Question for the girls

[TJ347]

Jen, what I'm talking about with respect to the girls I have actually met and some of the ones on this board are the similarities in their personalities, and the fact that all of them escort. As far as the girls here, I can only go by what I'm given. So, if a girl is consistently unpleasant without provocation, am I wrong to conclude she's a bitch? Or should I not judge her to be a bitch, because she might be nicer when she's not posting on HA?

can you name such instances when the girls here were bitches right off the bat, unprovoked, unsolicited? ill be waiting for examples... bc if you post an example of me... ill be ready to set the record straight. if its someone else... they can speak for themselves...

This is quickly going to shit... Basically, my thinking is that if you jump on people for things you think they're saying, and after they clarify what they meant, you still continue to go off on them, presuming you can speak for what they meant to say better than they can... then without provocation, you are behaving like a bitch. When you resort to name-calling when someone points out the hypocrisy in something you're saying by posting something contradictory that you previously said... then without provocation (and you weren't provoked because remember, you're the one who made that contradictory statement), you are behaving like a bitch. When a girl posts something that doesn't have to do with you but which you disagree with, and you then resort to referring to her by her male name and posting pictures of her as a man... You get my point. That is all I have to say on this topic. I am not going to name any names, as I think my points are quite clear. I am not looking to fight with anyone, but I call it like I see it, so if that leads to problems, then it leads to problems. But on this issue, I am done, in efforts to prevent this from going any further south than it has, and because it appears that some people are starting to read more into what I'm saying than I'm saying.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I dunno but I've never been a big fan of buying a girl drinks at the bar (in my case GGs although I don't see this being any different). I always thought it was the refuge of the guy who couldn't go up and make witty convo, just teh same old, can I buy you a drink...

Maybe it's different with tgirls, cause as has been said, the 'chasers' just assume that they're 'working'? But shit, I couldn't imagine that buying someone a drink would entitle you to sweet fuck all. Tha's why the closest line to that I've ever used is (after talking for a while 1st) let's do some shots, atleast taht way I get some booze too, haha.

In my PERSONAL OPINION. You can tell the chasers and the guys that are really interested in talking to you. Chasers will look you up and down like you are a peice of meat and everywhere you walk in the club they follow like wolves. And yes when and if they do finally get up the nerve to walk up to talk to me. I do put across the "THIS IS MY SPACE ACT...DON'T CROSS IT." But I'm not bitchy. I just let them know I'm in control. I think there is a difference, otherwise that TRANNY CHASER is liable of trying to take his cock out right in front of you or some othe crazy stuff I swear some of them are so damn BRAVE it's beyond me.

Weird, I couldn't imagine treating a ts different from a gg (granted I've only met a few ts) and no one would pull that kinda shit. Oh well, i guess the world is full of shitheads..

Oh trust me sweety they do it. I've had to protect a few of my friends in a club from them. It's just god awful.

[TJ347]

I'm black, and got picked on for six years because I was one of seven black people in an all-white school. Am I entitled to be mean to all white people today because of what happened then? Obviously not, and if I was rude to every white person I met, you could accurately judge me to be an asshole, because my actions would be immature to say the least. And so, if a girl escorts for the reasons you mention, and acts in the manner I've mentioned, I'd say it was fair for me to judge her as both a head case and a bitch. What else could she be?

i didnt say she had the right to be "mean" or a "bitch" to said clients, just like you dont have the right to be a jerk to white ppl... what "escorts" do have the right to do is flip the tables on guys that only see us as objects for their personal sexual gratification, the we have the right to treat them as objects for our financial gain... .... now i know not all clients do treat "us" this way, this statement applies to those that do...

Got it. We're on the same page...

[tsntx]

heres an example of why guys get the attitudes they get from girls who arent interested... for whatever reason!... we dont need to explain why we dont want to talk to you... we just DONT sometimes.. right now my msngr is set to "busy" so that means "im NOT in the mood to chat" and usually even if it says something different i still dont want to talk to someone i dont know... just like, yes, at a bar.

latta1969: you real/
: do i know u
latta1969: no just you have a nice pic
latta1969: just making friends sorry if i bothered you
: k
latta1969: just your pic is so good I though maybe it was an advertisement pic
latta1969: your really pretty
latta1969: would you like to chat?
: k thnx
: no
latta1969: ok bye
: nite
latta1969: but i just may be the person that may change your life
latta1969: or not
latta1969: lol
latta1969: bye
: yeah... or not
latta1969: LOL you never know
latta1969: but you wont. again your loss
: yes im sure it is... im slicing my wrists now
latta1969: why are you doing that?
: bc ive lost you forever
latta1969: lol
: but u keep coming back
latta1969: love your sarcassam
: how am i going to miss you if you wont leave
latta1969: i just like that you have to have the last word
: youre right i do

then i put him on ignore. thus giving me... you guessed it... the last word.

[TJ347]

There's two sides to every story, and since no one else seems to want to present the other side, I guess it's up to me...
I know that as a TG, you get treated as a piece of meat by some clients and many "tranny chasers" as you all seem to collectively call them, and that you are therefore defensive when approached. However, remember that you aren't treated that way be everybody, and don't (to use Jen's wording) ASSume that everybody is the same, before you give them a chance to prove otherwise. That's all I've got... I've got to catch a flight to Arizona in a few hours, so goodnight all!