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    Quote Originally Posted by TJ347
    Quote Originally Posted by Xiorc
    It is weird that a M2F TS would find Buck disgusting especially when F2M TS's preach all about tolerance and acceptance...
    I've only been a member for a short while, but I've found all that talk doesn't go as far as most of those espousing it would like to pretend it does. I can't tell you how many times I've expressed an opinion and been told "DON'T JUDGE" and the like, only to have read posts by the same person before and after their "DON'T JUDGE" post where they did nothing but judge people. Just as is the case offline, bullshit abounds. Just remember to bring your waders is the best advice I can give at this point...
    lol

    Ill still say that I find him sexually displeasing, it does not turn me on . I have never met him/her nor have I ever had a conversation with him so I dont know what kind of person he/she is. But that goes for all the so called true M2F TS's here! If its them really writing then fine but if its not them...big deal anyway. But I've read some of there replies and was appalled by what they had to say...OH well my Internet feelings were not hurt.



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    Quote Originally Posted by LG
    Actually, when I saw the video clip I was intrigued but not really turned on. I disagree with Vala though, because I don't think we should be using the word "disgusting" here. A lot of people find tgirls "disgusting" and we need to go out of our way to stop that kind of thing. An FTM is no different in many ways to an MTF.
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    Thanks for saying this LG, this was the only post that didn't make me want to rip my hair out.

    Look guys, my best friend is an FTM. Several of my former lovers are FTM's. I've been through some serious shit with some beautiful people, and I think describing FTM's as "disgusting" is messed up. And seriously, I've been on the other end of the coin so many times, and it sucks.

    Ignorant douchebags.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Xiorc
    Quote Originally Posted by TJ347
    Quote Originally Posted by Xiorc
    It is weird that a M2F TS would find Buck disgusting especially when F2M TS's preach all about tolerance and acceptance...
    I've only been a member for a short while, but I've found all that talk doesn't go as far as most of those espousing it would like to pretend it does. I can't tell you how many times I've expressed an opinion and been told "DON'T JUDGE" and the like, only to have read posts by the same person before and after their "DON'T JUDGE" post where they did nothing but judge people. Just as is the case offline, bullshit abounds. Just remember to bring your waders is the best advice I can give at this point...
    lol

    Ill still say that I find him sexually displeasing, it does not turn me on . I have never met him/her nor have I ever had a conversation with him so I dont know what kind of person he/she is. But that goes for all the so called true M2F TS's here! If its them really writing then fine but if its not them...big deal anyway. But I've read some of there replies and was appalled by what they had to say...OH well my Internet feelings were not hurt.
    Why do you keep on calling him a she? Is your mind so closed that you cant see that he is a transsexual and expresses his gender as male- therefore u should use the refer to him in the masculine?

    Give him the same respect you would give any female to male transsexual. Find him sexually displeasing all you like- but don't act like a moron.


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    Buck is 110% man. The scene may be perverse by societal standards, but it was innovative.

    What if all men had pussies and all women had cocks but everything else was the same. Men continued to be stronger, better paid, full of testosterone, etc.

    In some alternate universe perhaps...



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    I had to laugh about the "Buckback Mountain" banner above.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
    What if all men had pussies and all women had cocks...
    Now that's a scary thought. lol



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    Quote Originally Posted by tsmandy
    I think describing FTM's as "disgusting" is messed up. And seriously, I've been on the other end of the coin so many times, and it sucks.
    Ignorant douchebags.
    I think describing people who have opinions that differ from yours as "ignorant douchebags" is "messed up", as well as counterproductive. As I've said elsewhere, if others like something I don't like, like F2M transsexuals, then good for them. But the whole "I'm morally superior to you, because I can appreciate a Buck Angel film" crap is just a load of bullshit. Just as you have a right to like Buck Angel, I have a right to like what I like, and to call what I don't like "disgusting" if that's how I feel about it. You might want me to use another word, but if "disgusting" is the word I choose to use, then that word fits for me, and I am under no obligation to change it because you would rather I did, and all the "ignorant douchebags" you can throw at me aren't going to change that. It isn't "closed-minded" in the least if someone doesn't find F2M transsexuals appealing... It's just not their particular interest. I might not like the music you like... am I "close-minded" or an "ignorant douchebag" because of that? Note, I'm not one of the people who have called Buck "disgusting". I'm just a guy who's sick of the double standard that exists when it comes to some TGs on this board making judgements of what's acceptable and what isn't, versus the rest of us, who clearly aren't allowed to do the same thing. As I said before, bullshit abounds...


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    Quote Originally Posted by TJ347
    I think describing people who have opinions that differ from yours as "ignorant douchebags" is "messed up", as well as counterproductive. As I've said elsewhere, if others like something I don't like, like F2M transsexuals, then good for them. But the whole "I'm morally superior to you, because I can appreciate a Buck Angel film" crap is just a load of bullshit.
    Counterproductive maybe, definitely cathartic. I don't give a shit about morals, yours or mine. I just don't like hearing trans peoples bodies referred to as disgusting. Transitioning is an intensely difficult choice, and it can really fuck with your self confidence. It takes a lot of us years to learn to love ourselves even if we may be different. And I don't like people being put down for that, and described as disgusting.

    In the future when I think people are being assholes I'll keep it to myself. But I'll still think you're a bunch of mean spirited self absorbed assholes.



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    I saw in another post that Buck was actually a very attractive woman in the past, does anyone have pics? I am just curious because he looks like a pretty hard masculine dude now.



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    Quote Originally Posted by tsmandy
    Counterproductive maybe, definitely cathartic. I don't give a shit about morals, yours or mine. I just don't like hearing trans peoples bodies referred to as disgusting. Transitioning is an intensely difficult choice, and it can really fuck with your self confidence. It takes a lot of us years to learn to love ourselves even if we may be different. And I don't like people being put down for that, and described as disgusting.

    In the future when I think people are being assholes I'll keep it to myself. But I'll still think you're a bunch of mean spirited self absorbed assholes.
    From what I can tell, one of the problems that always comes up in the more contentious topics like this one is that people are unable to make both make their point and respect those of others which differ, without resorting to name calling and the like. What you need to understand is that no one is talking about you and the difficulties you might have had transitioning, being accepted by your family as a transgendered person, etcetera, or making an attack on the transgendered community. So don't take a comment made about whether someone finds Buck physically unappealing as a comment about you personally, and flashback to unpleasant days in your past. It's not only not about you, but it's not about Buck even... It's about the people making the comments, and what they do and don't find physically attractive. I mean, you're defending whether Buck should be considered an attractive porn star for goodness sake, as if everyone has the same tastes! Please, come off it!


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