to the men - how many have had real ts relationships?

[whatsupwithat]

I have been in two relationships over the last 13 years. One lasted 7 years the other lasted 4. I loved them both. Don't get mad at me PLEASE but transsexuls tend to be so damaged by all the shit they go through in life. The straight world will only accept them in the rarest of instances and they're treated like the stepchild of the gay community. Even the nice ones become so jaded by the time they hit 30 that's it's damn near impossible to develop a trusting relationship with her unless you share a history that goes way back.

A lot of truth in what you said. I can totally relate having seen what you stated time and time again. Thanks for being open and honest about it.

[mbf]

this ole me.....

lasted for roughly a year. she was a drama queen supreme. but when we made up it was always a fuck-fest.

but I never had it goin on with an escort.

wait, my ts-gf WAS an escort, but didnt tell me bout it - great stuff ey?

a second one was a fuck-buddy and friend. she moved to another town so contact is im-yahooed.

[BiGuy4TS]

I've had two fairly serious TG girl friends. Neither were from here or any online forum for that matter. Met both at a club near where I live.

[qeuqheeg222]

i had my first tg girlfriend for about two years but couldnt get her to really commit beyond a "certain" level-she wouldnt move away from her honduran crack head ex husband because she knew he had no where to go so she always had him to at least keep her company..like someone said above,keepin afloat above the issues and such is really hard in these types of relationships...i had another for 5 yrs off and on -much drama and some serious fuckin but i stiill love her but cant be with her anymore..once again the issues and the ever present urge to go the escort route..ah what can you do?..

[Tail Gunner]

I actually had a date this past Friday night, she was not an escort just someone I ran into. The date was a bit of a mess since she had to work later than expected (floral artist for weddings) and on top of that I was late so by the time I got there, which was close to twelve she was quite tired. Had some wine that I brought and talked a bit. Very nice girl and hope to meet with her again.

[alpha2117]

I've had a few girlfreinds over the years. Not much difference between a t and a gg to tell the truth. My last gf was great fun but like a lot of girls very, very demanding and a bit self absorbed. That said i'm probably exactly the same.

[joseph-ny]

thanks for all the interesting feedback and comments...wondering, for those that have dates ts, do your friends and family know about them? were there any extremely negative reactions? hopefully everyone was very understanding but we don't live in a perfect world.

[TJT]

It matters what you call a relationship. I've been friends with one TG for nearly 30 years but we've had sex twice in that time.

Screwed around with? A decent number.

Escorts? 1 and that's been years ago. She had nice sized fake boobs showing beneath her blouse and I wanted to see 'em up close and personal.

Dated? 3-4.

Friends? Quite a number,but due to AIDS and other factors most are long gone

[TrueBeauty TS]

Friends? Quite a number,but due to AIDS and other factors most are long gone

That's sad.




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[Ecstatic]

Sorry to hear that, TJT. Very sad.