Do you feel it's wrong?

[MrsKellyPierce]

So I am on a few "straight sites"...and I put my status as female. And I talk to the guys for awhile to let them get to know me, then if I want to meet them I tell them. It usually works out in my favor, but there's always that small percent that get mad. Do you think I am wrong for doing it this way? Should I tell them flat out?

[MrsKellyPierce]

Whoever answered yes can you please give me your reasoning???

[rvince]

"flat out", maybe not, but IMHO you should tell them "early enough"... At least that's how the TS'es I know IRL do.

[tsntx]

i didnt vote.. but im on a ton of "straight" sites and i always say female as i dont see myself as male... nor do any guys... look at me.. i dont look like a male why would i claim to be one... anyway... while i say female i also put in my profile that im a TS... i think its dumb not to... why would you want to waste all that time laying down the groundwork for a relationship only for the guy to be turned off and leave? dumb.. say female so guys that arent gay get you in their searches and put that youre a TS in there to weed out the guys that dont have the desire to be w/ you... makes sence dontcha think?

[MrsKellyPierce]

"flat out", maybe not, but IMHO you should tell them "early enough"... At least that's how the TS'es I know IRL do.

I always tell them but not when I am first getting to know them, so they can learn about me and my personality. I don't feel being a transexual makes me who I am as far as persona.

[SarahG]

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[MrsKellyPierce]

i didnt vote.. but im on a ton of "straight" sites and i always say female as i dont see myself as male... nor do any guys... look at me.. i dont look like a male why would i claim to be one... anyway... while i say female i also put in my profile that im a TS... i think its dumb not to... why would you want to waste all that time laying down the groundwork for a relationship only for the guy to be turned off and leave? dumb.. say female so guys that arent gay get you in their searches and put that youre a TS in there to weed out the guys that dont have the desire to be w/ you... makes sence dontcha think?

Oh I get what you are saying but I'm saying I don't tell them till after you get through the civilities and start really talking so about 20 minutes of talking then I say something. Or if they suggest we should meet I say something. Do you feel thats dumb?

[joeboz]

Well, as long as you make it known before you meet them it shouldn't be an issue. It's about whats on the inside rather than what is between your legs.

Just be safe.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I voted that it isn't wrong... I have done the same thing myself from time to time... but I make sure the guy always knows before ever actually meeting in person.

Yeah I feel the same...I think it avoids finding tranny chasers and an actual "straight" guy.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Well, as long as you make it known before you meet them it shouldn't be an issue. It's about whats on the inside rather than what is between your legs.

Just be safe.

I always do -- I mean when I was younger I'd play the tranny trick game which was really unsafe -- but you do silly things when you just want to be sexually active with a straight guy and you are only 18 lol