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09-07-2007 #1
TRUE STORY
No, not the kind of true story about my first transsexual experience. While those are always good and interesting this one is about how my seven year relationship with a "girl" ended this week. I'll keep it as brief as possible.
I have been seeing a girl off and on for about seven years. We've had our highs and lows but we always came through it. We have always lived in separate cities, two and a half hours apart. So we never lived together although we have spent holidays and vacations together. She was there for me when I was down and out. I got back on my feet four years ago partly motivated by the desire to win her back. I have a good job in a respectable professional field.
While I was on my way up, she was on her way down. She got locked up four years ago and did a year in jail. When she came out she was a different person. I didn't feel the love anymore. I felt like I was just being used for the money and security I offered her now that I had a favorable income. I thought I could rekindle that old love.
After various breakups and reconciliations I decided to make a real commitment to our future together. I bought a new car and entrusted it to her. I wanted her to get back on her feet and feel good about life again. I also knew that this would reveal to me what I really needed to know.
Well it did. I bought the car one month ago. She disappeared on me two weeks ago. Stopped answering my phone calls and e-mails. Despite all of my pleas, no response. I could not believe it. Did she really think she was going to walk out of my life with my car???
On my phone messages to her, after a week of not hearing from her, I was genuinely worried. I thought something bad must have happend. On my last six messages (must have been a total of 15) I expressed this concern but also let her know that I might have to call OnStar to locate the car and that she needed to get in touch with me ASAP! The police told me I would have to file an "unauthorized use" complaint which is a step below auto theft. So after 11 days I did, while still leaving her messages informing her of what I was doing. I did this with a heavy heart.
Just in case something bad had happened to her and she was not receiving any of my messages I figured out the pass code to her voice mail box. I got it in two tries. There were no unheard messages. In other words she was hearing the messaged and just ingnoring me.
At 2 AM Wednesday morning the police, thanks to OnStar, found the car at her mother's house. Guess who called me right away? Unapologetic she claimed that I gave her the car and that it was hers now. Of course there was no written or legal agreement to this effect. She totally screwed me after seven years and by her tone I could tell that she saw nothing wrong with what she did. I hung up on her, disconnected my answering machine (yes I still have one of those) and have not reconected it or answered my phone since.
Based on what I said can someone tell me what the fukk just happened?
ASIDE FROM THE FACT THAT I'M A FOOL
Thanks in advance HA. You're the best!
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09-07-2007 #2
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What happened? She's an unappreciative dick, that's what happened. You're better off.
It's not denial. I'm just very selective about the reality I accept.
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09-07-2007 #3
A: You're a fool.
B: This is why I am a hermit.
C: Escorts are your truest friends.
'Nuf said.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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09-07-2007 #4
You. Gave. Her. A. Car. Whoa.
Yes, it's nice to be the nice guy, but I think you went a little bit over the limit there. I'm glad you were able to recover it. She seems to have a few, as they say, ishh-yews.
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09-07-2007 #5Originally Posted by Ecstatic
They (Women/GGs) are a plague on our intelligence.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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09-07-2007 #6
Hey, B1, congrats! I see you just made your 4200nd post! (And hit a high mark just ahead of me, finally. When did you surge past? lol)
I don't know, though: would you limit that comment only to GGs and not TGs as well? heh, look out pigeons, here comes the cat....
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09-07-2007 #7Originally Posted by Ecstatic
Actually, the car thing (With the GG) is a bit of a sore point these daze, as I am in a cash bind and she didn't even =attempt= to pay me back. I sent her an email recently that made some pretty clear mention of the debt and she was too damned stoopid to even realize what I said. Sheesh!
Ans so, it is me and the catz.
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell
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09-07-2007 #8
Well, at least the catz won't be taking your car....
....will they?
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09-07-2007 #9
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Looks like you made a poor choice in women.
You, however, seemed to make out in the end with limited monetary loss. Consider yourself fortunate and also consider this a valuable lesson learned.
Congrats.
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09-07-2007 #10Originally Posted by Ecstatic
"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth will be a revolutionary act." - George Orwell