Stop the generalization of "Tranny Chaser"

[hwbs]

Basically, people are sexually attracted to each other for a thousand different reasons. Some are quite shallow. None of that has any importance. What is significant is not what brings us together, but what makes us want to stay together.

HH

very well put...
I remember when I was in college I was in love with this girl at my job...I couldn't get a date with her to save my life...she found out I was a great bowler from a friend and started pursuing me...I wonder what category that puts her in lmao...

[tsntx]

In my experience, the only people who worry about the usage of the term "tranny chaser" usually are tranny chasers.

-Quinn

Think you missed the point. The "generalization" that some women have been using to lump anyone looking for a possible relationship with a TG are "tranny chasers" just because they know ahead of time whether the girl is TG or GG.

With all due respect, I didn't miss your point. My point was this: if the term, and the negative connotaitons that go with it, don't apply to you, don't worry about it. It's just a lable -- one that tends to be used by the type of women your proabably not going to want to deal with anyway.

-Quinn

agreed

[tsntx]

If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way. Problem is, when a man is that age, the attractive trannies just want to put you in the "sugar daddy" trick bag anyway.

Just keeping it real!

the reason a guy like that goes into the "sugar daddy" bag is b/c look at all the issues he had to go thru to be seen w/ me? fuck that and him. live your life for yourself not for others in it. he doesnt respect me if all those stipulations must be in order for me to date him. why would an "attractive" *assuming you mean young as well* want to be w/ a guy who couldnt be himself when hes 2x her age *50/25 accounting his kids need to be out of the house already*... if she has her shit together and knows who she is and has the balls to be herself at 25 why on earth would she want a guy she cant respect... bc how could she if thats how he was? thats why he goes in the "sugar daddy trick bag" ... because he deserves it...

just keeping it real

[MrsKellyPierce]

Aragon you totally took what I said what a tranny chaser is out of context. I have stated many times what I thought a tranny chaser is. A tranny chaser to me is a guy that just wants sex, has no care what you are about as a person. And frankly doesn't care to take you out in public, date you, just wants you as their little secret.... excuse my bluntness FUCK TOY or FANTASY... That is what a tranny chaser to me is. POINT BLANK. And if you have an issue with that..dear that is your problem not mine. MMK cause I will keep on calling these men that think that we live for them...and the ones that think "omg some fat guy called me beautiful I'm gonna spread my legs for him now"..TRANNY CHASER to a T! That is a tranny chaser. Tranny Chaser's are good for Escorts they pay the bills..but they annoy the crap out of me. And I have no issue voicing it.


And women call men like this PLAYERS...GET A CLUE THEY MEAN THE SAME THING.

[tsntx]

^^^ yeah pretty much how i see it

i think guys on here "offended" by that term dont even really know what it means

i dont think ANY girl here thinks EVERY guy is a tranny chaser.... just most

[MrsKellyPierce]

^^^ yeah pretty much how i see it

i think guys on here "offended" by that term dont even really know what it means

i dont think ANY girl here thinks EVERY guy is a tranny chaser.... just most

Or a guilty conscious lol

[MrsKellyPierce]

To add most tranny chasers if you say you aren't my type nicely..They keep persisting why...and then finally you tell them why...after they keep ASKING over and over again.

Then they reply with:

"Fuck you Cunt you a man you a man"

"You look like a dude anyways"

And the list of bitter comments go on after you tell them nicely to leave you be.. So now I just ignore them. And if I adress them I do it publically in a chatroom..on here...or on a myspace bulletin..so it never gets to that stupid game of tell me why tell me why.

The mere fact they are going to first tell you how beautiful you are etc then go from that to you a dude TELLS YOU SOMETHING.. They have no respect for what a transexual is. No respect for me if they are adressing me. And no respect for themselves to act so crudely.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Many girls put guys in that same category no matter what because they have been bombarded with the same "tranny chasing technique bs" over and over so that automatilly put all guys into that chasing category,so being a tranny chaser is automatic here.

Nope not for me..if you act respectful..I treat you with respect back. "You have to give respect..to get Respect" MMK

[peggygee]

I was reading a comment by;

Personally I would prefer a man who is experienced and knows what he is doing. Not asking me questions about the lifestyle every 5 minl We take this whole tranny chaser thing wayyyyy too far. We wanna be treated like woman ok put urself in a woman shoes. Str8 guys who have had previous relationships and have alot of GG friends, do woman call them woman chasers....no, they are just regular guys who luv women. If u wanna be a woman then think like a woman and just find a guy who u like and like him and work with him. No one is perfect. Its already hard enuff having and maintaing a relationship in this lifestyle as it is, we need to stop being so picky amd insecure because therre are some really good guys out there but we brush them off as soon as we find out that they use to talk to ts cindy or ts madison. Life is full of obsticles, lets not make uneccesary ones for ourselves.

When I was pre op, the guys I ended up in LTRs with weren't into my
cock, why, maybe because I wasn't into my cock, and opposites attract.

However some of the guys that I was in LTRs with had been with other
girls, and it was nice that they had, had that experience and knew that
was something they were open to.

As Jade said they didn't ask me 50 million stupid questions about 'the life',
they didn't need on the job training, they could hit the ground running.

Now as a post op, the playing field has changed somewhat.

The cockhounds want nothing to do with me since I don't have a cock,
but the beauty part of that is I wouldn't want to be with someone who
wanted me to fuck them or who wanted to suck me off, so that works
well.

What I get now is either the guy who is familiar with the trans lifestyle,
and is open to a post op, or the hetero guy who wouldn't have wanted
to be down with me if I still had a dick.

When I meet a guy, I will ask him what has been his background in
the life, and why is he attracted to transwomen - cause I am trying
to weed out the ones that still crave dick, and that would be creeping
on me.

With the hetero guy, he knows what to do with the pussy, we just have
to make sure he isn't having transphobia.

Other than that, it's win-win for Peggy.

Sorta.

[peggygee]

... I'm sure the TS's who escort wouldn't like to be labeled "john chasers" or "money chasers". This term reminds me of women who are busty, saying they are "turned off" by men that are attracted to big breasts. The pathology of it all is incredible.

...If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way. Problem is, when a man is that age, the attractive trannies just want to put you in the "sugar daddy" trick bag anyway.

Just keeping it real!

Second that big time as an older divorced guy with grown children. I'm a reasonably good looking guy (at least I have never been told otherwise) and would love to meet an "older" mature (as in grown up) TS for a ltr. In my experience the younger ones won't give you the time of day unless you're either a tatooed beefcake or flash money around (or both) and can be unbelievably callous, crass and rude! Older TS' (o.m.g. over 39!!!!) Can't seem to find'em. Just dunno where they disappear to.

Being a middle aged woman I prefer men who are between 35 - 60.

Under 35 and they just aren't mature enough for me, over 60 and they
may stroke out, while stroking, or basically can't keep up with me
because I am a very high energy person, and quite young at heart.

But even when i was younger I preferred older men, and it wasn't about
that sugar daddy thing. Older men knew who they were, what they
wanted out of life, weren't as worried about what people thought.

They also were often more times open to LTRs, and weren't about
putting notches in their bed posts or playing the field like some of
the younger ones.

And of course I have dated guys my own age and even younger, some of
those relationships worked quite well.

Interestingly now I get hit on by a lot of younger guys, maybe it's that
whole MILF thing.

Bottom line, now in the late Summer of my life, I am very particular
about who I let into my bed, head, or heart.