1st attempt to use escort goes wrong

[wombat33]

Hi guys and girls...I've been lurking on this site and I've really enjoyed the mix of pictures/videos and ts discussion. I found this site and the eros guide a couple of months ago and decided to get the courage up and contact a ts for a first time experience.

Being a little nervous about the whole thing, I wanted to find a girl who would be supportive and helpful with a first timer. I found a girl here on the San Diego section of the website named Mimi who looks really cool and had the following in her ad "Available to sincere discreet gentlemen who want to experience something new and exciting.I will not rush you. I am very polite and classy".

Excellent, this matches me exactly. So, I get the nerve to call and she is immediately rude. She answers and says hello and I ask if this is Mimi. She said "yes" curtly and I went on to say that I saw her on the eros guide. She snapped "so, do you want an appointment." Of course, I answered yes and she said "what time?". I said whatever time works for you because I was in no rush and thought that she might have other appointments.

This is where the discretion goes out the window. She then briskly asks "How generous will you be with your donation tonight?" I was totally thrown off because I was pretty sure that discussing "donations" over the phone wasn't going to happen due to numerous reasons. I said that I wasn't sure, this is my first time. She then gets bitchy and asks about what I like to do. Once again, I thought this sort of talk would not take place on the phone. I'm not sure she understood what the word "discrete" means. She then says "Honey, you don't know what you want, quit wasting my time" and hung up on me. Then, it got really bizarre with three phone calls from a private caller. I finally answered and somebody with a strangely husky voice is asking why I called their number. Of course, it sounded like her either using a more masculine voice but I can't be 100% on that.

I've read on this site about how escorts can be hit and miss (fibbing about size and functionality, moodiness etc), but this sort of thing on the first phone call has me turned off to using any escorts. If this is the treatment that girl who advertises herself as kind/classy and basically caters to first timers, I'm worried what I'll get from other girls.

I'm sure escorts are worried about police posing as 1st time clients, but then why ask for a "donation" and a specification of desired services on the phone? Makes me worried that she was a cop.Is there a protocol that I totally missed out, like some sort of special words I should have been using? Where did I go wrong or did I?

Seek Mia Fever on EROS in California and you will be VERY VERY GLAD you did.

Sweetheart. Georgeous. Hung. Functional, and very easy to deal with.

[mikejones]

If there are any bars that the girls hang out at in your area that can be fun too. You have the opportunity to buy them a drink and meet them first. If you don't like a girl's attitude, then just move on and find another one.

[ezed]

As far as I have heard, price is negotiated BEFORE YOU MEET....Unless guys change their minds at the last minute and all, I really don't see a girl bargaining for her time and services "after the fact". It'd be way too easy to get burnt that way.

I would think, as I don't know precisely, that most girls also have a standard flat rate to start from, in the event that they do meet a guy, and then nothing else happens. That way, their time is not totally wasted in the event he decides not to go further, physically, than meeting.

The rate advertised is the rate. There is no negotiating before or in person. If you wanna negotiate go to a t-girl bar and do in person. The good girls phones are ringing constantly. If you call expect to pay the advertised rate. When you call you are dealing with a person. Depending on their mood at that point in time, it is what it is. Put yourself in their shoes. It's hard to explain, but when you if you've dealt with customers no matter what the service.....you'll understand.

Now put your helmet on and get back on the ice, or we'll ship you to the minors.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I'm sorry that whole thing made me laugh

[NadiaUSA]

Review sites like TER are for cheap ass losers. All they talk about is how much for how cheap. Dont ever tell a girl your calling from there. Its the wrong attitude to have, just go and be yourself.

[Realgirls4me]

Review sites like TER are for cheap ass losers. All they talk about is how much for how cheap. Dont ever tell a girl your calling from there. Its the wrong attitude to have, just go and be yourself.

Cheap ass losers are an element everywhere, and as far as their forum goes, most of those guys pay the going rate. I know a couple of the regular posters there, and they never try to bargain down. That is, don't paint everyone there with one broad brush stroke. It isn't fair or correct.

[suckseed]

Okay, here's why I disagree with that. I chose someone I hadn't even really thought seriously about until reading her reviews, because I was too busy trying to find good reviews of the one I had my heart set on (she was sort of a Saigon Lee level cutie).
Well, it turns out that my pinup did full service one out of eight reviews. Everyone raved about this other woman. So I gave her pics another look, saw the potential I had missed, and made an appointment. And proceeded to have the time of my life. For a first timer, it made all the difference.

[pnwguy24]

TER is your friend. Ignore the idiots complaining about price and just focus on experience and looks in comparison to photos. good luck!

[ARMANIXXX]

sdtgfan said,

I'm sure escorts are worried about police posing as 1st time clients, but then why ask for a "donation" and a specification of desired services on the phone? Makes me worried that she was a cop.Is there a protocol that I totally missed out, like some sort of special words I should have been using? Where did I go wrong or did I?

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At the risk of sounding absurd, How do we know that the OP, NEW OP, isn't a cop himself?

Just food 4 thought.

[ARMANIXXX]

At any rate, you are winning the battle for your search so far......assuming your not 5.0. , otherwise you are clearly losing


Still, Welcome to HA.