Question for the girls

[TJ347]

Jen, what I'm talking about with respect to the girls I have actually met and some of the ones on this board are the similarities in their personalities, and the fact that all of them escort. As far as the girls here, I can only go by what I'm given. So, if a girl is consistently unpleasant without provocation, am I wrong to conclude she's a bitch? Or should I not judge her to be a bitch, because she might be nicer when she's not posting on HA? Further, the whole thing about girls escorting to retake power from past abusers... that kind of thinking is part of what I'm talking about. You shouldn't be a bitch to me because some dude I have nothing to do with and who wasn't me did you wrong way back when. If you're taking my money, then it's inherent that you, as a provider of a service, be courteous. I have had an unpleasant first encounter with every tgirl I've ever met in person, yet I'm here interacting with still more, without going on the attack on each and every one because of the experiences I've had in the past. I'm not carrying over bitterness from the experiences I've had with girls I've met to those here whom I haven't, and if there are girls who escort carrying such baggage, and I know there are, then they shouldn't be escorting IMHO, but getting counseling. I'm black, and got picked on for six years because I was one of seven black people in an all-white school. Am I entitled to be mean to all white people today because of what happened then? Obviously not, and if I was rude to every white person I met, you could accurately judge me to be an asshole, because my actions would be immature to say the least. And so, if a girl escorts for the reasons you mention, and acts in the manner I've mentioned, I'd say it was fair for me to judge her as both a head case and a bitch. What else could she be?

[tsntx]

My take on it: Guys who like tranny's too often act like they are at Disneyland, and every girl they encounterl is a Disney "cast member" committed to their guest experience.

FK

That may well be true. However, I have never met a single TG in person who had what I'd call a pleasant personality. If I walk by and say "hello", immediately she goes into "bitch mode", until I say "I am not propositioning you... I'm just saying 'hello'". After that, I move on. More times than not, she winds up buying me a drink and we start up a conversation, but it's up to me to get around her initial defenses. And in many cases, I've ultimately found that it's not worth the effort.

Woman can be the same too though, that have been hurt. I'm pleasant with everyone I meet, if they want to buy me a drink I'm all for it. But as soon as they talk dirty I walk off lol

like pink said "keep your drink just give me the money!"
thats usually the biggest things i get w/ guys at bars... "i bought u a drink..." "yeah and that doesnt entitle you to anything as 1. it would have been FREE had i asked the bartender for it myself as 2. its a friggin virgin"

thats the thing w/ guys at bars... they ASSume you are there to turn tricks and get upset and blame YOU for not going for their RUDE, yes RUDE, routine.

[tsntx]

Jen, what I'm talking about with respect to the girls I have actually met and some of the ones on this board are the similarities in their personalities, and the fact that all of them escort. As far as the girls here, I can only go by what I'm given. So, if a girl is consistently unpleasant without provocation, am I wrong to conclude she's a bitch? Or should I not judge her to be a bitch, because she might be nicer when she's not posting on HA? Further, the whole thing about girls escorting to retake power from past abusers... that kind of thinking is part of what I'm talking about. You shouldn't be a bitch to me because some dude I have nothing to do with and who wasn't me did you wrong way back when. If you're taking my money, then it's inherent that you, as a provider of a service, be courteous. I have had an unpleasant first encounter with every tgirl I've ever met in person, yet I'm here interacting with still more, without going on the attack on each and every one because of the experiences I've had in the past. I'm not carrying over bitterness from the experiences I've had with girls I've met to those here whom I haven't, and if there are girls who escort carrying such baggage, and I know there are, then they shouldn't be escorting IMHO, but getting counseling. I'm black, and got picked on for six years because I was one of seven black people in an all-white school. Am I entitled to be mean to all white people today because of what happened then? Obviously not, and if I was rude to every white person I met, you could accurately judge me to be an asshole, because my actions would be immature to say the least. And so, if a girl escorts for the reasons you mention, and acts in the manner I've mentioned, I'd say it was fair for me to judge her as both a head case and a bitch. What else could she be?

can you name such instances when the girls here were bitches right off the bat, unprovoked, unsolicited? ill be waiting for examples... bc if you post an example of me... ill be ready to set the record straight. if its someone else... they can speak for themselves...

[MrsKellyPierce]

My take on it: Guys who like tranny's too often act like they are at Disneyland, and every girl they encounterl is a Disney "cast member" committed to their guest experience.

FK

That may well be true. However, I have never met a single TG in person who had what I'd call a pleasant personality. If I walk by and say "hello", immediately she goes into "bitch mode", until I say "I am not propositioning you... I'm just saying 'hello'". After that, I move on. More times than not, she winds up buying me a drink and we start up a conversation, but it's up to me to get around her initial defenses. And in many cases, I've ultimately found that it's not worth the effort.

Woman can be the same too though, that have been hurt. I'm pleasant with everyone I meet, if they want to buy me a drink I'm all for it. But as soon as they talk dirty I walk off lol

like pink said "keep your drink just give me the money!"
thats usually the biggest things i get w/ guys at bars... "i bought u a drink..." "yeah and that doesnt entitle you to anything as 1. it would have been FREE had i asked the bartender for it myself as 2. its a friggin virgin"

thats the thing w/ guys at bars... they ASSume you are there to turn tricks and get upset and blame YOU for not going for their RUDE, yes RUDE, routine.

lol REAL TALK

[TJ347]

The guys that rent the escorts out aren't no better so why put the focus on the escort.. Well the guys are just out for the goods half the time, and expect the transexual in question just to be okay to be used as a toy for free and not have feelings. Like a robot or android.

Also escorting doesn't make the person bad it's the same as having a one night stand.

Kelly, I don't know where you got that I'm saying escorts are bad and the guys that pay them are better. I'm saying the girls I've met personally were all rude, and all of them happened to be escorts. The girls here who I think of as rude, all happen to escort. That's it. Period, end of sentence. I don't think escorts are bad. I think escorts with bad attitudes are bad. I think people who hire escorts and act like the escort should do anything they tell them to do for the hour because they got paid are bad. That's all I'm saying. Please let's not make this into something it's not. I have quite enjoyed talking to most of you ladies in the brief time I've been here, and don't want you to take something I've said in a way that I did not mean it to be taken...

[Super_dave]

I dunno but I've never been a big fan of buying a girl drinks at the bar (in my case GGs although I don't see this being any different). I always thought it was the refuge of the guy who couldn't go up and make witty convo, just teh same old, can I buy you a drink...

Maybe it's different with tgirls, cause as has been said, the 'chasers' just assume that they're 'working'? But shit, I couldn't imagine that buying someone a drink would entitle you to sweet fuck all. Tha's why the closest line to that I've ever used is (after talking for a while 1st) let's do some shots, atleast taht way I get some booze too, haha.

[MrsKellyPierce]

The guys that rent the escorts out aren't no better so why put the focus on the escort.. Well the guys are just out for the goods half the time, and expect the transexual in question just to be okay to be used as a toy for free and not have feelings. Like a robot or android.

Also escorting doesn't make the person bad it's the same as having a one night stand.

Kelly, I don't know where you got that I'm saying escorts are bad and the guys that pay them are better. I'm saying the girls I've met personally were all rude, and all of them happened to be escorts. The girls here who I think of as rude, all happen to escort. That's it. Period, end of sentence. I don't think escorts are bad. I think escorts with bad attitudes are bad. I think people who hire escorts and act like the escort should do anything they tell them to do for the hour because they got paid are bad. That's all I'm saying. Please let's not make this into something it's not. I have quite enjoyed talking to most of you ladies in the brief time I've been here, and don't want you to take something I've said in a way that I did not mean it to be taken...

I don't think you can take arguments between us girls as being rude thats us arguing. It isn't how we treat people. I'm always nice and say my gratitude to people otherwise as well as many of the other girls on the site. There are a few that do put the bitch card out there, why I don't know but in all most of the girls are nice to the guys on here.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I dunno but I've never been a big fan of buying a girl drinks at the bar (in my case GGs although I don't see this being any different). I always thought it was the refuge of the guy who couldn't go up and make witty convo, just teh same old, can I buy you a drink...

Maybe it's different with tgirls, cause as has been said, the 'chasers' just assume that they're 'working'? But shit, I couldn't imagine that buying someone a drink would entitle you to sweet fuck all. Tha's why the closest line to that I've ever used is (after talking for a while 1st) let's do some shots, atleast taht way I get some booze too, haha.

In my PERSONAL OPINION. You can tell the chasers and the guys that are really interested in talking to you. Chasers will look you up and down like you are a peice of meat and everywhere you walk in the club they follow like wolves. And yes when and if they do finally get up the nerve to walk up to talk to me. I do put across the "THIS IS MY SPACE ACT...DON'T CROSS IT." But I'm not bitchy. I just let them know I'm in control. I think there is a difference, otherwise that TRANNY CHASER is liable of trying to take his cock out right in front of you or some othe crazy stuff I swear some of them are so damn BRAVE it's beyond me.

[tsntx]

I'm black, and got picked on for six years because I was one of seven black people in an all-white school. Am I entitled to be mean to all white people today because of what happened then? Obviously not, and if I was rude to every white person I met, you could accurately judge me to be an asshole, because my actions would be immature to say the least. And so, if a girl escorts for the reasons you mention, and acts in the manner I've mentioned, I'd say it was fair for me to judge her as both a head case and a bitch. What else could she be?

i didnt say she had the right to be "mean" or a "bitch" to said clients, just like you dont have the right to be a jerk to white ppl... what "escorts" do have the right to do is flip the tables on guys that only see us as objects for their personal sexual gratification, the we have the right to treat them as objects for our financial gain... .... now i know not all clients do treat "us" this way, this statement applies to those that do...

[Super_dave]

I dunno but I've never been a big fan of buying a girl drinks at the bar (in my case GGs although I don't see this being any different). I always thought it was the refuge of the guy who couldn't go up and make witty convo, just teh same old, can I buy you a drink...

Maybe it's different with tgirls, cause as has been said, the 'chasers' just assume that they're 'working'? But shit, I couldn't imagine that buying someone a drink would entitle you to sweet fuck all. Tha's why the closest line to that I've ever used is (after talking for a while 1st) let's do some shots, atleast taht way I get some booze too, haha.

In my PERSONAL OPINION. You can tell the chasers and the guys that are really interested in talking to you. Chasers will look you up and down like you are a peice of meat and everywhere you walk in the club they follow like wolves. And yes when and if they do finally get up the nerve to walk up to talk to me. I do put across the "THIS IS MY SPACE ACT...DON'T CROSS IT." But I'm not bitchy. I just let them know I'm in control. I think there is a difference, otherwise that TRANNY CHASER is liable of trying to take his cock out right in front of you or some othe crazy stuff I swear some of them are so damn BRAVE it's beyond me.

Weird, I couldn't imagine treating a ts different from a gg (granted I've only met a few ts) and no one would pull that kinda shit. Oh well, i guess the world is full of shitheads..