To the women that initiate the 'fuckbuddy' routine..........

[rafepix]

I agree with TJT, you need several in the mix cause one is always PMSing or something (same for TS's on hormones). You don't have to be young though. At 44, I have two TS girlfriends in my home town and it seems like I leave one behind wherever I travel to. Just tell them you are married (which is true in my case) and they will automatically understand your time is limited. For some reason TS's are not jealous of GG's, only of other TS's. For additional independence say you have kid (again true in my case). Just be kind and generous when you are with them and you will have the best relationship (and sex) you have ever had. Tip: don't have sex every time or, surprise surprise, they will think you just want that. Maybe you do, maybe you don't, either way it's not a good idea for them to think that or you are in for trouble. Tip 2: Never, ever, tell them about other TS's in your life. If they ever find out, you best pull the pin as this is a house of cards.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

That's why you young guys should have at least three women in the mix. One for taking out and show,one who knows she just for booty calls,and another on deck if 1 or 2 starts to screw things up.

As the Boy Scouts say,"Be prepared".

(Hell,I'm old and I've got four on the table. I'm always looking for more.)

AGREED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FYI this isn't ONLY for TS', I initiated this thread with the thought of a GG that up until recently gave me a headache......... I type this because I had a female member of HA ask me on the phone what was up with this thread and I had to chuckle and tell her, "Oh this really has nothing to do with TS' dames"

[alphanumeric]

about this entire thread

[tsntx]

well we start off w/ the fuck buddy b/c we dont think you have what it takes to be mr. right .. so we allow you to be mr. right now but after awhile we stop seeing the others and then pretty soon weve become exclusive w/ you... after awhile of that we want to take it further bc other then saying "were dating" .... we already are.

[hwbs]

sad thing is that the most stable relationship i have had is with a fuckbuddy type deal..must be going on six years now ...she is the reason why i don't bother sweatin any other girl trouble... to be noted : wasn't seeing her on top of the girls i was dating...just kind of in between..



sad but true....

[peggygee]

I won't be a fuck buddy, a friend with benefits. a booty call, a
jump off, a hook up, the other woman, or date married men.

[whatsupwithat]

i want a fuckbuddy!

[biguy4tvtscd]

I guess I can understand the frustration of losing that free hook up, but in a way you're thinking about it totally wrong.

The reason your fuckbuddy suddenly morphs into an LTR seeker, is because of you, ya big dummy!

At first, in her eyes, you were only good for causal NS sex, now you've moved up the ladder to potential protector, supporter, confidante, and partner in crime. Believe it or not, it's a compliment.

And meanwhile, you're just sour grapes over losing that ns pussy.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

I agree with TJT, you need several in the mix cause one is always PMSing or something (same for TS's on hormones). You don't have to be young though. At 44, I have two TS girlfriends in my home town and it seems like I leave one behind wherever I travel to. Just tell them you are married (which is true in my case) and they will automatically understand your time is limited. For some reason TS's are not jealous of GG's, only of other TS's. For additional independence say you have kid (again true in my case). Just be kind and generous when you are with them and you will have the best relationship (and sex) you have ever had. Tip: don't have sex every time or, surprise surprise, they will think you just want that. Maybe you do, maybe you don't, either way it's not a good idea for them to think that or you are in for trouble. Tip 2: Never, ever, tell them about other TS's in your life. If they ever find out, you best pull the pin as this is a house of cards.

GROSS

[AllanahStarrNYC]

That's why you young guys should have at least three women in the mix. One for taking out and show,one who knows she just for booty calls,and another on deck if 1 or 2 starts to screw things up.

As the Boy Scouts say,"Be prepared".

(Hell,I'm old and I've got four on the table. I'm always looking for more.)

Equally gross.

Some of you really get what you deserve