Hey all...anyone like me?

[pghadmirer]

Hello all. This is my first post on here, although I have been coming to this site for 5 or 6 years now. Go figure.

Anyways, I'd like to know if there are other guys out there like me. I am sure this is probably so. I remember seeing my first TG on the internet during my freshman year of college (10 years ago). At first, I didn't know what to think, honestly. Then, as my curiousity about TGs got to me, I continued to keep "researching" on the net. Soon after, about 90% of the porn I would look at/watch on the 'net was TG.

At first, I questioned my sexuality b/c I have never seen gay porn or ever checked out a guy, but seeing a chick w/ a dick turns me on moreso than any other type of porn.

In between dating GG's in my early 20's, I began pursuing TGs. My thought was that I would like to date/have a relationship with a TG. I had the "pleasure" of meeting several in my area, thanks to the chat rooms. I took several out on dates, but, unfortunately, I noticed some similarities between the several I met.

Each had severe baggage, either mental, drug, or personality issues. Now, I am sure there are plenty of girls out there who are down-to-earth nice people, but I never had the pleasure of meeting any like that in person. My experiences got to me so bad that I even gave up coming to sites like this, let's just say, my fantasies and urges were squashed.

I eventually met my dream girl (a GG) and we fell madly in love and now I am married. I have a 100% happy marriage, but my urges and feeling in regards to what turns me on and my fantasies have gotten the best of me. Now, I have returned to sites like this.

Am I confused that I am not entirely happy with my life? By all means, no way. I have always wanted to get married and start a family. But, my fantasies are what they are, and I have learned to accept them. I haven't lost my fascination with TG's, even though my in-person experiences were unfortunately for me, negative.

[Phat]

maybe

you're

gay

[MrsKellyPierce]

How many times is this going to be stated by someone with a different way of putting it? If you've been coming here 5 or 6 years then you should already have your answer, since this particular thread is made at least 2 or 3 times a week.

[Quinn]

Welcome aboard :P

[TomSelis]

Eh,

[wendy48088]

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[user1for]

Listen to someone older. Fantasies are not reality. You will never be able to live a fantasy. Keep most fantasies to yourself. Nothing can compete with the human brain, not even your partner. They will most likely feel insecure. Be grateful for what you have. Concentrate on your partner and family. Try to limit porn viewing. It's like a drug that wants more and more of your life. If you slip now and then, so you slip. Don't guilt yourself into more negative behavior. Will you look back on your life and wish you spent more of it with porn, or with your family?

The more you stay away from porn, the stronger your sex life will be with your wife.


Best Wishes!

[Coroner]

been coming to this site for 5-6 years now, huh? how the hell did you miss all the 2345742 "am I gay?"-threads?

[Linda]

What about getting your wife to strap one on for a night of fun. TEst her out. Many woman like it. I know you would.

[dgtlmstry]

Why should he steer clear of porn websites and forget about his fantasy? Even if he took that crap advice, he would eventually fall right back into it...and then it will be worse because he'll try to hide it, get busted, and then he'll have another typical marriage (dysfunctional) Just tell your wife. Be OPEN, with her. You should both be that way with each other anyway. If she totally rejects you, and doesn't even TRY to understand....she has her own issues that she has to work on. Get those ironed out, or kick her to the curb. Try to suppress things, and you will cause yourself alot of heartache when it comes gushing out on it's own.

Pony-up