Dilemma....optional RESPONSE BEWARE lol

[MrsKellyPierce]

If you are worried that if you date him and it doesn't go well that it will ruin your friendship, I don't think that would be the case. Judging from the message he sent you, I don't think that would happen.

Also, I'm new to these boards, so if you want me to butt out and let someone who's been around longer help you out, just say.

Oh no sweety I am glad you participated. Thanks for the advice really. I just worry also that my ex may think I went on a date with Brian to get back at him Which wouldn't be the case at all. Welcome to Hung Angels darling.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Kelly age is just a state of mind, go for it, before you make me feel old, lol. I'm 32!

I don't think 30 is old, but am I established enough to keep him interested? I mean I know he likes me as a friend already, but I'm talking about being established. Which I know we haven't even gone on our first date, and I shouldn't worry about it. But there are other private messages I have gotten from him saying that he didn't understand why Matt broke up with me and he would date me no prob at all. So thats why I am saying this, and scared to take the dive lol I was always scared of the high dive lol

[yppp_8]

Thanks for that.

I see your point, your ex could get jealous.
I suppose it justs depends on whether or not you think dating this person is worth the risk of that happening and whether both you and your partner (hypothetically speaking!) would be able to deal with it.

Do you think your ex would get bitter or violent?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Thanks for that.

I see your point, your ex could get jealous.
I suppose it justs depends on whether or not you think dating this person is worth the risk of that happening and whether both you and your partner (hypothetically speaking!) would be able to deal with it.

Do you think your ex would get bitter or violent?

You're Welcome!
I don't know if the he'd be jealous..Basically he is trying to shush me out of his life. Because of the fact someone "may" find out. So now he is in denial mode. Me dating one of his friends, he may think I'm trying to stay in his life somehow. Or I'm being vindictive to get back at him, like it was a plan or strategy. Which simply isn't true, but it may be his frame of mind.

[elo]

Thanks for that.

I see your point, your ex could get jealous.
I suppose it justs depends on whether or not you think dating this person is worth the risk of that happening and whether both you and your partner (hypothetically speaking!) would be able to deal with it.

Do you think your ex would get bitter or violent?

You're Welcome!
I don't know if the he'd be jealous..Basically he is trying to shush me out of his life. Because of the fact someone "may" find out. So now he is in denial mode. Me dating one of his friends, he may think I'm trying to stay in his life somehow. Or I'm being vindictive to get back at him, like it was a plan or strategy. Which simply isn't true, but it may be his frame of mind.

You seem to be very woried what your ex could think.I wonder why?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Thanks for that.

I see your point, your ex could get jealous.
I suppose it justs depends on whether or not you think dating this person is worth the risk of that happening and whether both you and your partner (hypothetically speaking!) would be able to deal with it.

Do you think your ex would get bitter or violent?

You're Welcome!
I don't know if the he'd be jealous..Basically he is trying to shush me out of his life. Because of the fact someone "may" find out. So now he is in denial mode. Me dating one of his friends, he may think I'm trying to stay in his life somehow. Or I'm being vindictive to get back at him, like it was a plan or strategy. Which simply isn't true, but it may be his frame of mind.

You seem to be very woried what your ex could think.I wonder why?

ha ha because I don't want to be labeled as the crazy psycho ex-girlfriend that dates his friends? and I don't want him to feel uncomfortable, no matter how much he hurt me. I don't want to do the same back?

And I definitely don't want him to think I'm trying to keep tabs on him. He is already conceited enough and selfish enough. I don't need him to think anymore highly of himself. lol

[elo]

You don`t want to do the same back?Do you think he is still interested in you and only denies it?

[MrsKellyPierce]

You don`t want to do the same back?Do you think he is still interested in you and only denies it?

Oh yeah I definitely think he is still interested in me. The trouble started, when they started airing the talkshow I did in Florida over and over again on tv but it was only in Florida. However his best friend Eric was down in Florida at the time, and caught the viewing. Thats where all the trouble started, then all of a sudden. I was nothing to him and we had to break up. And he even blamed me saying..if you hadn't done that show everything would of been fine. Basically blaming me for everything. He never took blame to his own actions.

[Azanti]

Kelly,

I say go for it, if you don't you will never have known if it was worth it. Better to have tried and failed than never to have tried at all. Besides if he turns you down or it doesn't work, you got like 50 guys on here waiting to marry you. :O)

[yppp_8]

"ha ha because I don't want to be labeled as the crazy psycho ex-girlfriend that dates his friends?"

lol!

It's a shame that your ex seems to be such a jerk, as if he wasn't you could just explain the situation to him and that would be that.

As it is, if you really like this new guy Brian, you may just have to run the risk of your ex reacting badly.