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09-23-2007 #31
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I find it interesting that so many are on this forum and yet so many have nothing to add to this. I would so love to hear from some of the others on this site including the transwomen.
So, it's just Jericho and I that feel the way we do?
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09-23-2007 #32
well, actually there is no solution for your dilemma. (if it is one) you like what you like (pardon the tautology).
the reason WHY will never be fully understood.
why do I like this or that? I honestly cant say, I just do....
Quod licet Iovi, non licet bovi
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09-23-2007 #33
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Originally Posted by mbf
In the meantime, I think my quantifying myself within society and for society to understand it and move beyond it's negative labeling and preconceptions goes hand in hand with the transsexual community gaining rights, respect, and acceptance.
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09-23-2007 #34
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Originally Posted by whatsupwithat
Don't slap her hard, though. I'd have to head east and fuck ya up if you did that.
:P
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09-23-2007 #35Originally Posted by whatsupwithat
anyways, may ur search will be a success
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Originally Posted by mbf
godspeed!
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Originally Posted by Jericho
a positive term to describe men who like transwomen. There are no
support groups per se, and basically they meet on forums like this and
ask each other why do they feel the way they do.
Someone said in another thread that for the transwomen there is a fair
modicum of acceptability particularly if she passes. Also society is starting
to see the medical causes for transsexuality, and that is reducing much of
the stigma. Natal females who are in relationships with transwomen are
deemed lesbians, and there's not a great deall of stigma attached to them.
For a genetic male in a realtionship with a transwoman, thetre may be a
stigma, and as stated there is no term to describe them.
A partial explanation for it may be as Jericho has pointed out that the
subject area of transgenderism is still in it's embryonic or infancy stage.
Thus we don't have the working knowledge of all the aspects of it that we
would like.
But for me there is a very strange consideration to this question. For the
most part the vast majority of men that I have been iin relationships
with have been in relationships with genetic females, some have been
in relationships with transwomen as well.
But post operatively I have met a fair number of men that will only date
transwomen, be they pre or post operative. For me this strikes me as very
odd, and harkens back to what Seanchai said upthread about men who
only date women who have a penis or once had a penis.
Originally Posted by seanchai
penis history give me pause for cause. I must admit that I question
whether their affinity is to the woman or to her previous or current
genitilia, ie. the penis.
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09-23-2007 #38
i date transsexuals...sorry if i don't have a fancy reason or some scientific answer...i was living this life way before i found this site or knew all of these terms or categories..i don't look for a reason why and i feel i have nothing to prove to anyone on here..if u have a problem with that u can feel free to hit up my box..
u will be fucking fat bitches in no time
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Originally Posted by hollywoodbuckstrap
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Originally Posted by peggygee
but why should that matter? men are attracted to men. women to women. men to women and vice versa. society has grown to understand that being gay or straight has a bio/physiological basis...well, except for the religious wingnuts who think they can 'deprogram' homosexuals. i'm saying that my sexuality and attraction is bio/physiological, as well. this is me.
i have tried to 'deprogram' myself. i went the gay route, the straight route...it never, as jericho said, *felt* right.
i never quite understood why i should be looked down upon for my sexuality by the very people who should be lifting it up.