Oh mY God--am I a CREEP?? jenn paris/allanahs party-question

[peggygee]

Okay...well...you said that better than I did in my previous post.

Thanks, I'm a big fan of understanding 'why' we do the things
we do, and understanding our emotions about them.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

All I am saying is that my parties- and the girls- we are not aliens,

Your behaviour should not be any different at my party then at any other party.

If you go to a girl and ask an offensive or stupid question (not saying that you did but believe you me, i get them all the time- especially fron people whi think because u look a certain way or what you do for a living can say whatever they want to you) then she is going to brush you off.

If you are acting like a troll- then you will be treated as a troll. And that goes forany gender or person that comes to my party.

[hwbs]

i just don't like it how someone has to put other people down to bring themselves up......we all cant be male models , lmao....i can guarantee alot of those so called weirdos know how to talk to the girls and do get lucky...don't judge a book by its cover.....im no prize but if i say hi to Jennifer she doesn't go running for cover...im sure you could of made your points without putting others down...but hey its fucking hung angels

[sheyum]

did i put someone down?

[hwbs]

quote: I was standing there and looking around..and so many of the guys there looked like freaks to me--so creepy...

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

did i put someone down?

yeah ya did

you know you did too, please let's not be ignorant about this

it's practically on the same level as what IMUS said about those female basketball players, something stupid without knowing one of them at all personally..........................

[hwbs]

we will try to leave our pocket protectors and trench coats home next time

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

we will try to leave our pocket protectors and trench coats home next time

hehehe

vintage Hollywood

[Felicia Katt]

"I cant believe how pretty you are "

Thats a pretty backhanded compliment. I know you probably meant it as you are incredibly beautiful, but it comes off more as wow, you aren't as ugly as I thought you would be.

You admitted what you said was lame. Lameness like that will make any girl walk away.

FK

[yodajazz]

This is a good thread and I respect everyone responses. I’ve been there been there on both sides; feeling like a creep, and also having had a good time, without hooking up. My success had come from just talking to anyone, like other guys. Often you have a lot in common, or they may have had experiences already and are willing to fill you in. You can talk and still check things out, while you are talking.

The other thing is what had already been stated; buy people drinks first just as a signal that you are interested in talking. A woman could be waiting for someone else, for example, and she will decline a drink to signal that she is not interested. Look for friendly looking people in a group and by one a drink. If they accept, they usually will introduce to their friends, etc. Or just buy someone a drink who has an empty glass.
They may appreciate the attention.

Jennifer Paris is a nationally known model, who should have her choice of whom she wishes to associate with. So one should not expect her to gush at every person who gives her a compliment. I think it would feel a little weird to her, to suddenly engage someone in conversation that has not been interacting with others.

Be nice to someone that you are not drooling over, just for the conversation. That is when I have good times.