Stop the generalization of "Tranny Chaser"

[Dkg]

If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way. Problem is, when a man is that age, the attractive trannies just want to put you in the "sugar daddy" trick bag anyway.

Just keeping it real!

the reason a guy like that goes into the "sugar daddy" bag is b/c look at all the issues he had to go thru to be seen w/ me? fuck that and him. live your life for yourself not for others in it. he doesnt respect me if all those stipulations must be in order for me to date him. why would an "attractive" *assuming you mean young as well* want to be w/ a guy who couldnt be himself when hes 2x her age *50/25 accounting his kids need to be out of the house already*... if she has her shit together and knows who she is and has the balls to be herself at 25 why on earth would she want a guy she cant respect... bc how could she if thats how he was? thats why he goes in the "sugar daddy trick bag" ... because he deserves it...

just keeping it real

I really tried to follow that, but I think you lost me. What if the guy liked GGs and TGs but just so happened to end up with a GG, got married, had kids, yada yada, but was divorced and now wanted to be with a TG. Does that make him a Sugar Daddy? or is it b/c he's now older, not as attractive, and has a family now?

I know you had a good point in there, just trying to find it.

lol well thnx for trying... no thats not what im saying.. that kind of stuff happens gay bi tg gg w/e ... im saying if a guy gets married to a gg b/c hes too chicken shit to date a ts or doesnt want ppl to think hes gay so he settles w/ a gg, then said guy has children w/ the gg but gets divorced while kids are still living at home so he still refuses to date a ts bc hes still too chicken shit to date one for fear of others reactions, then said guys kids are old enough to go out on their own and leave the nest, now said guy is 50 and feels he could date a "hot 25yr old ts" bc his kids are out of the house so he wont get "caught" as easy or can hide her should the kids wanna come home for the holidays or w/e... therefore i feel said guy should just stick to the escorts since he wants them on his own terms and when no one else is around... thats not what dating is about...

that help?

Ya, much better. Ok I can see where you're coming from with that, but I kind of blame society some. Of course it's still up to the guy to decide not to let society dictate his life, but for some people, it's hard. very hard

[Kriss]

I commented on this "tranny chaser" nonsense before. This term reminds me of women who are busty, saying they are "turned off" by men that are attracted to big breasts. The pathology of it all is incredible. Imagine a guy who works out and has a nice physique saying "I don't date women who compliment my physique" or "I prefer women who like skinny or fat men, so I don't feel like a piece of meat". Enough with the mind games already.

As usual Beatmaker is bang on the money.

However, if he hasn't had children already and done the "family man" thing, the relationship is doomed for failure. I speak from experience, as I haven't had children yet and really want a child. If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way.

This confuses me though. With this statement you blatently speak from a position of IN-experience, as you state yourself, you have not had the kids yet. how can you possibl;y say how you would feel about LTR when your kids are grown and you "have gotten that part of life out of the way"? Do you really know how you will feel in 20 years? Having a kid isn't a box that i feel like i need to 'tick'. Job, family, house, car, pension, council tax, insurance policies, golf clubs in the boot, spare dick in the glove box.......

Ain't gonna be no time for LTR in 20 years man, haven't you seen mad max?

You aren't the one that has to deal with the trolls

"trolls" ? that's a new one to me.

[hwbs]

let the rest in peace

[beatmaker]

If I was an older, divorced guy with children who are adults, then I could consider a "serious", long term relationship with a TS, as I have gotten that part of my life out of the way. Problem is, when a man is that age, the attractive trannies just want to put you in the "sugar daddy" trick bag anyway.

Just keeping it real!

the reason a guy like that goes into the "sugar daddy" bag is b/c look at all the issues he had to go thru to be seen w/ me? fuck that and him. live your life for yourself not for others in it. he doesnt respect me if all those stipulations must be in order for me to date him. why would an "attractive" *assuming you mean young as well* want to be w/ a guy who couldnt be himself when hes 2x her age *50/25 accounting his kids need to be out of the house already*... if she has her shit together and knows who she is and has the balls to be herself at 25 why on earth would she want a guy she cant respect... bc how could she if thats how he was? thats why he goes in the "sugar daddy trick bag" ... because he deserves it...

just keeping it real

You TOTALLY missed the point, due to your own issues! You have taken what me and Iluvshemales said, as this whole "You want to save the tranny, after you've done everything and been everywhere" trip. That is NOT the point. I am 30 years old and want to have children someday. If your parents didn't have that urge, you would'nt be here either, GM or TS. The bottomline is, you can't procreate with a TS and you can't legally marry a TS either. So, if I want to start family, a TS isn't a logical choice right now. It has nothing to do with "hiding" or "creeping" around with her, out of some sort of societal fear or pressure. Sure, I could knock some GG up and have a "baby mama", while having a serious LTR relationship with a TS, but I love GG's equally, so what sense does that make. Furthermore, most family court judges will use this type of romantic relationship against you, as not "traditional in child support/visitation hearings. Another thing, iluvshemales actually stated he wanted a relationship with a "mature" shemale, but has problems finding them. He didn't say he expects a 18-25 y.o transsexual, but someone closer in age. I don't think he deserves your ire TSNTX. You have men and women who are gay, who get married and start relationships out of obligation, confusion and guilt in their younger years. However, they may eventually come clean with their spouse and family decades later, get a divorce and locate a same sex partner they can pursue a LTR with, if they haven't already. With that said, a lesbian who "came out" in her 50's, should potential lesbian mates say "Fuck you, you were living a "soccer mom" lie when you were young, so you deserve to be used by me." Cmon!

TSNTX, it's ironic how you have used the 'tranny chaser" term, but tell men they should have the courage, when they are young to come clean with their families, coworkers and overall society. I don't think using perogative terms like 'tranny chaser" fosters a positive environment for those young men, do you?

[Legend]

In my experience, the only people who worry about the usage of the term "tranny chaser" usually are tranny chasers.

-Quinn

QFT