Favourite song to make love to...

[Aragon21]

Take this from someone with personal experience: if you don't have ED, do NOT take Viagra or any of those pills like that. They will seriously mess you up. Like, give you a raging hard on that will last for a loooooooooooooong time. Sure, it'll be cool at first, but after the second day that feeling kinda wears off.

Then you need to consider going to a doctor.

LMFAO No at your age you should not take this for recreation. I have no experience taking it so I don't know if being in my 30's makes a difference, but in my late teens and early 20's I would still get the random happy one just riding on a bumpy bus staring at a beautiful girl. Of course my math teacher could do that to me when I was 15 without the vibrating seat...she could erase a board like you wouldn't believe.

But music is the thread. Hmmm. Been awhile but an ex and I used to listen to alot of Nirvana, Pearl Jam, NIN, or classics like CCR so that was often playing in the background. Or if it was a candlelight kinda night we would put on Tori Amos, Lisa Loeb, Jewel, Sarah McLachlan, Fiona Apple, you know your basic Lilith Fair music.

Back in my senior year of high school, it used to be Depeche Mode, The Cure, and sadly MC Hammer (but that had a good beat to keep up with. )

[TJT]

"Oh Bondage! Up Yours!" by X-Ray Spex and "1-2 XU" by Wire.

The Buzzcocks "Orgasm Addict" would be in there too.

[TJT]

I'm done and in the kitchen making a sandwich after 5 minutes.

[TJT]

Mojo Nixon. I like the mellow stuff when I'm eating.

[Fox]

luther van dross, sade

No way you can go wrong there. Also let me throw in...

Maxwell - 'Til The Cops Come Knockin' (Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite)
- A song tailored for this sorta thing.

Usher - Can U Handle It (Confessions)
- Same as above.

Eric Benet - Love Of My Own (A Day In The Life)
- Same.

Eric Benet - Pretty Baby (Hurricane)
- The lyrics don't really fit, but the tempo and melody are perfect for love-making.

Eric Benet - Making Love (Hurricane)
- I hope I don't have to explain this one.

John Legend - Let's Get Lifted Again (Get Lifted)
- A short interlude-like song, Legend's vocals will make her melt.

Alicia Keys - Feeling U, Feeling Me (The Diary of Alicia Keys)
- This actually is an interlude, but it fits perfect.

Lionel Richie - Hello (The Definitive Collection)
- Awesomesauce.

Anita Baker - Sweet Love (The Best of Anita Baker)
- There's no way this won't work. You could probably just run the entire cd and be set.

Lenny Kravitz - For The First Time (Another Life [B-sides and unreleased])
- This is a bit subjective to taste. Might be more of slow dance type song than love-making.

Al Green - Simply Beautiful (I'm Still In Love With You)
- Your man throws down. Nice, soft, and controlled. Perfect.

[TJT]

Is the Reverend Al still alive?

Back when I was young guy if playing Al Green or Smokey and the Miracles couldn't get you laid you might as well have put a bullet in your head.

[deke]

Pretty much anything by Garbage. Not really love making music, more like Fucking music...

[Coroner]

I recommend Santana´s song "Bella"

[Realgirls4me]

Hmmmm, with or without Cialis?

LOL Who on HA's got erectile dysfunction?

LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

My response was actually in line with what your post touched on: mood.

I do, or at least have had ED of late. Of the four or five girls I've seen, only two had me at full or semi-full attention. Playing detective, these two women did start things off differently than all the others in that they didn't rush things and they also walked around so casually in the nude as they spoke to me; I'm still wondering whether all that casual carefree approach played into it. Mood and atmosphere are everything after all, and maybe those two were able to get the libido and imagination in just the right mood, cosmic interference notwithstanding.

In my case, and at my age(I'm not 18 anymore), I have found that I have to develope a strong sexual attraction for a woman, particularly someone I've never met. Sometimes it's not possible to get worked up under the duress of an unfamiliar woman, unfamiliar surroundings, and a timed session places one under.

As far as Cialis goes,I would never use it, or anything like it.

[suckseed]

Benny Hill theme song, hands down.