Stop the generalization of "Tranny Chaser"

[MrsKellyPierce]

I understand what Kelly means as far as tranny chaser - it's the same as a player.

Just don't be a cock about stuff - TG and GG's both feel used & abused by a guy who shows up with all sorts of promise and then just disappears after he bangs her, though if a girl gives it up too quickly, the guy tends to wander sooner - typical guy nature.

I'm speaking in generalizations of course, but you get my point.

Funny you should write, you are the rare exception I referred to. Recall pages 6-8 on the topic "Do you feel it's wrong" You told your experience on page 6 and it wasn't till page 8 that you were not a "tranny chaser."

I realize this was because she didn't read what you actually said from her statement to you of "why do you call yourself a 'tranny chaser'," because no where did you say you were. But my point is that you were preconcieved to be one.

Again, I repeat, should have used "presumption" instead of "generalization" in the topic title.

Think all my extended posts on this topic have stated use your own internal radar/compass/common sense to evaluate without a preconceived notion but rather with caution. There are sexual predators for all types of interests.

This topic was not about clarifying what a jerk is. It is about not presuming the worst 1st.

I would love to hear more from ladies that may have personally held this preconception or been close to someone who did, and how they eventually did find love.

As I explained I have found love with three individuals. However I am not that stupid not to know when someone isn't being real and just sweet talking to get what they want. I am also not the type to put up with some idiot that is horny. And just wants to talk about sex. You can tell the difference, by someone being REAL. If you can't then I feel SORRY for you.

If they want to talk dirty -- I'll be more than glad to give them my pay pal..and talk dirty to them. Just like when I was on Ifriends or Imlive.

[Aragon21]

As I explained I have found love with three individuals. However I am not that stupid not to know when someone isn't being real and just sweet talking to get what they want. I am also not the type to put up with some idiot that is horny. And just wants to talk about sex. You can tell the difference, by someone being REAL. If you can't then I feel SORRY for you.

If they want to talk dirty -- I'll be more than glad to give them my pay pal..and talk dirty to them. Just like when I was on Ifriends or Imlive.

I know you can type, but have you read any of my posts?

There is a huge difference between being presumptuous and being cautious. Be honest. Be open. And use your own common sense. Does it honestly take anyone on this forum more than a few minutes to determine that someone is finding you attractive for a reason you don't want them to be attracted to you? That's not to say you may not know why they are attracted to you, the variables are countless (personally I am a eyes, lips, face man, and for continuing attraction: intelligence and personality.) But again, if it is not the right reason for you, it doesn't take long to hear the bells and sirens warning you.

If you can't READ, I feel sorry for you!

[MrsKellyPierce]

As I explained I have found love with three individuals. However I am not that stupid not to know when someone isn't being real and just sweet talking to get what they want. I am also not the type to put up with some idiot that is horny. And just wants to talk about sex. You can tell the difference, by someone being REAL. If you can't then I feel SORRY for you.

If they want to talk dirty -- I'll be more than glad to give them my pay pal..and talk dirty to them. Just like when I was on Ifriends or Imlive.

I know you can type, but have you read any of my posts?

There is a huge difference between being presumptuous and being cautious. Be honest. Be open. And use your own common sense. Does it honestly take anyone on this forum more than a few minutes to determine that someone is finding you attractive for a reason you don't want them to be attracted to you? That's not to say you may not know why they are attracted to you, the variables are countless (personally I am a eyes, lips, face man, and for continuing attraction: intelligence and personality.) But again, if it is not the right reason for you, it doesn't take long to hear the bells and sirens warning you.

If you can't READ, I feel sorry for you!

Yes I read your posts thats why I am replying. You aren't the one that has to deal with the trolls or tranny chasers. So when you do..you see how you handle it after fighting the same tiring fight over and over again. Thats why I warn them publically and write things out to them publically. They are nusianse, they are as I said good for the escorts.

[Aragon21]

As I explained I have found love with three individuals. However I am not that stupid not to know when someone isn't being real and just sweet talking to get what they want. I am also not the type to put up with some idiot that is horny. And just wants to talk about sex. You can tell the difference, by someone being REAL. If you can't then I feel SORRY for you.

If they want to talk dirty -- I'll be more than glad to give them my pay pal..and talk dirty to them. Just like when I was on Ifriends or Imlive.

I know you can type, but have you read any of my posts?

There is a huge difference between being presumptuous and being cautious. Be honest. Be open. And use your own common sense. Does it honestly take anyone on this forum more than a few minutes to determine that someone is finding you attractive for a reason you don't want them to be attracted to you? That's not to say you may not know why they are attracted to you, the variables are countless (personally I am a eyes, lips, face man, and for continuing attraction: intelligence and personality.) But again, if it is not the right reason for you, it doesn't take long to hear the bells and sirens warning you.

If you can't READ, I feel sorry for you!

Yes I read your posts thats why I am replying. You aren't the one that has to deal with the trolls or tranny chasers. So when you do..you see how you handle it after fighting the same tiring fight over and over again. Thats why I warn them publically and write things out to them publically. They are nusianse, they are as I said good for the escorts.

I agree 99%! The 1% being I should never have to deal with a tranny chaser cause they'd be barking up the wrong tree.

[MrsKellyPierce]

As I explained I have found love with three individuals. However I am not that stupid not to know when someone isn't being real and just sweet talking to get what they want. I am also not the type to put up with some idiot that is horny. And just wants to talk about sex. You can tell the difference, by someone being REAL. If you can't then I feel SORRY for you.

If they want to talk dirty -- I'll be more than glad to give them my pay pal..and talk dirty to them. Just like when I was on Ifriends or Imlive.

I know you can type, but have you read any of my posts?

There is a huge difference between being presumptuous and being cautious. Be honest. Be open. And use your own common sense. Does it honestly take anyone on this forum more than a few minutes to determine that someone is finding you attractive for a reason you don't want them to be attracted to you? That's not to say you may not know why they are attracted to you, the variables are countless (personally I am a eyes, lips, face man, and for continuing attraction: intelligence and personality.) But again, if it is not the right reason for you, it doesn't take long to hear the bells and sirens warning you.

If you can't READ, I feel sorry for you!

Yes I read your posts thats why I am replying. You aren't the one that has to deal with the trolls or tranny chasers. So when you do..you see how you handle it after fighting the same tiring fight over and over again. Thats why I warn them publically and write things out to them publically. They are nusianse, they are as I said good for the escorts.

I agree 99%! The 1% being I should never have to deal with a tranny chaser cause they'd be barking up the wrong tree.

And why are you debating with me in the first place we had a nice conversation yesterday..BUTTHEAD

[BeardedOne]

So, (In a feeble effort to break the quote-quote-quote-quote chain) where does that place someone like me?

I'm fairly intelligent, reasonably sincere, I try to be a good person, fair to all, and I make a sincere attempt to be respectful of all people (Even the moronic assholes of the world, of which there are many).

Yet I have an active interest in T-gurls, have a definite lust for some of them, and (To be quite honest) probably wouldn't see them in much the same way if they didn't have that 'something extra'.

Am I a 'chaser'? Some have said that here, but usually as a backhanded aside similar to "Ahh, y'muddah!", so it's hard to take the stab seriously.

Perhaps a poll....

[ezed]

Perhaps a poll....

Will one of the choices be "Am I Gay?" If not, then I suggest a pie chart, or bar graph....just to mix it up a little bit. Any comments?

[Ecstatic]

So, (In a feeble effort to break the quote-quote-quote-quote chain) where does that place someone like me?

Horny.

Face it, B1, you're a horny hermit.

[tsntx]

If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way. Problem is, when a man is that age, the attractive trannies just want to put you in the "sugar daddy" trick bag anyway.

Just keeping it real!

the reason a guy like that goes into the "sugar daddy" bag is b/c look at all the issues he had to go thru to be seen w/ me? fuck that and him. live your life for yourself not for others in it. he doesnt respect me if all those stipulations must be in order for me to date him. why would an "attractive" *assuming you mean young as well* want to be w/ a guy who couldnt be himself when hes 2x her age *50/25 accounting his kids need to be out of the house already*... if she has her shit together and knows who she is and has the balls to be herself at 25 why on earth would she want a guy she cant respect... bc how could she if thats how he was? thats why he goes in the "sugar daddy trick bag" ... because he deserves it...

just keeping it real

I really tried to follow that, but I think you lost me. What if the guy liked GGs and TGs but just so happened to end up with a GG, got married, had kids, yada yada, but was divorced and now wanted to be with a TG. Does that make him a Sugar Daddy? or is it b/c he's now older, not as attractive, and has a family now?

I know you had a good point in there, just trying to find it.

lol well thnx for trying... no thats not what im saying.. that kind of stuff happens gay bi tg gg w/e ... im saying if a guy gets married to a gg b/c hes too chicken shit to date a ts or doesnt want ppl to think hes gay so he settles w/ a gg, then said guy has children w/ the gg but gets divorced while kids are still living at home so he still refuses to date a ts bc hes still too chicken shit to date one for fear of others reactions, then said guys kids are old enough to go out on their own and leave the nest, now said guy is 50 and feels he could date a "hot 25yr old ts" bc his kids are out of the house so he wont get "caught" as easy or can hide her should the kids wanna come home for the holidays or w/e... therefore i feel said guy should just stick to the escorts since he wants them on his own terms and when no one else is around... thats not what dating is about...

that help?

[Trogdor]

Not enough butter on the HA popcorn.



Brought my own.

opcorn


I think there outta be some of this, too.