Why do people think trassexuals are just sex material???

[62des]

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WE VIEW ALL WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS! lol We can't look at you as a person until we talk and get to know you. Until then, look sexy. When's the last time you ever heard a guy say "Damn!, that chick's got a very nice brain AND she's intelligent", without every seeing her beforehand? All we see is what you have on the outside and that's when you prove what a great person you are after the attraction has been made.

[crayons]

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WE VIEW ALL WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS! lol We can't look at you as a person until we talk and get to know you. Until then, look sexy. When's the last time you ever heard a guy say "Damn!, that chick's got a very nice brain AND she's intelligent", without every seeing her beforehand? All we see is what you have on the outside and that's when you prove what a great person you are after the attraction has been made.

thats absolutely fine by me, but what i say is be open about being a whore too. Like Vicki said, she doesn't want to be in a ts support group. who can blame her? if i was a pornstar last thing i'd want is to be with regular civilians talking about the normalities of life.

if you want to see chicks naked first and take it from there- SAY so. Don't be like "ohhh am looking for a serious relationship and don't care about your dick size but please attach a picture first so I can see what your working with"

And yes, I've seen/had/known girls get PMs from men who haven't seen their pictures with accolades of how beautiful and how smitten they were by their posts. It's no secret how desperate men are. They fuck dolls for Chris stake. And if your one of those that is very taken by whats on the outside, I know a nice little 3d program that renders very beautiful looking CGI chicks with awesome figures that costs less than $500. You'd never have to leave your room.

[Vicki Richter]

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WE VIEW ALL WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS! lol We can't look at you as a person until we talk and get to know you. Until then, look sexy. When's the last time you ever heard a guy say "Damn!, that chick's got a very nice brain AND she's intelligent", without every seeing her beforehand? All we see is what you have on the outside and that's when you prove what a great person you are after the attraction has been made.

This is a very realistic post and very true. Also, some of the few TS I've hung out with are so fucking boy crazy it is absolutely no different than how guys act. "OMG LOOK AT THAT GUY. DAMN." every two seconds. Annoying I think.

[Alison Faraday]

The last people I would want to hang out with is a bunch of tranny's in a support group. I challenge you guys to goto one of those meetings and come away with that same recommendation. It's the worst, cattiest, oddest thing ever. Middle aged trannies acting superior because they have vaginas and looking down at the younger more attractive girls or trying to play doctor and decide if you are a "true TS". Forget about being in the sex industry.

Yes yes yes!! Absolutely spot on. It is, without doubt, a nightmare!!

And according to some old hairy fat thing with a hole in their knickers, I'm a gay man as I do porn and escort!!! Nooo, if I wanted a hole without delay then I'd go into the back garden and dig one.

As my GP says, "If you're not mad now then you will be by the time they've finished with you."

This is one of the requirements of our all seeing NHS, ...to sit in a big circle with a group of people ranging from John who's worried about shaving his legs in case his wife finds out, right through to Veronica who's been stalking the Prime Minister for the last 10-years. And everything else inbetween. It's like something out of The Stepford Wives.

It truly has to be seen to be believed!!

[GroobySteven]

I'm sensing a great reality show...
... or a sit-com.
Ricky Gervais, are you listening mate?

seanchai

[ohioboy]

Im not going to lie...this is kinda how I feel....its totally a sexual attraction and as far as falling in love, I look to GG's. It seems shallow but its true.

[62des]

I for one feel the same way. Sounds shallow but people have to accept all opinions. I want to have a wife and kids but I still wouldn't just treat TS like sex objects. I'm just a big ass hordog. lol Its not a choice its just how we are. Not even thinking about consequences about being with TS women.

[KiraHarden]

support groups ive tried them, I agree with Vicky. Ive went to a
few,hoping to maybe meet other TS females, what a waste of time... Ill never go again, just the thought churns my stomach. If your going to transition be proud of who you are and dont hide waiting for your weekly support group meeting fix... I dont think they will ever truly be happy.
It also felt like a really bad fashion show
I came out everytime feeling worse than i went in.
kira


www.myspace.com/kiraharden
www.youtube.com/kiraharden
http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/kiraharden

[crayons]

Im not going to lie...this is kinda how I feel....its totally a sexual attraction and as far as falling in love, I look to GG's. It seems shallow but its true.

if more people were this honest, the world would function more smoothly. :king

[Rod la Rod]

The last people I would want to hang out with is a bunch of tranny's in a support group. I challenge you guys to goto one of those meetings and come away with that same recommendation. It's the worst, cattiest, oddest thing ever. Middle aged trannies acting superior because they have vaginas and looking down at the younger more attractive girls or trying to play doctor and decide if you are a "true TS". Forget about being in the sex industry.

I've heard horror stories about these places from members and casual attenders.

The Internet is a great place to meet men and not just for sex. I met my first LTR on the Internet in an AOL chatroom and that relationship lasted 5 years.

What really happens is the girls talk to other girls and start getting this, "I've gotta get mine" mentality. I admit that I see girls and hear about outrageous sums of money they are making while I am doing freebies trying to find love. I tend to start going down a mental path of, "I'm that pretty or I am more pretty or I am more famous - and I should be making all that $" instead of hooking up for casual stuff that might lead to more - which, by the way, is what most real women have to do to find love.

I mean is there really a TS perception that out of 10 men you date or fuck one of them will be Mr. Right? Yes, and we want him to be tall, rich, dark, and handsome.

What causes this? The fact that we can't feel secure in a relationship is a big problem as well. I can't find a relationship and get legally married without a vagina. Furthermore, even then, a case recently occurred where a post-op TS had her inheritance taken away by some guys family/kids after they stated that regardless of her sex change, she was still a man and thus the marriage was nul and void. She lost the case and the appeal.

When doesn't it go through a attractive TS girls mind that, "I'll invest years into this relationship and then it will end after I've given up my best financially profitable sex work years."

If any of you have watched MiddleSex the movie, you will see that in foreign countries even educated TS are relegated to sex workers. There was an Indian woman with an IS degree who couldn't get a job in that field after her SRS. It is harder to get a job in this country being a TS. Very few companies want that drama. What drama? The restroom drama and complaints from women. The potential for a lawsuit if harassment occurs. A lot of this is caused by the manly transsexuals who haven't done anything to look like women, but go get sex changes. If they looked and acted more like women, the women would be less likely to complain.
Finally, for a pre-op woman looking for a job, Social Security will out you to your employer if you are perfectly stealth even. Even if your DL says F(emale) on it, SS still makes employers aware of gender disparities. The only way to fix it is to lie (make up a letter) or actually get SRS.

Anyway, it really can be a tough life overall for TS women and it is hard to shy away from the lucrative sex industry if you are young and attractive. If you are truly passable and educated it is much easier to integrate and receive acceptance and regular employment.

The Short-lived nature of youth, beauty and sex appeal is one thing most middle class GGs understand and anticipate.
Genetic females know that the way to insure their financial future is to have children with a successful man, (an earner), during their short reproductive years. Then when the husband moves on for a younger woman, they will be taken care of through child support ,alimony and family support.

Transsexual women do not have the POWER OF THE PUSSY and reproduction.

If you are lucky as a young attractive TS, escorting or doing porn, you will have maybe 10 good years of making a living. I have yet to hear of any TS who has actually achieved financial security from the sex industry, (Gia Darling and Vicki Richter may be the exception)
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The idea of a single, unmarried woman making a living on her own without a family and children is something that is absolutely new and unheard of in western civilizations, except over the last 30-40 years, (since Mary Tyler Moore).

Sex work is at best a temporary career.