but I never really considered any her "baggage" to be of substance because the thing was, i was already in love! I mean, i introd her to my friends, went to games together, took her home a few times.
Don't worry. Just be a lovely girl and you'll attract love. I mean, hell i'm armenian. Maybe this guy is thinking the same way.
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11-14-2007 #65Gold Poster
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Danielle thank you, and I've got much respect for you, your courage,
Originally Posted by Danielle Foxxx
and your perseverance.
And we'll PM on the other issues.
Be well chica.
M.
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11-14-2007 #66Junior Poster
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Low self esteem. That is your problem. You don't have to blow the guy just because he bought lunch. At least hold out for the all you can eat shrimp scampi dinner at Red Lobster. Originally Posted by Danielle Foxxx
You are beautiful and funny and smart. You have more to offer than 99% of any GGs in the world. Don't sell yourself short.
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11-14-2007 #67Veteran Poster
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LOL this is like how the tabloids tell Britney Spears how to live her ife LOL
Has anyone ever thought about the fact that I wanted to blow him? LOL
Ok, well... I am gonna have sex even if I am not in a relationship. I like to have sex and I have some regular buddies I do it with. I think sex is very healthy and I enjoy it very much.
I was just saying how I am lonely and stuff... No need to turn my joke about being a dirty whore into a more serious topic.
I am not here to get put down, no one is, so please watch the way you talk to a lady... thanks
I know we have more wonderful people in here then haters but I don't really get alot of you seriously. Where do you get, or how do you became, or how is it possible for someone to use such strong language when addressing a woman? It really bugs me how some people in here have no regards for ladies. Even if we talk a certain way it does not mean that we are not ladies.
Some of you men have no respect... Your mom would be ashamed
" We always get to the sky but it's never far enough to reach the stars or even a cloud for that matter. Our dreams and hopes are as shallow as a puddle of merky water " . DF
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11-14-2007 #68Junior Poster
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My comment was intended to be funny. Sorry you didn't get it. I apologize for mentioning how smart and funny you are. Originally Posted by Danielle Foxxx
Dial down the meds!
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11-14-2007 #69Veteran Poster
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Sorry jeeeese, some people in here are really mean and I am kinda sick of guys talking down to girls, it's really sad how some people are...
I missread your intent and I stand corrected
" We always get to the sky but it's never far enough to reach the stars or even a cloud for that matter. Our dreams and hopes are as shallow as a puddle of merky water " . DF
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11-14-2007 #70Junior Poster
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I am a big fan. I really enjoy VR and DF. You guys are brilliantly funny.
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