Article: Transgender dancers in India endure rape and sadism

[LG]

I think this all ties in with both the discussion we had on transsexuals in different cultures and with some other topics we've touched upon.

The article gives a real perspective on how trangendered people are treated in some cultures and of how sometimes even a life of prostitution seems the only way to finally break free.

Your comments are welcome.
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Transgender dancers in India endure rape and sadism
By Jonathan Allen, MAHARAJGANJ, India (Reuters) -

To earn a living, Kiran dresses up in women's clothes, dances at wedding parties in countryside and tries not to struggle when he is raped at knifepoint by drunken male wedding guests.

The pay, he says, is pretty good.

He is one of thousands of launda dancers working the wedding scene in the villages of Bihar and eastern Uttar Pradesh, leading the groom's raucous marching-band procession to the bride's house.

They put up with routine violence because, they say, it is the only way they are free to live as "kothis", a South Asian term for effeminate and transsexual gay men.

Most dancers soon get used to being bitten, burnt with cigarettes and cut with knives and broken bottles. In one common "party trick", a wedding guest will hide a razor blade in his fingers and then bloodily caress the dancer's cheek.

And while most laundas make extra money selling sex, too often they end up brutalised. Most know of dancers who were shot dead or strangled for resisting sex with gangs of men from the wedding in nearby buildings or fields.

"They like to have sex with pain. They like to give us pain. They take pleasure in this violence," said 20-year-old Kiran, who declined to give his full name, as he plucked stubble from his cheeks with tweezers, readying for work.

Bappa, an older launda, said one of his worst days at work was when a drunk man took a knife in a boast of virility and slit Bappa's anus open wide before raping him.

But another launda, Bobby said their current neighbourhood -- Uttar Pradesh's Maharajganj district -- was relatively safe, and argued the freedom granted by the job outweighed the violence.

"All our desires are filled," he said, dressed in a canary-yellow salwar kameez over a padded bra, his long hair dyed auburn. "Most importantly, our desire to live like women, to cook for our boyfriends, to adorn ourselves, have our own households."

After Bobby went to shampoo his hair under the handpump outside, Kiran made the point more bluntly.

"I have come here for two specific reasons," he said, grinning. "One: to dress up as a woman and live like them. Two: sex, sex, and sex."

RAPED FROM CHILDHOOD

For poor, lower-caste families wanting a grand wedding for their children, boys in drag were once a cheap substitute for dancing girls. Laundas have since become a regional tradition.

After the marriage ceremony they dance through the night, often until dawn.

A relatively honest bandmaster typically pays a dancer 3,000 to 6,000 rupees a month, a little above the average income in India.

Like most laundas dancing in the countryside, Bappa is from the metropolis of Kolkata. His career path was typical.

From a young age he didn't fit in with other boys, and bullies forced him out of school. They liked cricket. He preferred pictures of cricket players and dolls.

Laughing, he mimes how he would drape his head with a towel to pretend he had long hair.

When he was eight years old, his 25-year-old neighbour walked into his house, stripped him as he squirmed, and raped him.

It was the first of many such attacks by the neighbour who later got him into brothel work, where he learnt about launda dancers. He figured it was the best chance for an outcast to make a living.

When at home in Kolkata, his family silently tolerates him so long as he wears men's clothing, skips the makeup and keeps out of their way.

He hides his women's gear with a vegetable seller at the nearby train station, where he gets changed in the ladies toilet. His parents are still trying to find him a bride.

"We once dreamt of having a respectable job," said Kiran, "We wanted to become doctors, craftsmen or company executives. We dreamt of getting married, having kids of our own, going to the beach for holidays. But not anymore."

SHUNNED

Few people care about launda dancers.

Charities and government projects tend to focus on girls and young women, mostly because they are trafficked and abused in far greater numbers, but also because they are seen as defenceless.

Even the men the laundas call their boyfriends -- mostly married men perceived to be heterosexual -- tend to shun them during daylight hours.

Added to that is the threat of disease. India has the world's largest HIV caseload with an estimated 5.7 million sufferers and the dancers are a high-risk group. Bobby has a photo album featuring pictures of two launda friends who died from AIDS.

Kolkata-based People Like Us is one of the few organisations working with laundas to provide better healthcare and reduce the threat of violence.

But it says funding is hard to come by, partly because the line between victim and exploiter can quickly blur.

As they get older, laundas often bring younger kothis into the business. To some people, this is nothing less than pimping.

But the laundas argue only they can teach these outcast teenagers how to survive a lifetime of abuse as transsexuals living in India.

[Ecstatic]

Wow. I don't know what to say. That is intense.

[LG]

Wow. I don't know what to say. That is intense.

I always thought that transgendered people in Europe and the States had it pretty tough- and they do- but this article shows just how difficult life is for transgendered and transsexual individuals in some other countries.

[trish]

i guess i had and still have the same reaction as Ecstatic. of course, in the back of my mind, i knew these sorts of things are happening. there are always stories and hints. but the description LG posted yesterday just made me cringe. i thought to myself that i'll respond, but not today...i'm just too overwhelmed right now. well, i'm still overwhelmed.

[BrendaQG]

Shocking but sadly not surprising. All crap aside about culture and religions we are universally despised by most people. The violence described is no stranger to us girls.

I guess some things are universal.

[BlackAdder]

Indians are savages...ive known this for just about forever..

I still buy gum from them though, and there welcome to pump my gas anytime.

[peggygee]

Another interesting fact about hijras,
is that a “true” hijra is required to
undergo an emasculation operation
called nirvan.



The nirvan (re-birth) consists of the complete removal of the penis and
testes and is essential in transforming them from men to women. Only
after this are they granted their special powers of blessings and curses.

The procedure is performed by a dai ma, who is a hijra elder. The dai
ma ties up the penis and testes, makes two diagonal cuts in them and
pulls them out. In some rare instances a hijra may have vaginoplasty, or
a rudimentary, shallow vagina may be formed.

The severed genitals are then buried under a tree and a tube is placed in
the urethra. The blood coming out is allowed to flow because it is seen as
the bad “male” blood and getting rid of it will get rid of the male inside
the hijra.



Hijras earn their livelihood through begging, performing, and conferring
or threatening to deny blessings to expectant parents. Increasingly a
larger number of hijras are turning to prostitution which goes against the
hijra ideal of asceticism. Ideally hijras are meant to renounce sex and be
the devotees of Bahuchara Mata.

Bahuchara Mata is a version of the Mother Goddess. The Mother Goddess
plays the role of the mother, who is the creator and nurturer, as well as
the destroyer. Hence, she has the power to grant fertility or take it
away.

[socal_thongboy]

Bappa, an older launda, said one of his worst days at work was when a drunk man took a knife in a boast of virility and slit Bappa's anus open wide before raping him.

[trapmasta]

very interesting,
good read

[KO47]

Bappa, an older launda, said one of his worst days at work was when a drunk man took a knife in a boast of virility and slit Bappa's anus open wide before raping him.

Talk about a case of the Mondays