When and How did you first become interested in T-Girls?

**Gunthar** · 10-05-2004

Hey all,

As this is my first time here on this board, I thought I would break the ice by asking, (as the subject line states)
When and how did you first become interested in T-Girls?

I didn't have a clue until I moved to Chicago a couple years back, and came upon the scene (great choice of words

) mostly by accident. (Thank you Google)

I think the thing that I find most attractive is the immense sensuality these ladies possess, that and of course being pretty damn hot...

At any rate I'd be interested to hear what you all have to say, and ladies if you have some tips for us fellas, I'm all ears.

Now it's off to plan a trip to New York for the Halloween party

Cheers,

Gunthar

**Ecstatic** · 10-05-2004

Hey Gunthar, welcome aboard. Great question. I guess my earliest interest in T-girls stems back to around 1971 or so; as a young bisexual man (then protesting the Viet Nam War in Washington, DC), I met an incredibly beautiful woman...only to be told later by a gay friend that she was really a drag queen. Then, about five years later, my future wife and I hit a bar on Bourbon St in New Orleans with a very hot female impersonation review. I was hooked, though it was still a rare scene, and I devoured all the photos and films I could find of girls like Sulka, Candy, Shannon, and many others. It was a closet fascination for me for the longest time; I was married and no longer actively bi (no change in inclination, only in opportunity, you might say, and the AIDS scare didn't help in the 80s). It was kind of quiet, with a few magazines and a handful of videos, until sites like Shemale Yum started appearing online.

Then, a couple of years back I turned 50 and decided that it was now or never time: I had to experience these wonderful, alluring, yet still somehow forbidden women for myself. So I took a deep breath, made my first-ever call to a girl advertising on Eros.com, and I haven't looked back since. That first girl was a real find, someone I have come to cherish as a friend and see as a lover many, many times. A year ago I met another girl who means as much to me, and I see both whenever the opportunity arises, and every once in a while I visit someone new to keep things fresh. I am so very happy that I "took the plunge"; I am more sexually fulfilled now than I have ever been. Kisses to my favorite girls. (Oh, btw, my wife knows and supports my interests; she knows that while I love these girls, I am not "in love" with them and that she's the one woman as my companion in life. I am very lucky!)

**djbj_2_2_69** · 10-05-2004

I was underage at the time (about 16 or 17) and I was crusing for porn sites. Low and behold I see Lisa Lawrence and I was hooked. I've never had sex with a TS gurl but I've meet a few and they always seem surpirsed to see that guy my age (20) is into them. I guess I'm on the younger age spectrum.

**Realgirls4me** · 10-05-2004

Welcome aboard all you newbies!

With me it was being attracted to TS at the workplace (I work in different places for the same company) one time several years ago, and not knowing at the time that she was a "real" girl. After my week was up working with her, I asked her out upon my departure retaining a promise from her that she would call. I got word a week or two later from another fellow employee who informed me that she was born a man. I was shocked given her incredible figure, but once I came down from the surprise, I received a rush just thinking what it might have been like if we had gone out. The experience expanded my parameters in ways I never imagined. The advent of the internet simply expanded my exposure to them. Recent trips to a very popular TS club in Los Angeles has brought me more insight to this mysterious, yet alluring and beautiful world. I hope one day to make it to one of Allanah's shindigs. My Ts experience came full circle in a sense recently when I finally took the plunge with an incredibly beautiful woman from the San francisco Eros site. It was an incredible experience to say the least which I hope to repeat with her and others, including post-ops. What an experience!

Well, that's the abbreviated version for now.

**yngnwburbsguy** · 10-05-2004

I am 19 right now and I started my interest in tgirls when i was 16 also, I have dated a few t-girl, but seem to never work out. I always thought it was the t-girl, but to be honest its probably just me, but I still like looking at their pictures.

**djbj_2_2_69** · 10-05-2004

I'd love to date a hot little t-girl. I hung out with a well known t-girl the other night and was way into her, but she is way beyond me. would be cool though.

**popperluv** · 10-05-2004

I was about 16 or 17 at the time and I was just walking down he street on a summerday in NY when a woman gave me the eye. We started talking and I offered to help bring her grocery bags home. Before we got in the house she told me "Listen Im not totally straight" . At that point I didnt care I was just so horny .She gave me a great blow job. From that point on I was hooked.
What I liked most about the experience is that we both knew what we wanted , and that was sex. There was no bullshit small talk that you usually have to do with generic women.

Ecstatic - You are so lucky that your wife understands.I tried to tell my wife and she freaked out.
Yngnwburbsguy- Dont get your hopes up on falling in love with a tgirl. Some relationships work out but most of the time its just Drama!

**Ecstatic** · 10-05-2004

Originally Posted by popperluv

Ecstatic - You are so lucky that your wife understands.I tried to tell my wife and she freaked out.

You got that right, popperluv. Sorry your wife freaked. One of the two girls I see regularly tells me that she thinks my wife is more accepting of her as a ts than she would be if she were a gg, that there's less of a threat. My wife knew I was bi when we met (I was actually in the only real gay relationship of my life at that time), so I don't know if that's true. The other day my wife told me to try seeing a gg escort and see how she reacts...hmm, tempting, but thing is, I'm really only turned on by a hung angel these days!

It's a little more complex of course. I've been married for 23 years and we've been together for 30; we love each other very much and support one another in all ways. However, my wife has zero interest in sex, and while she's, um, accommodating, I need a partner who's really into it, don't you know. Plus, a lovely tgirl fulfills two needs at once: hot willing sex and that "something extra" that I crave. Believe it or not, my relationship with my wife has gotten even better since I started this hobby.

**GroobySteven** · 10-05-2004

Here's a different one...
I started imagining girls at school having cocks when I was 12/13 ish - this is before I knew about shemales. Occassionally on British TV you'd get some truckdriver in a pre-Springer show bleating how he wants to be a woman (think Barbara in "League of Gentleman"). I first got a hold of some porn at about 16 (1986 still illegal in UK) and made do with that and some trips to quarter jackshacks on visits to NYC) until the internet came along which I got on in 1996.
Even after starting Yum as a free site I hadn't met a girl but there was this great site around called "Jennifer's Asian TV/TS site" which was basically a bunch of Asian girls from LA. I started writing one of them and a few months later in LA we met for dinner. Hot Filipino girl in early 20's. I'm all up for it, knowing she's an escort I've my money in my pocket and ready to play.
After dinner (cheap place on Melrose) she asked to pull into a parking lot and we fooled around which was awesome. Back to her apartment (which she claimed she lived with her brother....ie; who knows!) and I'm ready to pay her....she gives me her number, kisses me and tells me to call next time I'm town and we'll do it again and jumps out. Turns out she wasn't an escort, she was in it for the fun/sex and I subsequently found out from another girl that she was genuinely a nurse (in her "boy" role). (which might fo a long way explaining why I mentally find it hard to pay for it unless I know for a fact the girl is completely into it - and why I cannot cold call someone).
Thailand came next....and the rest oh boy, London, NYC, Thailand, Laos, Brazil, Amsterdam, California, Hawaii, Vegas, Mexico, Amsterdam...honestly, I'm a little bored of it....I love the business side of it and the dealings there but all the partying and the photography can get a little repititive after 7 yrs continuous which is why I've pushed myself further out of it.
Until yesterday that was

seanchai