Any girls that don't base themselves on sex????

[geekman33]

Hi
I'm fairly new to HungAngels and greatly admire a beautiful shemale. I'm just wondering if there are any real people out there that actually are NICE and beautiful. By that I mean not everything is based on your cock and mine. Sex should be part of a wonderful relationship based on friendship....not the basis for one. Just wondering.....

[demmie]

No offense to anyone out there, but haven't you noticed geek that most people who end up becoming transsexuals because of their own choice end up doing porn stuff as well?

Also, there's more to a trans-chick than her silicone and dick. Most of them are pretty nice if you ever get to speak to them.

And in case you're wondering, they're all real. MOST haven't been photoshopped.

[Jennifer_English]

*ahem*

Hi :O)

xx

[BeardedOne]

*ahem*

Hi :O)

xx

Yah, I've noticed this one lurking in the shadows.

[demmie]

You talkin' about me?

Oh, and uh, hi Jennifer English.

I'm guessing you're from GB?

[Jennifer_English]

LOL BeardedOne

oooo i'll have to watch you demmie.. your sharp

Nice to meet you

xx

[demmie]

I have off days.

I never really introduced myself on here.

I just kinda....came.

So, I play football, here in the states known as soccer, do you?

You know, being English and all, with pros like Wayne Rooney and Joe Cole...

[Fox]

Hi
I'm fairly new to HungAngels and greatly admire a beautiful shemale. I'm just wondering if there are any real people out there that actually are NICE and beautiful. By that I mean not everything is based on your cock and mine. Sex should be part of a wonderful relationship based on friendship....not the basis for one. Just wondering.....

To answer your question, yes. There's plenty of them here.

[Alison Faraday]

Hi geekman33 && demmie,

Most do adult work out of necessity. As in most quarters the moment someone 'transitions' that's their job prospects out of the window in an instant.

Certainly from my perspective I had a good job working for bank and am also a graduate. The moment I transitioned that all changed. For me it's not about sex at all, but there is an element of fun and risque there also.

If I had a choice, of giving all of this up and working again as I was before, and on the money with security as I was on before I'd seize it in an instant. What actually happened was that I confided in someone that I was a transsexual, and within days it had gone right round an open plan office of 200-people. Everything changed overnight, people stopped talking to me and there was a sense in the air. A few days days later I was called into HR and sacked on 3-points including using company computers to send personal email. There was no legal comeback. They stitched me up royally.

The outcome of all of that is that I have no past history, certainly for the last 8-years which can be checked. The company in question decline references, I do not exist and that was the solution to their apparent problem. Any moral dilemmas certain staff had were brushed under the carpet, "do you want to go too?"

So. Why put yourself through the hassle of getting a job with people who have prejudices. When you can do adult work and meet people who admire you without any ill feeling.

There is ALOT, actually, LOADS, of prejudice still out there amongst what we would call 'normal' fine and upstanding citizens. Ironically those same normal citizens that join our websites and enquire about escorting. You would be very surprised about some of the people we have met. Get them on their own and they're lovely genuine people. Get them in a large social group and they join the pack. Make a law to protect your rights in the workplace, and you're avoided like the plague so they don't have to deal with it.

World's a funny old place. Behind closed doors.

That's the reality of it all.

[dan_drade]

Hi geekman33 && demmie,

Most do adult work out of necessity. As in most quarters the moment someone 'transitions' that's their job prospects out of the window in an instant.

That is so true Alison. I myself am no expert with the whole transexual world or the issues that a transexual woman faces when she transitions. But I have dated a few Transexual women, three to be exact, and I don't mean I met them in a club and fucked them. I mean I dated them for a long time and had great realationships with them. The first girl I dated was a sucessfull contractor, a graduate, nice house that she owned as well as her own business. Once she decided to transition, she had to tell all of her clients (for obvious reasons). One by one they all left her and she ended up going out of business and had to sell her house for lack of funds to make the mortgage payments. she had a great house that she had designed herself and it cost her a ton of money to build it as well. Although she did not enter into the adult entertainment world, she just gets by on odd contracting jobs that she gets here and there. I'm sure she will never again be able to have what she once had and thats a damn shame.

Another girl that I dated was also very well educated. She had double Masters Degrees in the sciences and she was even on a US Olympic team. Of course once she decided to transition all of that just went out the window. I have not talked to her in a couple years so I have no idea what she is doing now. But the last time i spoke with her a couple of years ago, she was doing volunteer work at a GLBT center and doing a little tutoring on the side for some college students. I mean its cool to do volunteer work at the GLBT center, but it's hardly what she would be doing had she not transitioned. The last job that she had as a man was a scientific programmer for some pharmacutical company making six figures a year.

The girl that I am dating now is a little better off, only because she transitioned very early in life and she is totally passable. All of the people that knew her as a guy live thousands of miles away so she is safe to lead her life as a woman without fear of being noticed by someone that she knew many years ago. She was in the sex business when she was a young woman, but only because at the time it was the only way she knew how to make money. She now runs a little school here as well as a few other jobs. She will never be rich, but at least she is happy and I am happy to have such a great girl.

So, as you can see, there still is a lot of prejudice out there in the world by so called normal people. However, I did hear an intersting stat the other day and that is that the younger generation of people, meaning the kids that are still in high school and college, are supposedly the most open minded as far as the GLBT community is concerned. It will be intersting to see how that pans out over the next 20 years or so. Maybe there will be a time when people will be considered for what they can do and not what their sexual preference is or what their genetic disposition was at birth. Only time will tell.

Anyway, I'm sure that this is way to long for a lot of the guys here to take the time to read it. But hopefully some will. LOL