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Thread: Love and Lust
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11-07-2006 #11
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Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
Even if you do fall for a TS they just don't believe it. Is it really that rare for you Ladies?
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11-07-2006 #12stillies77Guest
Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by PlayfulJohn
they usually dont
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11-07-2006 #13
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Vicki,
I agree wholeheartedly with you that this site has become more and more about pic collecting and guys identifying women that they will never meet.
As a woman, I now find it increasingly difficult to find the meaningful threads that once held my interest.
As to the dating aspects of this site, I believe that with few exceptions most men on this site are incapble of relationships.
There are the married looking for sex, the emotionally unavailible or unstable. There are the confused and the curious. There are the self loathing who have taken the 'am I gay joke' and made it a truism.
Verily, it has become the 'sausage factory' that some feared, and that many are happy about.
For the male who does not have the testicular or intestinal fortitude to deal with women, or posses the interpersonal skillls to be in a relationship with a women, this is an ideal place to be.
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11-07-2006 #14stillies77Guest
most of the girls i met on this site are very very cool especially Holly Sweet and Wendy...they both actually talk to me on AIM and dont immediately block me or blow me off...however some (who i didnt meet on this site) like Olivia Love have been total bitches and just wanted money and nothing else...im sure she is looking for love but has been scorn too much in her life to let anyone in...in my opinion just talking to you girls makes my day i get starstruck every time i see a reply to something i wrote by one of you girls and i am proud to come here and talk to everyone on here...i love this site and the idea of someone falling in love with me on here is a dream i doubt will ever come true...but going down that list of my favorites and clicking on the site everyday puts a smile on my face because i know ill get to talk to someone who i have a crush on whenever i want to...falling in love with a tgirl is a dream most guys will never get the chance to accomplish...but a guy can dream cant he?
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11-07-2006 #15
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Originally Posted by peggygee
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11-07-2006 #16
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With regards to these guys that say they've given their hearts to multiple TS women and been rejected: are you just randomly falling in love with them, then finding out they are transwomen? Or are you seeking out transwomen to fall for? Are you falling for them because of the person inside, or the beautiful and sexy exterior? All women know better than to fall for that. If you're sincere, then I respect that...but there does exist the man who will lay claim to love so that he may come across as this romantic good guy (who gets what he wants). I 'fall' for virtually every good looking woman I see for ten seconds, not just lust but admiration and feelings of tenderness...but I don't kid myself that it's capital L Love. To make the statement that one has repeatedly fallen for multiple transexuals sounds suspicious to me.
And to you transwomen that hang on to your penis...do you want nomal man-woman love, but not before having a few more years of fun casual sex first? Or do you really hold out hope that you'll find a straight man that just happens to love you as you are? Careful now...that is a question...not a statement. I freely admit to knowing nothing about what it's like for you. One escort encounter does not a wise man make.
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11-07-2006 #17
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Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by suckseed
She doesn't have to do anything. I do. That's all there is to it.
And no, you wont play at the wedding, we'll get Metallica.
Heh, that actually would be pretty cool.
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11-07-2006 #18
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Hey, I'm a schmuck too! Isn't that what it's all about, finding common ground and settling our differences?
Seriously though...I'm in the same boat, if only to find a decent woman who'd want to take her chances with me. It's going to take a helluva lot of hard work and determination especially for a guy like me that's a dreamer and a world-class time waster. The only thing we can control is ourselves and what we do with our lives. The only problem I've ever had with you, Honda, is if you'd ever go postal on Vicki if you wouldn't take no for an answer. That may sound dramatic, but think about it...I don't know you...you could be harmless, or building up your armor plated bulldozer between posting. If we were actually friends, I'd say find out what your ideal woman requires of her man. Aspire to be that man. Become that man. And know that if she still wants something you aren't (who knows why? that's chemistry, baby) then find another good woman. God knows there's more than one!!!!
Fair enough?
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11-07-2006 #19
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Originally Posted by PlayfulJohn
One or both of us may be confused by the others semantics.
The clarification on my part, about the men on this site, having a problem dealing with women applies to all women, whether transwomen, or genetic females, etc.
I tend to believe that many of the men here would have a problem with a woman, no matter what genitals she possesed.
Further, for me this site feels like a site for the trading of 'tranny cards'. You know like where you guys are looking for a mint Johnny Unitas, or Roger Maris card.
So to re-iterate, I don't get a sense that most of the men here are either looking for a relationship, or have the skill set to acquire and keep one.
Truly, I am not trying to deliver a low blow, but rather inform males that are looking for a relationship that they may need to re-evaluate their tactics and strategies.
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11-07-2006 #20
I don't post often because for the most part I don't have much to say, I'd rather watch events on this board unfold and watch people dig their own graves. I've been a member long enough to see it move from a website where people mostly talked about a variety of issues with a couple pic threads (Read: A "who has the biggest cock" thread) to the place it is today. The only thing that has honestly changed though is the girls on the forum.
At least to me, it's felt like the board has always had three types of members (guy wise):
1) The flamers: We've always had these, regardless of whether or not most people agreed with them, most of the flamers would rather make a somewhat clever retort than actually respond to things other people have brought up. This response would usually be followed by about 30 responses from people that basically said: "Oh SNAP". You have these guys on every board, but here they are very prevalent. My guess would be it has something to do with some people's deep rooted feelings of guilt for being on a TS website in the first place.
2) The Snivelers: These are the "Oh SNAP" people. They're also the ones who immediately kiss any girl's ass who ever pops up to say ANYTHING. I think the strongest memory I have of these guys would be a couple months ago when Allanah told some troll that she "wouldn't suck his dick even if he paid her!". To me it sounded like a fourth grade response to an annoying prick, but to the snivelers it was the height of intellegence and wit. I think I saw like a thousand responses of a bunch of guys laughing at how amazing that response was and oh by the way how beautiful Allanah is and how much they would love to suck her cock etc, etc. I'm sure any girl on the forum knows what I mean. These are the guys who honestly think kissing a girls ass till their nose is stained grown is gonna get them laid. If I saw one out on the street (if they ever leave the house) I would be hesitant to shake their hand unless they dipped it in bleach first.
3) The Gurus: These are the guys who actually have something to bring to the table and are well balanced human beings for the most part. I take the time to read what they have to say because I think I might actually come out a more informed person because of it. Guys like Seanchai and Bearded One come to mind. These guys are far and few between and sometimes may display characteristics of the first two, but for the most part are good guys I wouldn't mind drinking a couple beers with and talking about life, the universe, and everything.
Maybe this is a tad offtopic, but basically what I'm saying is that there aren't a whole lot of "real" people on this board anymore. People who disagree with what a TS says or god forbid show any kind of backbone are usually shouted off by the army of Snivelers for daring to disagree with their goddess who rightly wouldn't give them the time of the day in real life. With the exception of a select few guys on this board, is there anyone here any of you girls would be interested in in the first place?
Love is a funny thing, but usually your first step in meeting someone should always be to look them straight in the eye, no bullshit, and see them for what they are in the real world. Most people on this board are in love with a fantasy, one of Viagra, baby oil, cameras, easy sex, and secret self-loathing. Would any of you girls look for love in the same guys who are chasing a lie?
You have to believe that doing a small, genuinely kind thing for someone will make the world a better place. Those small acts of compassion, those real acts of love, give each other the greatest gift of all-hope.