A good indication of bad service... maybe?

[johnnyshemalelover]

as an escort and a very good one at that lets just say we all have our bad days and emails are so impersonall that we dont return them for the simple fact that bell made a telephone for us to comuminicate with and because most of us get over 100 emails a day we just have very busy lives and just dont have the time to return them all.if the girl in question is who i think it is im sure if ya did a search you would find a number.if you think most of us dont feel out clients by way of phone calls well we do,just because your interested in a girl doesnt always meen they will fit what your looking for aka if i got a call and didnt feel i could fullfill what he is looking for then id suggest a few others who are in my area that will fit his fantacy,the good escorts will do that because only a few of us are smart enough to know that its more impotant that the client gets what hes paying for over lying to the guy and promising stuff your not accustomed to doing just to make a buck. just my 2 cents

THANK you! I appreciate that you read and understood what I wrote and took the time to respond. That's excellent advice as well--now I have a better perspective of what it's like for escorts and how to approach one.

Thanks again!

[BrendaQG]

I didn't think you called her. That was just one little example of the crapola that does exist in that business.

[BlackAdder]

Plus, some of these girls, regardless of what they look like, just arent good businesswomen. If shes that successful that she gets 100s of emails a day, she should be able to pay someone to answer email for her like my company does.

If i was looking to spend out a grand or more on the services of a girl, your damn right i expect somewhat more than a one line reply.

[lisaparadise]

as an escort and a very good one at that lets just say we all have our bad days and emails are so impersonall that we dont return them for the simple fact that bell made a telephone for us to comuminicate with and because most of us get over 100 emails a day we just have very busy lives and just dont have the time to return them all.if the girl in question is who i think it is im sure if ya did a search you would find a number.if you think most of us dont feel out clients by way of phone calls well we do,just because your interested in a girl doesnt always meen they will fit what your looking for aka if i got a call and didnt feel i could fullfill what he is looking for then id suggest a few others who are in my area that will fit his fantacy,the good escorts will do that because only a few of us are smart enough to know that its more impotant that the client gets what hes paying for over lying to the guy and promising stuff your not accustomed to doing just to make a buck. just my 2 cents

THANK you! I appreciate that you read and understood what I wrote and took the time to respond. That's excellent advice as well--now I have a better perspective of what it's like for escorts and how to approach one.

Thanks again!

np babe, anytime i can help you guys get what your paying for is all good with me

[BrendaQG]

Plus, some of these girls, regardless of what they look like, just arent good businesswomen. If shes that successful that she gets 100s of emails a day, she should be able to pay someone to answer email for her like my company does.

If i was looking to spend out a grand or more on the services of a girl, your damn right i expect somewhat more than a one line reply.

I had to literally :LOL: at that one.

So lets see some hypothetical escort 100 emails a day. 99 or calls a day that lead no where. So that leads to 1 appointment per day at $200-$300 per day. Let's just suppose that she works every third day. That works out to about $2500 per month. Then subtract for all living expenses....

To pay someone say $7.00 per hour to take these calls... calls and emails come in 24 hours a day so three shifts would be needed. That would cost $5040/ month .... If that woman worked every single day that would work out to an average gross of $7500 per month.

Don't talk crap unless you have been there. To make more money than that someone would need to have the sex drive of 10 normal people. Or charge allot more.

[suckseed]

JSL,
From what I've read, it sounds to me like you haven't got much experience dealing with this sort of thing. You write some increasingly chatty emails to a woman who doesn't know you from Adam, get pissed off at her and tell her off, come here for advice, get it from two of the mods who might just know a little or a lot more about the subject than you, then proceed to get pissy with JWBL.

You get angry quickly it would seem, and say things that you will probably regret. Why identify yourself to this fantasy woman, then make sure that you never get the chance to get to know her here? Why insult a moderator who was nice enough to school you a little?

In short, READ THE REVIEWS and chill out. And if you learned anything from all of this, why not consider what you could have done differently.

Here, I'll help you make one conceptual leap. JWBL was trying to spill the facts of dealing with busy beautiful tgirl escorts. You got defensive and tell him he missed the point. Do you really think that? (Trust me, it wasn't a hard letter to grasp.) What was really going on was that your pride was hurt because you thought you could woo this girl with friendly banter, and experience all the intimacy that two people who know and like each other can have, but found out she wasn't buying it.

You know who's had some great friendships around here with escorts - Ecstatic. Go find some of his old posts.

Lastly, it would benefit you to learn to interact with people with more tact. But I'm probably wasting my breath at this point.

This was my face as I read this thread.

[crayons]

shes protecting herself legally...why do you think alot of the girls got their ads pulled off ser...cause it lists the monetary donations....it comes off as prostitution instead of escorting...

You mean there is a difference?

[NiceBod]

To Original Poster:

You may have had honest intentions of hiring her "one day" but escorts don't want to waste their time on someone who is looking to book time far in the future. These chicks are basically only interested in the clients that are looking for now. And they become like this from experience...once they're in the business a while they come to learn that guys that want to discuss hiring them "one day" far in the future are almost entirely bullshitters that just use the conversations as a way to talk with an attractive girl...in actuality they have no intention of hiring them, maybe they think through conversation they can be so charming that they will eventually become friends and get a freebie, I don't know.

[hwbs]

shes protecting herself legally...why do you think alot of the girls got their ads pulled off ser...cause it lists the monetary donations....it comes off as prostitution instead of escorting...

You mean there is a difference?

there is .i dont know the specifics....im not an escort but i did stay at a holiday inn last night ...thats why you cant find any info on alot of the providers on there...i am sure some one will eventually reply to clear the air...ALLANAH has talked about it many times on here..

[BeardedOne]

OK, I read the original post (Twice, to be sure I didn't miss anything). I'm also rather lucid today as I'm fresh from a bank meeting and haven't had the chance to consume mass quantities of swill, yet.

I can relate to this from a couple of angles, particularly from the point of view of the chatty e-mail guy that is somewhat put out by one-word replies. We wordsmiths, even the amateurs like myself that move apostrophes around like beanbag chairs at a keg party, put a lot of effort and passion into our drivel (Though we often don't see it as such) so, getting a basic "LOL" in response to a three-page anecdote can be a little hurtful.



That said: I have sent wordy notes to a couple of escorts and received little, if any in response. One pretty much gave me the impression that she was blowing me off entirely, but I know people that know her personally and their descriptions of her personality and manner (These descriptions being from people whose opinions I trust) speak against this attitude. Hence, I have filed it under 'bad-hair-day' syndrome. Next time she's in the neighborhood, I'll ping and try again, but won't write her off until she is proven beyond doubt to be the Medusa of all T-gurls.

Yet another, who I had seen and desired and fantasized over quite a bit, sent curt, to the point, essentially unfriendly responses to my notes. I gave her the benefit of the doubt (Busy, bad day, etc.) and persevered. I have never regreted it. In life she was sweet, polite, attentive, well-versed, and just plain fun. Email is pretty straight forward for her. Get on, get in, get out. And yah, a lot of it is driven by the 99 rule, though it could be as much as 99 an hour. Add in chats, messages, texts, and phone calls and polite, chatty responses become pretty rare.

As direct and seemingly impolite/uncaring as this gurl may have been to you, don't discount her until you've done a little more research. Best of luck to you.

Oh...

And don't poke the mods in the eye.