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    Quote Originally Posted by a994
    Sometimes I'd swear "HA" REALLY stands for "Hypocrites'Association" with all of these posts I read here.
    Sometimes?


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    Quote Originally Posted by a994
    Quote Originally Posted by tsntx
    someone already made that EXACT post legend in the first page or 2... yet ppl still get pissed bc they think just bc theyre "willing" to pay she should jump at the chance to "play"

    If I were to go to an escort and she turned me down because of my race or for whatever reason, that's her choice. (Also it's her problem if she IS racist.) I'm also not going to waste my time in trying to beg her to change her mind, feel sorry for me, and be with me in spite of her feelings.

    I only want to be with a woman who genuinely wants to be with me.
    Well said, and a healthy attitude.



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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnyshemalelover
    Quote Originally Posted by a994
    Quote Originally Posted by tsntx
    someone already made that EXACT post legend in the first page or 2... yet ppl still get pissed bc they think just bc theyre "willing" to pay she should jump at the chance to "play"

    If I were to go to an escort and she turned me down because of my race or for whatever reason, that's her choice. (Also it's her problem if she IS racist.) I'm also not going to waste my time in trying to beg her to change her mind, feel sorry for me, and be with me in spite of her feelings.

    I only want to be with a woman who genuinely wants to be with me.
    Well said, and a healthy attitude.
    That's just simple logic girl doesn't want to be with you so you move on to the next one.Complaining will accomplish nothing that's why this thread has been for pure entertainment purposes only.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Legend
    Quote Originally Posted by johnnyshemalelover
    Quote Originally Posted by a994
    Quote Originally Posted by tsntx
    someone already made that EXACT post legend in the first page or 2... yet ppl still get pissed bc they think just bc theyre "willing" to pay she should jump at the chance to "play"

    If I were to go to an escort and she turned me down because of my race or for whatever reason, that's her choice. (Also it's her problem if she IS racist.) I'm also not going to waste my time in trying to beg her to change her mind, feel sorry for me, and be with me in spite of her feelings.

    I only want to be with a woman who genuinely wants to be with me.
    Well said, and a healthy attitude.
    That's just simple logic girl doesn't want to be with you so you move on to the next one.Complaining will accomplish nothing that's why this thread has been for pure entertainment purposes only.
    Simple logic for you, not so simple for people who have feelings about the issue. Emotions displace logic in a way that's practically invisible to the individual. Probably the most important thing you can learn when it comes to understanding others and why the world is the way it is called "confirmation bias" and it works like this:

    People decide what to believe based on emotions, then look for any evidence or reasoning to support their decision, but they perceive the opposite; that they found the evidence and did the reasoning first and arrived at their decision through weighing of the evidence and reasoning! Furthermore, all evidence which would prove their belief is untrue they dismiss as biased or unimportant; or they simply forget about it. This has been shown repeatedly through psychological research. You can see it for yourself if you don't believe the research--but you have to look carefully.

    The stronger someone's feelings are on a subject, the more likely they are to apply confirmation bias.

    It's easiest to see this happening in people with whom you disagree. More difficult to see it happening in people with whom you agree. Practically impossible to see it happening in yourself. Almost everyone believes they're an exception to this rule, but this is one rule that has no exceptions.

    When you examine logic, you'll see that while it has many practical applications, it's fundamentally flawed when applied to the nature of reality. Logic is a useful delusion.

    What's the problem with logic? Well, the problem is that in order to reach a conclusion you have to have at least two knowns, and in reality there aren't two knowns. Again, this isn't so for practical use--I'm referring to the larger reality of the nature of existence.

    Sorry for the threadjack.



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    Ok ... I have NOT read all 18 pages of this mess. I do remember the discussion the Moderator mentioned (which happened here about 2 years ago because I was a part of it).

    1. She's racist and we all know it. Let's move on. She is neither the first or last.

    2. Girls have preferences (like guys do). However, this is about business and in business money is what counts first. And lest we forget, everyones' money is green. I do not turn away my clients because they are of a certain race or nationality. Of course, I am not a racist.

    3. Once you as the client acknowledge 1. and 2., then it becomes easier to find a provider who will appreciate you for you and act accodingly.

    4. More likely than not, you will get past this and realize that there is someone else who is probably better looking, with whom you will have a better experience.

    5. Personally, when it happened to me (and the provider I'm talking about could not tell I was black, but did ask me, stating: 'I don't f#ck with black men, too much time and effort') I was initially upset as well. But over a very short period of time, I was actually happy to know this fact upfront and avoid what would have been a very unpleasant experience. I share my info with others who need to know and keep on moving.












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    i once argued with an escort about her decision not to meet black guys. she said every black guy she ever met tried to rape or steal from her.

    ive met a lot of guys from all ethnic backgrounds and never experienced anything bad.

    at the end of the day i suppose if an escort chooses not meet any type of group of men its her personal choice. i dont want to meet obese men- due to physical difficulties rather than not finding them attractive. i happen to like "cuddly" guys but i do have a limit. i explain this on my website.

    its not racist if the girl displays on her website that she doesnt meet a certain type of guy. but i think its wrong to hang up if she realises u r black on phone and doesnt want to meet. its also damned rude.


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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
    Quote Originally Posted by johnnyshemalelover
    I got the impression she was racist in the "bad" sense because she hung up on the guy.
    There's a good sense?
    No, but there's a neutral sense, which I explained in that post. The human mind constantly makes judgments whether the judger is aware of it or not. Trying to stop making judgments about any particular thing is impossible. However, it is possible to be aware of one's judgments, and to accept them as trivial and likely to be incorrect. It's also possible to refrain from acting on judgments.

    The two words "racism" and "prejudice" are commonly used to mean the "bad" sense, which is using ones own prejudices to motivate or justify detrimental actions toward another. I don't condone wither of those actions.


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    Bottom line, IMO

    The escort behaved badly toward the black man. I don't know what it feels like to be black, so I can't judge the guy's feelings. I do know what it feels like to be treated like a piece of shit because of something about myself I can't change, though. That's essentially what she did to him. And that really stinks.

    If she has a problem with black guys, she should state this clearly in her ad. Whether or not such a preference is racist is moot. People can't help what they're attracted to or turned off by.


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    Trannies can't afford to be racist. Especially since the gay/trans community as a whole is just barely accepted and hardly respected.



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