Are Drugs Or Alcohol A Problem To You, Or To A TG You Know?

[peggygee]

If so is a factor your TG status, or is that not an issue?

If you are the partner of a TG how does this affect you?

[Kriss]

GOOD TOPIC. This is something very interesting and an issue that is always bubblin' under the surface. Everyone on this board knows someone that has a problem, however small and manageable with some kind of substance. Glad you included the demon drink in there too. Me, I smoke too much weed, and sometimes it's inappropriate. Usually it fits in with my lifestyle(24/7-H.A.) and in my experience TS girls generally like to smoke. Everyone's experience is different and while I have always been very selective in what I partake, I have associated with people from many drug 'scenes'. My biggest 'beef' is with cocaine, I'd like to slap some sense into that smug , arrogant little twerp. For me this topic is a big issue. Really, I fucking hate that shit. Obviously people like it. I never seen the appeal of forcing highly toxic chemical precipitate up my nose, swallowed amphetamines(more poison) on 2 occasions to 'get work done'. This may seem bizarre reasoning from a man that inhales the fumes from combusted flowers from dawn til dusk, Yes it is most illogical captain. And I meant old school amphetamines, not this Meth stuff. That shit scares the hell out of me! I thought booze and cocaine(and thus xtra booze) were a dangerous combination but Meth is seriously fucked up shit, did you see the x-rays from the guy that walked into an emergency room complaining of a headache? Turns out he had fired 12 6" nails into his skull with a nailgun, apparently he just didn't notice as he was on so much Meth! I know, this sounds like those 'reefer madness' propaganda comics from the 1930's (stupid,racist shit) but It's some powerful drugs. Personally I never got into coke, too smart, wasn't born to follow, EGO inflated enough already, etc, etc. If I refused to associate with anyone that does this garbage, well, I would have about 2 friends, but people know that I don't particularly want to see it , even hear about it so it isn't pushed in my face. One rule I now have to practice is that if someone is into coke, fine they can be a an aquaitance , even a friend but I will never trust them or allow them to get close to me. That's just my preference, cokers usually have deep rooted self-esteem issues and status hang-ups. Why else do they 'pay through the nose' for such toxic shit to make them feel like a somebody, elevated above regular mortals, it is above all a confidence drug. Any 'performance' industry from television to politics to musicians to sports to ,dare I say it, porno movies will have it's cokeheads. I seen too many good, intelligent people go down and lose absolutely everything because their lives became one big powder trip. Coke is one big liability. it has a truly evil history and present, this poison is used to corrupt and destabilise whole societies, look at how C.I.A. crushed Jamaican socialism by flooding the island with powder and guns. Cocaine is the Indians revenge upon the white man. I have trusted people involved in that scene before and it just brought trouble. Believe me, I have heard it ALL before "I never buy it", "I only use it if it's offered" It's all shit. This poison makes people lie like guinness turns your shit black. enough already, AAAARRRRRGHGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Emotions are stronger than drugs, love will twist your head up and give you delusions more than the strongest LSD" - Kelly Sure

[BrendaQG]

I have a good friend who is a drung additct. We haven't talked or seen eachother in a while becaues of it. It seems every time it's a different drug. I just don't see what I alone can do about it.

To her it's like part of the lifestyle of living in Lakeview/lincolnpark and being TS.

I try to convince her that's BS and we had heated words. She was my one good Ts friend.

[Kriss]

opcorn

[Devon]

I agree that this is a good topic. I have had some substance abuse issues in my past. At the end of high school, first two years of college, I was partying alot. I used marijuana and drank alcohol pretty much daily. I also experimented with mushrooms, ecstasy, and any painkillers I could get my hands on. Looking back now, a few years later (and sober), I can see my destructive behavior and understand it a little better. I think that I was using to cover up the pain I felt inside, things I didn't even understand. I had to get away from people who were into that stuff and surround myself with more uplifting people. I have seen people I used to party with end up in prison, lose family and friends, and even die. I feel blessed that I have such a loving family and group of friends, and that I was able to seperate myself from that lifestyle.
Today I can happily say that the only drugs I take are hormones and vitamins!

[MrsKellyPierce]

I don't drink, but I did the other day out of stress. lmao

I don't drink, but I did the other day out of stress. lmao

LOL. "I don't drink unless I drink"?

[Kriss]

I don't drink, but I did the other day out of stress. lmao

Sorry Kelly but that's not really answering any of the questions posed in Peggy's post or the title of the thread. I think you should actaully share your experiences and opinions on this one, your response reveals nothing and you manage to contradict yourself in just 12 words(new record even for you). I'm afraid this just won't do my dear. O.K , so you don't drink, but sometimes you do???!! What about drugs? And it's not just about your 'vices', The topic specifically relates to partners, other TS girls, their partners and how drugs and booze affect all the above. Surely you are very busy in numerous other more relavent threads about what toothpaste you like, why even bother to add here? I don't add surreal nonsense in your threads, oh hang on, maybe I do. my bad! So the question again......

Are Drugs Or Alcohol A PROBLEM To YOU, OR To A TG You Know?
IF so IS a factor your TG status, OR is that NOT an issue?
If YOU are the PARTNER of a TG HOW does this AFFECT you?

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Ive got a BIG problem with guys who does drugs and alcohol and didnot tell me prior when we started dating. Ive dated an alcoholic for 3 years then moved away..single 2 years then dated a druggie 2 years. Both guys never came clean with me so now I am alot more cautious. I just dont got the time to waste for a guy who's unworthy of me.

~Kisses.

HTG

[hwbs]

it was a big problem with my ex girlfriend...she had done it time to time when we first started dating...when we were on a short break she got into some really bad drugs "H"....she had gone to rehab but her will to get clean wasn't strong enough...she put myself and quite a few members on HA through a lot...she pushed us all away , which is very normal...she called me a few months back...it really breaks my heart to see her like that...she was a real nice person who deserved much more from life....I pray 4 her every day...