Do T-Girls who don't do porn give us all a bad name ?????

[Kirsty Scott TG]

I finally think I have found a place I can express my frustration and perhaps vent a little anger on this issue .......

All too often on other sites I come across posts where Transsexuals, or should I say girls who convince themselves they are transsexuals because the elite say you have to be such to be taken seriously, keep insisting that those of us who are involved with adult entertainment give the scene a bad name.

Don't get me wrong, girls who are brave enough to to follow their hearts completely and take on society by undergoing the full sex change all need to be applauded and wherever possible supported.

However, all too often it is little thought through as to how they can sustain a living when they do so ........ ta dah! enter the sex industry!

The niche market ....... The Tranny scene ...... escort or porn ........ It's undeniable and the internet has made it a large possibility .... opened many a backdoor you could say

Anyway .... the point I suppose I am trying to get to is embracing what we have, ie the very aspect that has driven close to insanity as we go through youth and adolescence .... being transgendered..... can provide an opportunity to those who don't necessarily believe the sex industry is evil.

..... and it doesn't mean we can't be serious ..... or that we don't have any intelligence ...... or feelings ...... or live any form of other life once the stockings come off ........ and it should not mean we can't be taken in anyway as serious as our


........... "I am a straight T-Girl" .... proclaimed sisters ......

We have all undergone the same torments, we have all battled the same issues inside our own heads, some with more and some with less support than others, and we have all arrived at different places dependent on circumstance and opportunity .........

so we should all support each other .....

We should forgoe all bitching (except in fun that is) .... and accept our differences as much as celebrate what we have in common ......

and that should incude whether or not we like to have sex and show the world .........

Kirsty
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(can someone help me off the horse I think it's too high for my short legs?)

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[slinky]

I believe you can not do sex work for any serious amount of time and come through it unscathed. That has nothing to do with being transgender, male or female.

[Ecstatic]

Interesting twist and inversion of the usual argument, Kirsty, and every bit as valid imho. What it really comes to is each not putting the other down for the choices made.

Danny, you too have a good point, though the degree of scathing varies tremendously. Some fare far better than others, even I daresay there are those who emerge unscathed (though not unchanged, if you can differentiate between the two).

[whatsupwithat]

I believe you can not do sex work for any serious amount of time and come through it unscathed.

no matter what you do, everything somehow leaves its mark, it's energy on you. you can see it in people on the street. a job, a career kills off parts of your heart and soul without you even knowing.

[TrueBeauty TS]

To be honest, I have no idea what you were trying to say.

Escorts/porn = Good

Straight job = Bad


Is that it?

[Wicked Mira]

Bravo, Kirsty!

For myself (a post-op transsexual woman) I transitioned in the vanilla world as a professional and for about ten years did as I was told I should--blend in, be normal and live like a "normal" woman. I was told that "now that I was a woman, I should live and behave as a woman is supposed to." I tried but realized I didn't do or go through all that I did just to live like everyone else!

I'm now an escort and adult video performer because I love it! This isn't obligatory on all TS's, of course, and anyone who has the guts to be themselves in this world of hypocrisy has the right to be whomever they wish to be! I think the greatest contribution that we TG's make is to show the world that you don't have to hide who you are inside. We live in a world of frauds and fakes. Enough.

(You're right, Kirsty, this horse is high!)

I love sex and I became a woman completely so that I could enjoy sex through the wonderful female body. I became professional so that I could merge what I do for a living with that I love the most. The world I came from hypocritically proclaimed itself based upon honesty and integrity. I find the sex business, with all its flakes and bs, to be the most honest thing I've ever done. I'm happier now than I ever have been in my entire life.

[whatsupwithat]

We have all undergone the same torments, we have all battled the same issues inside our own heads, some with more and some with less support than others, and we have all arrived at different places dependent on circumstance and opportunity .........

so we should all support each other .....

We should forgoe all bitching (except in fun that is) .... and accept our differences as much as celebrate what we have in common ......

and that should incude whether or not we like to have sex and show the world .........

Kirsty
xxx xxx
(can someone help me off the horse I think it's too high for my short legs?)

Great points.

My takes is both sides are at fault in different ways and no one shares all the blame for the divide.

But you're right. Come together. Accept the diversity. Embrace it. Look at the LGB population. There's an argument to be made that their success in this world is largely based on their willingness to openly embrace the sex and the politics at the same time.

[whatsupwithat]

To be honest, I have no idea what you were trying to say.

Escorts/porn = Good

Straight job = Bad


Is that it?

I think she was saying that a lot of judgement is handed out against those who do sex work by those who don't.

[Legend]

I think those girls who don't work in the industry and/or escort buisness have to work extra hard to make a living then those who work in the industry.Those in the porn and who escort don't have put as much effort into it because the buisness doesn't require that much interaction with everyday people who might not even know anything about trans.I just think it's much easier for a girl to get a photo shoot or a desperate chaser then a high entry job.I'm not saying they are any smarter but they have to work extra hard and should be giving their proper respect.