"faggot-ass bottoms"

[General Disarray]

To start off:
I am not a bottom
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About two days ago while browsing the general discussion I found a topic where a little argument was taking place. Apparently some guy who had been way out of line asking innappropriate questions towards one of the TS women on this board was finally getting a retort. The Ts women was explaining to him how much of a jackass he was, and then she posted the last part, something to the effect of: "You're just a faggot ass bottom"
the woman who posted this had said prior to this post that she felt that bottoms were fine and just exploring what they can do sexually with their partner. Whereas here it becomes an insult...
sooooo....

Is there a general dislike towards bottoms?
And if there is...
Why is there a general dislike towards bottoms? ( is it because some women feel they aren't being viewed as women by them?)

[flabbybody]

among the girls, I think there's a kind of disdain towards guys who want to be the receiver. In their personal lives the girls seek out guys who are masculine and are intitially unaware of their tgirl identity. Hence, you're basically dead before you strat if you meet her at tgirl party.

Among escorts, the preference is to top the john. I wish I had a buck for every girl I met who wouldn't bottom for me. The excuse is "I only do that with my boyfriend".

[muhmuh]

if youre a bottom you automatically fall into the 'closet gay cock bandit' cateogory... if its correct or not is a different matter but by the looks of it round here its largely correct

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

About two days ago while browsing the general discussion I found a topic where a little argument was taking place. Apparently some guy who had been way out of line asking innappropriate questions towards one of the TS women on this board was finally getting a retort. The Ts women was explaining to him how much of a jackass he was, and then she posted the last part, something to the effect of: "You're just a faggot ass bottom"
the woman who posted this had said prior to this post that she felt that bottoms were fine and just exploring what they can do sexually with their partner. Whereas here it becomes an insult...
sooooo....

Is there a general dislike towards bottoms?
And if there is...
Why is there a general dislike towards bottoms? ( is it because some women feel they aren't being viewed as women by them?)

Hey I posted that. I personally dont like the general tone of your thread. As if, questioning my stand about bottoms which I've clearly stated was fine with me. So to clarify, Here's my take on this whole bottoming part:

I believe its ok if guys would like to "experiment" and try to "bottom" for his girl. BUT its NOT ok for guys to pressure a Tgirl to meet him and have sex with him especially when they only met for a day online. That makes a guy look desperate hence the bitch bottom comment!

There is a big difference between a girl doing this on her own free will vs. being manipulated or pressured into doing it!

Also, it's out of line when guys you've only known for a day through PMs ask you personal question like: Are you really a tgirl? Are you on hormones? Are you STD's free? Can I taste your cum? etc. Which could have been reserved for the 2nd, 3rd and so on chatting online.

Besides, you've read a sample of that guys PM to me. Which are mostly about sex (him wanting to suck, taste cum, fuck ass and be fucked) and when he could get it..It's pathetic!

~Kisses.

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[bunzy]

if youre a bottom you automatically fall into the 'closet gay cock bandit' category...

That's just the truth, point blank.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

if youre a bottom you automatically fall into the 'closet gay cock bandit' category...

That's just the truth, point blank.

OR Here's a TIP: Maybe if you guys could "downplay" being bottoms..It might just work to your advantage? And the girls would even initiate it..Just a thought.

~Kisses.

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[hwbs]

these threads crack me up ,lol....

[tracy]

if youre a bottom you automatically fall into the 'closet gay cock bandit' category...

That's just the truth, point blank.

OR Here's a TIP: Maybe if you guys could "downplay" being bottoms..It might just work to your advantage? And the girls would even initiate it..Just a thought.

~Kisses.

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Well IMO there's no such a thing of being a bottom, i think when a girl makes a decision of becoming a woman she wants to become a woman and as a woman she's supposed to be the receiver otherwise she would still be a gay dude fucking guys and those girls that only top i don't even consider them to be women, IMO they just some dudes doing it for the money or for their own pleasure and one day they will eventually go back like that brazilian guy Lisa Lawer.

[WendyWilliams]

flabbybody I hate to disagree with you on that.

I am a top in and outside of my relationships as is most of my tgirl friends.

I think the comment is more towards being mean.........Most think by calling them a "fag" it would bother them more than anything even if she doesnt believe the comment to be true............More of a term used towards an insult than the truth.

Wendy


Tracy you are so far off its hillarious! Sexuality is NOT black and white there are many fine grey areas. Just because a ts uses her cock doesnt make her any less of a preop transsexual. She just happens to be comfortable with her cock..........I became a transsexual WAY before I knew anything about escorting and or porn.................

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Well IMO there's no such a thing of being a bottom, i think when a girl makes a decision of becoming a woman she wants to become a woman and as a woman she's supposed to be the receiver otherwise she would still be a gay dude fucking guys and those girls that only top i don't even consider them to be women, IMO they just some dudes doing it for the money or for their own pleasure and one day they will eventually go back like that brazilian guy Lisa Lawer.

Well this really boils down to different strokes for diffeent folks. So I can only say my point of view as I cannot speak for others. I used to also think that way. Being a woman means not allowing any guys go down on me and give me a bj. Also, I used to only take (bottom) and not give. But my perception of things changed after being with a guy for 3 years and then 2. Both guys were "straight" and have never been with a girl like me. But in the span of the relationship, I would be a in denial if I hid the fact that both "entertained" thoughts of bottoming. And at some point through out the duration of our relationship..Yes it happened. I dont think topping them made me less of the woman that I am or them any less of the men they were. But I believe that doing those "forbidden' things evenmore so made us bonded deeper. And that's what relationships are about. Being able to experiment and enjoy things with your partner. Otherwise, they might just entertain those curiousity outside the relationship.

So as a pre-op transexual, I dont believe that girls like me should not enjoy sex (getting oral and giving anal) just because we dont have the neccessary equiptment i.e. vagina we wished we had. I dont believe in on way (guys only gets oral and tops girls) type of deal. I want a fair share of the whole pie.

Ok so You and I have different take on the matter. So does that mean, because you believe girls should only take and not give..does that make you more a woman than I am (assuming by your handle that you are also a tgirl)? I dont think so.

I think the comment is more towards being mean.........Most think by calling them a "fag" it would bother them more than anything even if she doesnt believe the comment to be true............More of a term used towards an insult than the truth.

Wendy

Oh I meant every word I said to that guy Wendy. He behaved quite like one. Also remember that this guy is married (present tense) and is looking for a gullible ts to cheat with.

~Kisses.

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