advice needed!

[olm8y]

Hey all,

Really could use some advice,im a young male who has come to a massive croossroads in my life where i am facing my fears and trying to change , i have alot of work to do but one thing i need to know. This whole trans thing has become apparent to me that its not just something im curious about but something i cant ignore. I have been with one once and it was not a good experience........I want the whole girl thing with the kids but can u do that to your woman when u have secret desires, any u guys out there in relationships while u look at ur p.c on the sly! Do u give up ur dream of a family and love? really need help as ive had some dark thoughts lately!
advice much appreciated

[whatsupwithat]

hi

why feel so much shame and fear about your desires/sexuality? it actually hurt me to read your post, the way you're beating yourself up.

i have a question, though? what do you mean by "dark thoughts"? could you clarify?

also, be honest with yourself and with others and you will find happiness. none of chose to be who we are. this is how we came out. once you can accept that and find a way to love yourself as you are...the pain will slowly disappear.

fyi - you can find love and famly with a transwoman. i have.

[olm8y]

i read this article about a guy who made a living cleaning up suicides in la, they followed him around for the day at work and he had to clean up a suicide of a guy in a room littered with transexual porn and drugs, this guy obviously could not come to terms with it. This scared me a little, can it get that bad............I do not look for love with t girls, they give me a boner just like normal girls, its like i need both, some things are better left unsaid, i would have to give up alot to come out and say i jack off to t girls sometrimes...........

[TheOne1]

Hey all,

Really could use some advice,im a young male who has come to a massive croossroads in my life where i am facing my fears and trying to change , i have alot of work to do but one thing i need to know. This whole trans thing has become apparent to me that its not just something im curious about but something i cant ignore. I have been with one once and it was not a good experience........I want the whole girl thing with the kids but can u do that to your woman when u have secret desires, any u guys out there in relationships while u look at ur p.c on the sly! Do u give up ur dream of a family and love? really need help as ive had some dark thoughts lately!
advice much appreciated

may it be a gg, or a ts, or a guy you are in a relationship with... you should share your likes and dislikes with them..


you'd be surprised by how many gg's have the same desires you have, and you'd also be surprised by how much a transwoman could complete your life (as whatsupwiththat has stated), the same as a gg.

your writing the script to your life. complete it yourself.