beautiful body, beautiful face or beautiful mind?

[Caleigh]

aren't self-esteem and poise aspects of personality?

poise is maybe debatable but i think that clearly self-esteem
is an aspect of character.

[XPBMX]

aren't self-esteem and poise aspects of personality?

poise is maybe debatable but i think that clearly self-esteem
is an aspect of character.

Arguablly and debatablly so. However I personally think people with high-self esteem are far less likely to say "it's all personality that attracts me blah blah blah" . Somone with self-esteem takes pride in their appearance despite if they are gifted with natural beauty. They tend to take care of their bodies better and don't blame their apperance on 'genes' or 'society'.

[Caleigh]

But you would also have to concede that there are people
with great self esteem who may take care of themselves
dress well, have good hygiene who HAVE been dealt a
less than perfect hand genetically. Peoples facial structure
is not a matter of personality, it is a fluke of nature, unless
one uses surgical assistance. As well, there is a fine line
between self-esteem and cockiness/pomposity/egotism.

Humility is one of the traits I most admire in a person.

[XPBMX]

But you would also have to concede that there are people
with great self esteem who may take care of themselves
dress well, have good hygiene who HAVE been dealt a
less than perfect hand genetically.

Yes and I would suggest to you that they would NEVER use that as an excuse to continue to live horribally and eat like shit, and would be bold enough to dress sexy or attractivley despite the bad-hand.

Peoples facial structure
is not a matter of personality, it is a fluke of nature, unless
one uses surgical assistance. As well, there is a fine line
between self-esteem and cockiness/pomposity/egotism.

Humility is one of the traits I most admire in a person.

There is no fooling you. I agree that genetics has its way, but a weak-minded person BLAMES genetics for their lack of esteem.A string minded person BELIEVES acts and presents themself as if they are beautiful DESPITE genetics.

See my point?

[Luna555]

I would have to say that the first thing that makes me attracted to someone is their face.

But the thing that keeps me attracted to the person is their personality.

And of course there are exceptions to things, Sometimes I meet someone and I love their personality and I become attracted to them.
Body is just not that important to me.

So....
1: Face
2: mind
3: Body

[XPBMX]

Honest and true.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I always say that beauty is skin deep, but stupid is to the bone! you've got to talk to them at sometime!

True..

Mines would be:

1. Face - Is the 1st thing I look at that attracts me to a person.
2a. Mind - What he has to say comes second.
2b. Personality - Having a great personality is definitely a PLUS!
3. Body - A decent body doesnt hurt (Even guys who arent buff and have love handles are fine with me. Just pls. dont have a big gut. LOL)

~Kisses.

HTG

[BlackAdder]

Hmm...When I look at a girl the first attractor is a Combination of Face/body.....Then if theres any interest i check the Mind/Personality....If theres not an equitable match up it doesnt matter what she looks like or how smart she is...shit aint gonna work out>

[Aragon21]

I always say that beauty is skin deep, but stupid is to the bone! you've got to talk to them at sometime!

True..

Mines would be:

1. Face - Is the 1st thing I look at that attracts me to a person.
2a. Mind - What he has to say comes second.
2b. Personality - Having a great personality is definitely a PLUS!
3. Body - A decent body doesnt hurt (Even guys who arent buff and have love handles are fine with me. Just pls. dont have a big gut. LOL)

Ditto, but switch the gender to girls, I like alot of different body types but unless she is pregnant (which is sexy too) no busted guts.

[karizma]

I'd say Face and Mind take a tie at first place, then body at a close second. Initially, i am attracted to someone for their face or body, but after that, personality and mind become increasingly important.