How did you guys start?

[TGL]

This question is primarily for the guys in here. I just wondered, how you all started out with this "fetish", if I may call it that.
For me, it started when I was around 11 years old I think, before puberty started, but after thoughts about sexuality kicked in. I started thinking about what it was like to be a girl, and when I was home alone, I started dressing up in my mothers clothes. I loved getting into the lacy panties, pantyhoses, dresses and so on and when I looked at myself in the mirror, I even thought I looked like a girl sometimes (at that age I had no body hair or beard, nor was I looking muscular and masculine). For years I wondered if I really should have been a girl, but I was always very careful when I dressed up, so I was never caught and I have never told anyone about it (not until now!). I started looking at the Internet, for more information about transvestitets, hormones and stuff like that, and I was amazed at all the bautifull women I found, who were born like me.
Unfortunately, I've always been a very shy guy, and I never dared to come through with any of it. I often considered shaving all my body hair off, but I couldn't come up with a good excusion for my parents, so I never did it.
As I aged and puberty did its work on me, I got more and more muscular and I got more hairy and I slowly drifted away from my crossdressing adventures. Instead, I started looking at transsexual porn, admiring the girls and I guess I changed from wanting to be a girl, to wanting to be with a TGirl.
It might all just have been curiosity and confusion about my gender at that age and maybe it was the best thing to forget about it. I still crossdress, but it's very rare and I don't like the sight of myself in the mirror anymore, wearing womens clothes.
Now, I'm just admireing all the transsexuals out there, and I enjoy looking at all the beautiful girls here and I fantasice about being with some of them, as a man.

I guess the point of this thread, is to know how other guys got to be TGirl lovers. Did you also start out crossdressing yourself? Or did you just find something attractive about these unique girls? And when did you start: Have you always been in to TGirls or was it something you discovered later?

I hope my english is good enough for you all to understand this post, because it was hard to write Hoping for some good and serious answers...

[mikejones]

Interesting post TGL. I've never done any crossdressing or considered myself in any way feminine. I really never even thought about Tgirls until I was in my mid-20s. I saw some Tgirl porn and was really turned on.

I have a Tgirl as a girlfriend now and am really enjoying it. In many ways she is much more feminine in her behavior than GGs that I have been with.

[TGL]

Interesting post TGL. I've never done any crossdressing or considered myself in any way feminine. I really never even thought about Tgirls until I was in my mid-20s. I saw some Tgirl porn and was really turned on.

I have a Tgirl as a girlfriend now and am really enjoying it. In many ways she is much more feminine in her behavior than GGs that I have been with.

Lucky you! I have GG girlfriend now, and believe me, I love her, but I can't help but to think about what it would be like to be with a TGirl.
I guess you are a bit older than me, as I haven't even reached my mid-20s yet (am 21), so I still have a lot to explore and I really hope that I'll one day get to be with at TGirl.
I know I said this was mostly for the guys, but I'll also like to hear from our girls in here, how things developed for them. When did you girls come out and how did you do it? I guess it takes some courage I don't have.

[dgtlmstry]

I didn't even know what a T-girl was when I was first "exposed". I was in my late teens at the time, and I was watching, for the first time, porn with a woman using a strap-on. I was shocked to say the least, and incredibly turned on. After that, I spent most of my time looking for that same type of porn, and didn't have as much luck as I would have liked...however after much persistance, I eventually found the holy grail = TS's

Years later I was able to actually spend some time with a lovely TS woman....I haven't looked for any of that fake as strap on shit since

[TGL]

I didn't even know what a T-girl was when I was first "exposed". I was in my late teens at the time, and I was watching, for the first time, porn with a woman using a strap-on. I was shocked to say the least, and incredibly turned on. After that, I spent most of my time looking for that same type of porn, and didn't have as much luck as I would have liked...however after much persistance, I eventually found the holy grail = TS's

Years later I was able to actually spend some time with a lovely TS woman....I haven't looked for any of that fake as strap on shit since

Thanks for your story. Strap-ons never really did anything for me, but that's an interesting start. I guess you were very focused on the part about the girls having a cock, or am I wrong?

[blackmagic]

lol never crossdressed in my life before............ well I take that back, I was 2 or 3 and didn’t know any better, not saying its wrong for you to do it, but I don’t do it at all. As for fetishes, I started looking at crossdressers online when I first got my computer at age 13, after that I spent more and more time looking at them, then to my amazement I some how ventured into finding shemales, lol as many might assume that was a total shock seeing a girl with a dick, I spent like 2 years looking at them, saving every picture I could, but things don’t last forever and I ended up being "burnt out" on shemales, besides that looking at porn on a (56k) modem isn’t so fun

LOL as for shaving my body hair off, my simple lie was football, you get your ankles and other body parts taped every game and if you have that hair, god that aint a pretty feeling when it comes off besides that, who the fuck shaves there calves on down and leaves the rest of there body hairy LOL., but as ive found out laser hair removal is working great for me

[TGL]

I don't understand why you would want to have laser hair removal if you don't crossdress? Is it just because you think it looks better?
I'm actually a little surprised, that there isn't more guys in here, that have tried crossdressing. I thought there would be more guys in here that had tried it.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Screw magazine.............................

Believe it or not that fat bastard actually gave a good detail of what the bars were like back in the early 90's

The 3 pages of t-girls posting ads helped also.

[blackmagic]

I don't understand why you would want to have laser hair removal if you don't crossdress? Is it just because you think it looks better?
I'm actually a little surprised, that there isn't more guys in here, that have tried crossdressing. I thought there would be more guys in here that had tried it.

No lol I don’t crossdress, if you add technicality to the term crossdress its funny considering almost every article of clothing we wear today is unisex except heels, and bras well bras can be unisex considering our fat culture of men with MOOBS!

I got and am still getting laser hair removal, pretty much because I like my body smooth and soft, and hey this may come as a shock to some but lol I even go to a salon and get my nails done, and eye brows waxed I know sounds like a typical chick thing to do, but no lol my intent on doing that is to be androgynous

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

hey this may come as a shock to some but lol I even go to a salon and get my nails done, and eye brows waxed I know sounds like a typical chick thing to do, but no lol my intent on doing that is to be androgynous

actually I know a few dudes that do that, it is what it is

as far as the clothing comment, i understand totally, I bought these Guess jeans the other day at Guess and since it's like my 100th pair from them I knew my size and just picked em up and paid the $108.........

they fit differently............... used to be more room in the crotch, these kept everything UP, if you get my drift, they feel good but different from what I'm used to