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Thread: TRUE STORY
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09-07-2007 #11
Move on. It's Embarasssing.But Shit Happens.It's Happened To Everyone on The Board.You Did The Right Thing
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09-07-2007 #12
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I gave my ex-wife a car, and the crazy beeatch crashed it three times... The lesson I learned is that, in time, the financial loss is insignificant.
I don't think Chuck's a fool, B1... maybe a hopeless romantic, but we need to experience life and make mistakes. We are all wise in hindsight, but at the time, Chuck loved the girl and treated her very admirably.
I'm more concerned for the girl. Her actions are not the problem, they are symptoms of something deeper that needs healing...
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09-07-2007 #13Originally Posted by mofungo
You are absolutely right. These are symptoms of something deeper that needs healing. Believe it or not I feel badly for her but she's on her own now. On paper what I did looks stupid but I am a hopeless romantic. Don't think I'll be doing that again.
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09-07-2007 #14
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maybe I'm wrong, Chuck, but I'd say remain open to this girl... only don't give her the noose she wants to hang herself by. Care for her, if possible, and don't make an enemy of her, but most of all, look after yourself.
I'm similar to her, Chuck; I mostly hurt those that love me best. She may only be testing you. It's a bloody hard road to travel down, and you may have a hard journey ahead, but stick with it Chucky. I say, If you love the girl, let her make mistakes, but be there for her when she falls.
Most of all, I'd say think of her as a friend you care about. Don't think of her as a partner; friends first, and the rest will follow if it's appropriate.
Good luck.
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09-07-2007 #15
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Damn, that's rough. At least you got your car back, that's the good thing. Sounds like this hit you really hard and that's understandable. You already know this is a really bad situation for you. Now you just have to accept that she's not the same person she was when you were first together. People do change, not always for the better.
She'll definitely be back. What you decide to do when she does, could really make or break you. I would hold her at a good distance and watch out for those patterns. Don't call her anymore, just wait for her to come to you. But in the meantime, move on with your life.
Shush girl, shut your lips
Do the Helen Keller and talk with your hips
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09-07-2007 #16
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Re: TRUE STORY
Originally Posted by Chuck
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09-07-2007 #17
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Originally Posted by mofungo
Hurt those who love you best? What kind of horseshit is that? Fucking mongoloids man, seriously.
There are millions of other girls out there bro, this one tried playing you. Fuck her. You've got like 24,000 days to live and you're worrying about the bitch? Millions out there, no need to worry about just ONE of them. She's not special, she's not "THE ONE". Go live bro.
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09-07-2007 #18
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Originally Posted by KO47
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09-07-2007 #19
We can disagree on the morals that can be learned from my experience but there is one truth that cannot be argued. OnStar works!!!
Thanks for all of your words, both kind and harsh. Never thought that HA would be a place where I could share anything more than porn.
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09-07-2007 #20
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lol...
hey Chuck, you never told us.......
What kind of car is it?