Am I a queer for liking to look a Transexuals/Shemales?

Am I Gay or Bisexual? I developed a huge interest in the shemales lately and its starting to make me wonder. I only like the feminine ones that look like women and gay pornography does not turn me on. Let me know.

[NYCe]

human sexuality is too diverse to be packaged & labeled in a cut-and-dry way. It's not as simple as black and white, more like 256 shades of grey. The whole world can't be divided perfectly into gay/straight/ or bi.

[charok37]

Yes you are! We all are. It is as simple as black and white, either you engage in same biological sex or you do not. Whether we put degrees of gayness and if that person looks like the opposite sex, is just the human way to deal with a situation that is not normal by societal rules. I too do not find men sexually attractive, but I like a nice hard dick on a feminine looking shemale, I have come to the realization that if I like a dick I am in some way gay. Just my long thought out opinion.

[Porndog]

Deep. Good to see some intelligent conversation is still alive on the net.

Playing Devils Advocate here to the last post.

You're saying that a person's sexuality is determined if they "engage in same biological sex or you do not".
So a male who is attracted to men (or a female who is attracted to females) but never "engages" in said activity would be straight?
And for that matter a "straight" man who engages in sex with a transsexual unknowningly (a la "Madamn Butterfly") is gay, only he doesn't know it?
I'm not saying your wrong, but IMHO to say sexuality is black and white is akin to saying which religion is right.

one of my favorite lines - "It's not that I don't like penises, I just don't like them on men..."

[goring]

that was me posting the penis line. you should know, I stole it too, from a lesbian comedienne named Lea DeLaria (sp?) years ago. always loved that line...

scott

[s2000p2]

I understand what the host means,I've never being with another man but shemales just drive me crazy....but categorisation is'nt cool....just go with what makes you happy is what I have learned

[Trekmeister66]

Queer? I doubt that. Like most, that tool has to be attached to a fine looking female shape. I have a small collection of videos. The turn-ons are the most feminine of the girls.

From a Judeo/Christian doctrine to act on it is what make it so. Though through this logic thinking about it is also sinful, but the act is more so. I still think that we that like a male body part have some degree of gayness and it is just society and our up bringing that makes the fact that we don't like the dick on a guy wrong. In other words we want our cake and want to eat it too. To have a feminine looking ts with a big dick. I also think that it is the total "otherness" of the ts, not male nor female but a hybrid that is exciting. Oh hell I like tgirls if that makes me queer then so be it. Like another said, enjoy yourself, play safe and don't think to much about it.

[OutlawKind]

Why must we be so attached to labels? This uptight sexophobic society is nothing to gage anything by. As the philosopher Krishnamurti said; "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." Any form of intimacy between human beings is a good thing in this day and age. I've been sexually involved with women, transsexuals, and a few men--to me it's mostly about the person, the chemistry. All things being equal I prefer pre-op/non-op TS's and feel that it is good to give as well as receive--probably too many variations there to call me trisexual. So, let's see, would that make me omnisexual? Whatever. But, hey, if some people choose to label themselves gay or republican or baptist or even normal, who am I to tell 'em otherwise? Live and let live.


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