Would you have a relationship

[MrsKellyPierce]

I've been pretty anti "relationship" most of my life, personally. The most important thing for me would be open, honest, normal communication. Nothing in the world beats a great conversation.

I work at a nightclub, which makes sex pretty easy for me. Just hooking up with a girl has become boring.

I think everyone at some point pursues a relationship.

I prefer relationships I am currently in one but a lot of the stress from being quote unquote stealth has gotten to me after about a year of it, I have always been open and honest about who and what I am I wish I could find a guy that would accpet me no matter not that I don't care about him but it hurts that he is ashamed

[MrsKellyPierce]

I've been pretty anti "relationship" most of my life, personally. The most important thing for me would be open, honest, normal communication. Nothing in the world beats a great conversation.

I work at a nightclub, which makes sex pretty easy for me. Just hooking up with a girl has become boring.

I think everyone at some point pursues a relationship.

I prefer relationships I am currently in one but a lot of the stress from being quote unquote stealth has gotten to me after about a year of it, I have always been open and honest about who and what I am I wish I could find a guy that would accpet me no matter not that I don't care about him but it hurts that he is ashamed

[sbgsean]

its a pity kelly he feels ashamed about your relationship, i think its sad that we let other people judge our lives and worry what other people think is right or wrong. I had the same thing when i dated my ex Jen she was ts but i knew i wanted to be with her i wasnt gonna let other people make me feel ashamed of someone i loved.

[Ecstatic]

Heh, you can say that again, Kelly. Seriously, it's a bitch if he's ashamed. I'm waaaay too old for you, and married to boot, but one thing I would never be is ashamed to be with you, or any woman that I loved. In fact, I couldn't be in love with anyone if I were ashamed of her in any way. That just does not compute.

As for the sex / love dynamic, for me they really are two different things. They certainly can complement one another, but I've had equally awesome sex with someone I love and with someone I was not in love with (3 of the former and 4 of the latter if memory serves). However, I have to connect with my partner for the sex to be intense: it may not be love, but it has to be real.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Heh, you can say that again, Kelly. Seriously, it's a bitch if he's ashamed. I'm waaaay too old for you, and married to boot, but one thing I would never be is ashamed to be with you, or any woman that I loved. In fact, I couldn't be in love with anyone if I were ashamed of her in any way. That just does not compute.

As for the sex / love dynamic, for me they really are two different things. They certainly can complement one another, but I've had equally awesome sex with someone I love and with someone I was not in love with (3 of the former and 4 of the latter if memory serves). However, I have to connect with my partner for the sex to be intense: it may not be love, but it has to be real.

yeah I wish guys my age had that attitude lol

[BeardedOne]

Well, my 'relationship' node is pretty much broken from the abuses of past experience, so sex has been the driving force of my meetings with T-gurls, but if one sparked the heart electric...Who knows?

[hotfireman69]

Yes Kelly, if I were to meet someone I would want a relationship..and hell, as for as the sex, that would be normal for two people in love...no matter what the gender. Just my bad fortune I live in the rural south and the chances of meeting a Transgendered lady is slim to none....but I still have my dreams...and of course HA...lol.

[Ecstatic]

Hey hotfireman69, I don't know about Tallahassee, but Florida has a very substantial TS population, at least in Tampa and Miami. Miami I know is about 500 miles from Tallahassee, but Tampa is a lot closer as I recall.

[suckseed]

Hey, Kelly...are you saying that he doesn't want people to know about your relationship, or that you're not a gg? If everyone assumes you're a gg, isn't that okay? Or do you want to be publicly TG?
Oh, and hi.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Hey, Kelly...are you saying that he doesn't want people to know about your relationship, or that you're not a gg? If everyone assumes you're a gg, isn't that okay? Or do you want to be publicly TG?
Oh, and hi.

No he doesn't want people to know he is dating a transexual and if they were to find out I am sure he'd leave me.