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Thread: Love and Lust
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01-05-2007 #101
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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
This whole thread you started is easily the most poignant, touching thread I've read on this site. I thoroughly enjoy the site but this is a heavy area that really needs to be touched upon. I had several relationships, which were loving, passionate and wonderful -= but always short-lived. I'm reminded of that wall that Travis Bickel runs into, in his own warped mind, where he falls in love with Iris, who is only a teenager just starting her adult street career. She doesn't want to be saved - he wants to save her and there is zero communication but both are hungry for a connection. It's that connection I've found so fulfilling with the beautiful tgirls I've known and that have changed my life. Perhaps one day I will find the right girl and she will find life with me totally satisfying. Bravo, Vicki, for your tres cool post.
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01-05-2007 #102
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Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
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01-05-2007 #103
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I don’t know why so many guys think t girls only care about money. I seriously don’t care about money, I just want to live a simple life with a man I love.I hope it is not really too hard to find a job as a pre-op. I mean, I really wouldn’t want to get into sex work at all.
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01-13-2007 #104
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Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by Arianna
Precisely----and this in part stems from 100,000 years of evolution of men as the hunters in the society--when the hunt was over or a failure the men's minds went to jelly---but during the hunt the senses were keen---a useful adaptation when you need to hunt and catch food for survival. Foodwise, it's useless today--but the vestiges of the adaptation exhibit themselves in men's pursuit of sex---during the hunt--the chase--all keen all attractive--all deceptive to lure the prey...
And then when the prey is caught--or the relationship commences for the purpose of the analogy----mind turns to jelly, peevishness begins---and baby you become the psychiatrist.
Of course this is a simplistic generalization---but 100,000 years of biology cannot simply be dismissed by three decades of progressive thought and the invention of the cellphone.
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06-19-2008 #105
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Hi all
Just to add my penny's worth.
Not all TG girls I have met want money, in fact none of them. I have had 3 relationships with TS's over 18 years and have always found them to be fulfilling and loving. I have never made my partner into something I want them to be, and have accepted and loved them for who they are, not what they look like and they have done likewise, it is a pleasure to find love with someone who shares the same view of life as you do. Sometimes times are good and sometimes not, but the bond of love keeps you together. I have aways been proud of my partner and my family and friends accept the person who shares my life, again looking beyond the actual person and seeing they pleasure the relationship bring to us both.
I have not been on this site long but can see that it doesn't appear what was intended.
I also agree many here seem to be looking for a cheap thrill with posts like how big is yours, who is this person, etc. I guess some people need to grow up a little.
The posts I like reading some may find boring because I am not really interested in seeing pictures of cocks. There is more to a TG girl than her cock, to me it is the person inside that counts the most.
Yes sex is great but there is more to a relationship than sex. The person maybe the greatest lover in the world, but that count for nothing if they are useless at forming and contributing to a relationship.
My previous relationships have always been on equal terms and decisions have been made jointly after careful discussion, never one sided.
So Girls..... us men are not all the same, some of us are looking for friendships on mutual ground, where we can talk about how our days have been, the weather, whats going on in the world. Subjest many may find uninteresting, but life is about sharing the boring things as well as the more interesting
I hope many of the girls here find friendships like that, and if they blosom into something more all the better.
Thats my penny's worth anyway
Take care all
Moon
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06-19-2008 #106
Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by olite71
~Kisses.
HTG
HURDLE #1: If guys would learn to stop over complementing, and not compliment every tranny (or girl) they see and talk to (so a girl would feel it was sincere and that she's special), maybe they'd get somewhere but a dead end! lol
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06-19-2008 #107
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I've never been a part of the whole sex worker world. So i can't make any comments about that. Hell i've never even been to a strip club.
I've gone out with a lot of people.
One thing is for sure: Dating is very difficult.
Not just for me, but for everyone!
There's so many stupid variables and emotion that goes into the whole thing. It's pretty frustrating.
So none of us are alone on that front. Don't ever feel like you're the only person in the world who can't find a decent partner.
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06-20-2008 #108
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I've been looking for the right ts girlfriend for over a year. I haven't found the one yet for a ltr. I'm a fairly young good looking guy who makes a decent living. So I don't think I would have much of a problem. I just need to be sure the one I find isn't in the relationship to use me for my money.
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06-20-2008 #109
Re: Love and Lust
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
So, Yes!, there are real love stories out there; not just cock fantasies and pictures. I got the brass ring and feel that I am the luckiest guy in the world.
Having a transsexual girlfriend is like having a pet unicorn; wonderful, rare and the envy of many, but not a matter to be undertaken lightly.
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06-20-2008 #110
hey Vicki heres the thang some of us live in small city in no where areas. i mean unless you live in big citys like houston, dallas, Baton Rouge New orleans your kind of fucked. which i'm not really complaining i love living in southwest Louisiana we have the best food and parties
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