My opinions on escorting: an intellectual debate

[truplaya4real]

I want to briefly talk about transgendered ladies and escorting. I am not going to personally attack anyone by calling out names. I don't judge because that responsibility lies with God. I just wanted to express what is on my mind and get some intelligent feed back on the subject.

Yeah, you get to buy some nice things with the money you earn. The transgender community has been exploited with the notion that you must have better material items than your peers.


Now, let's look at the flipside of the escorting (again, if thats what you want to call it). Here are a few issues that escorts have to deal with on a daily basis:

1. The Police: Yep, Yep! The Ol' boys in blue. They love to patrol areas where the streetwalkers are. I am sorry, I should say public escorts. Please excuse my manners. Also, the police set up stings with the escorts that advertise themselves in magazines, newspapers, and internet ads. They will pose as johns in hotels and get ya when prices are discussed.

2. Johns: They are the ones who keep the industry thriving. Yeah, they come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. From the old and young alike, they they come from all walks of life. Damn, some are even married and have kids but yet find themselves to be the transgendered ladies best customers. Go figure?!

Well, Johns (called tricks) can be professional and rough. The rough ones worry the escorts (if thats what you want to call them). The rough ones will pretend to be nice and rob them. Some of the johns have killed some of these poor human beings in the past and present. Wow! It's sad!

3. Motivation: The industry workers have to motivate themselves on a daily basis. Wow, just imagine some fat fuck walking through your door smelling like chitterlings and onions wanting a date. He wants you lick his backside and get on top of you in order to stick his wee-wee in your precious hole.

What person in their right mind would normally find this acceptable? You would have to talk yourself into doing this shit on a daily basis in order for you to survive. You may even have to stick your wee-wee inside of him and he may not be clean and end up leaving a brown suprise on you.

Damn! I guess there is some truth to the old saying, "All that glitters isn't gold!"

4. Self Esteem: I don't know. Do these people have any self worth? Do they feel that is the only thing they can do in this world? Do they perpetuate the facade that they are secure with themselves and have an internal conflict going on?

I mean, I hate to see someone be the victim of some fuck playing out their fantasies on them. I mean, these guys see them as freaks and treat them as such!

5. Future: They have to be scarred of what life is going to be like for them when they get older. What are they going to do when they are no longer desireable? What then? Go to McDonald's? Home Depot?

Do they have any money stored away earning them a fair market return in the form of interest? There is going to come a time when they will see one last John (nice way of saying turn a trick).

Yeah, the escort world is complicated and deep.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I want to briefly talk about transgendered ladies and escorting. I am not going to personally attack anyone by calling out names. I don't judge because that responsibility lies with God. I just wanted to express what is on my mind and get some intelligent feed back on the subject.

Yeah, you get to buy some nice things with the money you earn. The transgender community has been exploited with the notion that you must have better material items than your peers.


Now, let's look at the flipside of the escorting (again, if thats what you want to call it). Here are a few issues that escorts have to deal with on a daily basis:

1. The Police: Yep, Yep! The Ol' boys in blue. They love to patrol areas where the streetwalkers are. I am sorry, I should say public escorts. Please excuse my manners. Also, the police set up stings with the escorts that advertise themselves in magazines, newspapers, and internet ads. They will pose as johns in hotels and get ya when prices are discussed.

2. Johns: They are the ones who keep the industry thriving. Yeah, they come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. From the old and young alike, they they come from all walks of life. Damn, some are even married and have kids but yet find themselves to be the transgendered ladies best customers. Go figure?!

Well, Johns (called tricks) can be professional and rough. The rough ones worry the escorts (if thats what you want to call them). The rough ones will pretend to be nice and rob them. Some of the johns have killed some of these poor human beings in the past and present. Wow! It's sad!

3. Motivation: The industry workers have to motivate themselves on a daily basis. Wow, just imagine some fat fuck walking through your door smelling like chitterlings and onions wanting a date. He wants you lick his backside and get on top of you in order to stick his wee-wee in your precious hole.

What person in their right mind would normally find this acceptable? You would have to talk yourself into doing this shit on a daily basis in order for you to survive. You may even have to stick your wee-wee inside of him and he may not be clean and end up leaving a brown suprise on you.

Damn! I guess there is some truth to the old saying, "All that glitters isn't gold!"

4. Self Esteem: I don't know. Do these people have any self worth? Do they feel that is the only thing they can do in this world? Do they perpetuate the facade that they are secure with themselves and have an internal conflict going on?

I mean, I hate to see someone be the victim of some fuck playing out their fantasies on them. I mean, these guys see them as freaks and treat them as such!

5. Future: They have to be scarred of what life is going to be like for them when they get older. What are they going to do when they are no longer desireable? What then? Go to McDonald's? Home Depot?

Do they have any money stored away earning them a fair market return in the form of interest? There is going to come a time when they will see one last John (nice way of saying turn a trick).

Yeah, the escort world is complicated and deep.

Really it's none of your business what girls do with their bodies.

[suckseed]

I'm sure that there's levels of operating. A high priced call girl probably leads a better, more adventurous and more fun life than some poor girl who marries Johnny Cableinstaller out of high school, then proceeds to spend her nights alone feeding Hamburger helper to the squalling brats while he's out drinking beer with his buddies...and getting a blowjob from a girl that looks like his wife did before he knocked her up. A TS I've spoken to told me her TS escort friends are some of the higher sexed people she's ever met. So they're partying down and living like rockstars for all we know. Would it be better if they paid for their transitioning earning $350 a week at Best Buy?
Shit, I can't give my services away on craigslist!

[AllanahStarrNYC]

your analysis is over simplistic and is biased towards your point of view.

are you an escort? have you ever worked as an escort?

NO- so you do not have first hand experience or the right to generalize over the proffesion.

the whole thung just sounds ignorant and so street- i never reffer to a customer as a trick or a john- that is so low class. they are clients-clients who often spend a great deal of money for many other things than just sex.

why are you so caught up in transsexuals being exploited by websites and escorting. last i remembered i am the one exploiting myself as i have made all the choices i have in the sex industry conciously.

[Kriss]

I want to briefly talk about transgendered ladies and escorting.

Sorry mate but this is some offensive shit. Do you really expect Escort girls to actually respond to this? It's not just the questions but the tone is so disrescpectful. Also your topic has many subtopics. Maybe you could post one a day, politely phrased and you may get some enlightening perspectives from the girls.

[GroobySteven]

I am not going to personally attack anyone by calling out names. I don't judge because that responsibility lies with God.

Fuck off, hypocrit.
You are on a board that survives because of the adult industry, you being here helps sustain it - so you are a part of the system as much as anybody.

By making the post, you are sitting back and making judgement. Tell that to your God when you meet him.
seanchai

[Jericho]

I am not going to personally attack anyone by calling out names. I don't judge because that responsibility lies with God.

Pah...If god didn't want them to do it, why did he give men erections?

[MrsKellyPierce]

FIRST - Can you really throw "God" into the argument of who is better than for their choice of who they sleep with, and then admit to premarital sex and masturbation, both of which are sins? "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". Sit the fuck down.

Second - Once again, "God" isn't a valid argument in this situation. You have to realize that we don't live in a theocracy and people have freedom of Choice. If you want to enact your religion and praise how you see fit, then that's awesome. But being presumptuous enough to tell someone that THEY are not doing what "God" intended is fucking ignorant. When was the last time He spoke to you and told you what His DIVINE plan was? And second - forgiveness and ACCEPTANCE are two of the most important tenets of Christianity. Leave the judgement up to someone with a hell of a lot more experience than you. Again, sit the fuck down.

Third - You may not agree with the choice, but either way - it's called a civil liberty. She/He is not imposing on your civil rights, so she/he has the constitutional right to do whatever she/he wants. Stop being uneducated pricks.

THAT IS ALL

[loki]

As someone who used to escort i can tell you that you are full of shit. You evidently have preconceived ideas and opinions about this subject.If done right it is neither nasty nor debasing.And as for the low self esteem bullshit, that would depend on the person. We all sell ourselves and our services in one way or another. Whether it be a corporate job or manual labor. So in parting i have one thing to say,get over yourself everybody else has.

[yodajazz]

FIRST - Can you really throw "God" into the argument of who is better than for their choice of who they sleep with, and then admit to premarital sex and masturbation, both of which are sins? "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". Sit the fuck down.

Second - Once again, "God" isn't a valid argument in this situation. You have to realize that we don't live in a theocracy and people have freedom of Choice. If you want to enact your religion and praise how you see fit, then that's awesome. But being presumptuous enough to tell someone that THEY are not doing what "God" intended is fucking ignorant. When was the last time He spoke to you and told you what His DIVINE plan was? And second - forgiveness and ACCEPTANCE are two of the most important tenets of Christianity. Leave the judgement up to someone with a hell of a lot more experience than you. Again, sit the fuck down.

Third - You may not agree with the choice, but either way - it's called a civil liberty. She/He is not imposing on your civil rights, so she/he has the constitutional right to do whatever she/he wants. Stop being uneducated pricks.

THAT IS ALL

I think that you are misinterpreting his use of "God" in his statement. To leave judgement to God, means that we are not making personal judgements against people or discriminate against them in any way. We accept that person and let their life have its natural consequences. That is the real acceptance, not the Christian Wrong movement approach.

I think he was saying that he was not judging escorts, but pointing out mostly negative consequences. The topic has been much discussed on this forum. All life paths have some negative sides, but this is the wrong place to bring it up. This is forum where people are proudly discussing their escort exeriences. An exception would be as was stated earlier, by someone who is doing it and wants to discuss thier life.