Does your wife know?

[Justawannabe]

wow... kinda glad I wasn't around when this thread first saw the light of day.

One thing I will say, is if you take your experience as a sex provider as evidence that all men are cheaters... well you taking your data from a pretty self selecting group that will support your theory. If you expand your pool to include folks in the nightlife scene and who want to associate with folks in the sex trade... well your still selecting from that crowd, though I expect more to simply choose not to enter committed relationships there.

It's like looking for a non-drinker, non-smoker, good christian boy with a day job and good work ethic in a late night gay bar. Could happen but isn't likely... but that doesn't mean such boys don't exist. Just means they tend to be married and getting home to sleep so they can get to work the next day.

Just pissed off today, and sick of the constant man hate from folks.

Sean

[shay]

from a married guy. ts clubs are a lot of fun. hot women and good music. become friends with a few t girls. no sex, none, they know its not going to happen. its not easy staying faithful, but thats what marriage is. cant be, stay single and have fun. thats all there is. there are men that stay faithful. no matter what. i like to club, all types. dont care whos there, just as long as everyone respects each other. straight, tg, gay, bi and whatever else there is. who cares. not me. im straight, married and pretty happy. we are able to have it all. we can evolve to a state where our intellect can be stronger then are sex drive. its true folks. just open your minds and do what is right for you and the ones you love. no one has the right to hurt just because our DRIVE is so strong. we are grownups. lets act like we are. we are more then biological entities. most important as human beings we ali deserve repect. my 2 cents.

[Space_Cowboy]

Well I’m not married, but my GF found out about my TS interest when I forgot to clear my internet history, I was gutted cos I’d done a really good job hiding my dvd,s for the past 2 years...

I tell you that was one awkward conversation, at first I was like making up a story about how I kept getting diverted by pop ups and stuff (the only think I could think of at the time) but she saw straight through that due to the amount of websites I had been on
Anyway she kind of flipped for a while, partly I guess because we are kind of a clean cut couple so it came out of the blue, but when she had cooled off we sat down and talked things over and I guess the most important thing for her was making sure I was not gay and that I defiantly loved her, once I had explained that only find TS attractive and not men, she was surprisingly ok with it and even makes private jokes every now and again when something comes on the tele about TS, it can be embarrassing though as she made one recently when she was pissed in front of my best friend and he totally cottoned on and now keeps winding me up ... in fact he pulled a funny prank on me at work which I will save for another time.

I really don’t think there is a clear cut tell or don’t answer, I think its how you deal with your GF or wife and how much they want to be with you/love you and vice versa. I love my GF and she Love me so we worked it out, she has even hinted at letting me see a TS escort as long as I’m open about it wahoo

[scorpion]

my lover is well equipped guys
and none of them has a girlfriend...

[callahac]

My wife knows and also knows I am into guys as well. When she first found out about my interest in shemales she was shocked, but eventually came to accept it. After many years she also has gotten into watching shemale porn with me and playing shemale fantasies while in bed to keep me interested...will also use dildos and strap on on me. When she found out about the gay thing- that did not shock her, although she really was hoping I wasn't into it. she said she figured as much, since if I was into girl cock I was probably into gay cock. She hasn't watched any gay porn with me yet, but I am sure she probably will at some point. She does go through the gay pics on my PC from time to time, just to check up on what I am looking at, and she what sort of guys, and sex acts I am looking at.

We are totally open about everything. We both agree that if we hadn't married I probably would be living a gay life. But we are married, we are best friends and we plan to stay together becasue there is more to life than just sex.

[Dinand]

I'm single myself so I can do whatever I want, it's better that way

[Gmanfromthechi]

I agree with u totally shay.


I have been dating the same girl for 3 1/2 years. While Ive never flat out told her I like tgirls, shes pretty much on to it due to the fact that I had more an more tgirls on my myspace friends list, and she had joked about how I liked "the drag queen look" when it came to makeup, an I agreed. Well she took that as me admitting I liked tgirls, and so far I dont think thats changed. She seems ok with it, except when we go to a particular club, then she gets a lil jealous cuz I absolutely cant help but look and sometimes stare at the gorgeous girls.


Now, even tho I am not very happy in my relationship, and I dig tgirls more then gg's, I have never cheated on her. I am saying this to disprove the notion that us men are helpless hornballs who ALWAYS cheat. We're not. Sure, I look at only tranny porn, look at eros, and fantasize about gurls daily. An ya, even tho I have a gorgeous stripper girlfriend, I still stare at gurls when we're out. Im taken, not dead. Yet I still manage to somehow stay faithful. So to all the ppl out there who think all us tranny lovers are only shameful cheating lurkers, we're not.

[jjhill]

I think of it as this, transgendered women are women, so is there a need to tell your wife or gf about every girl you think that is attractive or possibly flirt with? IMO as long as your not lying to your wife, sneaky out the house at night, or taking money off your childrens plate or anything like that; then your good