Question:Do you pay to fuck or get it for free?

[Freak_on_A_Leash]

Just want to take a quick survey on this board because my message was deleted on the *** site board. Do most of you pay for sex or do you get it for free? Not sex with your wives, but with shemales. personally I've gotten my handful of free samples but for the most part I've had to pay.

[ This Message was edited by: Freak_on_a_Leash on 2002-02-20 00:35 ]

[Porndog]

u do realize that either way you end up paying. Nothing in this world is free. u either pay mentally, physically or someother way.

[thanos]

On 2002-02-20 03:19, Porndog wrote:
u do realize that either way you end up paying. Nothing in this world is free. u either pay mentally, physically or someother way.

PD don't make me shit myself. You're the only 40+ year old who can still get "freebies", you charming motherfucker!

[Quinn]

At thirty years of age, I have been sleeping with shemales for 5 years now. To date, I have only paid for it with one woman (twice). As none of my friends share my taste for shemales (or even know that I enjoy them for that matter), I can't be sure that my experience is typical. It probably isn't. Regardless, I have been fortunate to sleep with quite a few very attractive shemales without paying it. However, Porndog is correct that you do end up paying - even if you aren't paying cash.

i pay, and i do so glady. i'm 35 and i really don't have time to wine and dine someone. with cash, it's quick, easy, and painless. a business transaction, no need for messy emotions. and since we're quoting old sayings, i have one: "you don't pay a hooker for sex.you pay her to leave when your done."

Love that last quote. Never thought of it that way. Yes you pay for it one way or another. worse still if you happen to "bond" with one their going to hit you up for cash or some other type of favor. just like a woman. Yes I also pay and gladly! Who needs the excess emotional bullshit.

[dj4monie]

The biggest problem I have with paying for is that 90% of my dates don't cost $150 or more.

I took a local "T" out late last year. We went out two times, total cost was around $180-$190. That includes, parking, drinks (she drank like a fish and so did her brother) and later dinner after going to "Peanuts" the first time and Rage (gay club, yes I know...). Not that I count my money before and after talking somebody out on a date. But after two dates and a few phone calls, we just kinda stop seeing each other.

She was usually tall for a girl (6'2 and liked to wear heels, I'm 6'1) so that was kinda unconfortable. Plus on the "passable" scale, she was about a 6. Maybe that's bias cause I know what usually gives a T away to the general public. But for those that don't think like I do, then she might go un-noticed pretty easily.

That's the ONLY true TS I have ever been with. Everybody else was some sort of a BiCD and thought they were TV's. But I took the attitude, you gotta start someplace, right?

After digging deep into the scene alone (friends and family have no idea) for about a year or so now, I'm disapointed by the level of TS I see that are NOT in the industry as either a porn star or escort and usually both. That is totally the case on AOL, just about every good looking TS on AOL is a porn star or up and coming porn star or escort. Personally I think I'm one of the few people that can truly handle my girlfriend(s) being involved in that kind of lifestyle or career. I don't playa hate, you get over the best way you know how and the adult sex business is high paying so I don't blame alot of them for doing it.

So I don't have a problem with that. I guess I just have to get out there more. But I hate clubbing alone...

[NYCe]

In order for most TS's to look as good as the Porn Stars or Escorts, they need to pull in serious amounts of money. Between Silicon Injections, Hormones, Electrolysis, etc, we're talking over 10,000 dollars, and that's not even considering major surgery (nose jobs, dental work, jawline reconstruction, implants...). So find a girl who's a 10, natural and without working in "the business" is going to be a hard task. You have those rare girls who have it all without any assists from the doctor, but those are few, far between, and more than likely, taken.

[dj4monie]

Well I do know ONE lady. Natural looking, has never work in the business and is a career student...lol

She's giving me a hard time now, so I'm looking at other options.

Like I said, I'd date an escort or porn actress. Guess that means another trip or two to Peanuts..lol

suprisingly dating an escort or porn star isn't that hard. one u learn to separate their job from who they are, it's much easier. sometimes u trip out when you see pics of your girl on the net or in an escort paper.