Love and Lust

[vanished]

Personally, I like it when people disagree with me.

I think you left off a fourth kind of person on the board. The spammers. This has become more and more rampant. They come in and post a few hundred images relating to different nationality TS and/or body parts, and they are done for the day. What useless web site hawking bullshit is that?

Regardless, and not to lose the topic, I just feel that within the sex industry as a whole... I omitted the simple fact that even female pornstar sex workers struggle to maintain relationships. There is this double standard for a sex worker typically which says, "you can't fuck other girls, but I get to fuck everyone I want because that's my job". That is bullshit. If I have sex with a bunch of people, he can too. As long as neither of us brings any surprises home, I think that's fair.

There is a type of man I have found who finds it erotic that the girl he dates fucks other men while he remains faithful, and he might even want to watch. There are also men who don't care if their girl whores as long as it supports the household. However, if we want a typical family oriented household or the American relationship dream, neither of those are going to work.

Sex work is souless work. The people involved in it lose themselves somewhere and it becomes hollow. Girls come in here a lot complaining about the relationship thing or lack of ability to maintain something in that respect. However, TS outside of the industry do meet and maintain relationships sometimes. I guess for my own peace of mind, I want to know a TS girl in the sex industry can have a LTR. Am I forever tainted because of what I've done? Again, I view this as a sex worker thing almost more than a TS sex worker thing. I know a lot of porn girls, and none of them are in healthy happy relationships. In fact, they seem to have an even harder time because they are more recognizable by a larger male population.

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Vicki

This whole thread you started is easily the most poignant, touching thread I've read on this site. I thoroughly enjoy the site but this is a heavy area that really needs to be touched upon. I had several relationships, which were loving, passionate and wonderful -= but always short-lived. I'm reminded of that wall that Travis Bickel runs into, in his own warped mind, where he falls in love with Iris, who is only a teenager just starting her adult street career. She doesn't want to be saved - he wants to save her and there is zero communication but both are hungry for a connection. It's that connection I've found so fulfilling with the beautiful tgirls I've known and that have changed my life. Perhaps one day I will find the right girl and she will find life with me totally satisfying. Bravo, Vicki, for your tres cool post.
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[motodog69]

So many of you want to suck my shecock and swallow everything that comes out of me... over and over every day of you lives. Don't you hate wishing and wanting? You want that feeling. You want to feel someone beautiful loves you.

Instead all of you are posting spam in here about meaningless "cum shots" or "big shemale cocks"... I mean what the fuck is that. You will just be fucking wanting it a year from now... 5 years from now... the rest of your lives.

I mean really why don't you do something about it? This forum has become pic collectors heaven and the good guys who started this site have left. Megabody almost never posts. This isn't what it was. You guys can post pictures and fantasize, but there are real TS girls who want what you want. Most of you are chicken shit and scared to take what is there. Fuck those of you who fantasize about us but wouldn't risk loving us. Fuck the girls who are so jaded they won't give you a chance.

I want a love story. I want to hear a TS and a guy made it and it was real. I need that. I want to know that what my parents and grandparents can happen to me and my friends. You might want to jack off wishing her cock was deep inside you, but until you really say it and mean it, and

Vicki

[signupjustforthis]

I don’t know why so many guys think t girls only care about money. I seriously don’t care about money, I just want to live a simple life with a man I love.I hope it is not really too hard to find a job as a pre-op. I mean, I really wouldn’t want to get into sex work at all.

[olite71]

Even if you do fall for a TS they just don't believe it. Is it really that rare for you Ladies?

Alot of guys are really very nice, but that's just not enough for a good ltr. It seems to me that the guys who "fall" tend to be very needy, are horrible listeners, and more infatuated than truely loving. They project so much onto you that it's unhealthy. I don't want to be a man's shrink or mother figure.

Precisely----and this in part stems from 100,000 years of evolution of men as the hunters in the society--when the hunt was over or a failure the men's minds went to jelly---but during the hunt the senses were keen---a useful adaptation when you need to hunt and catch food for survival. Foodwise, it's useless today--but the vestiges of the adaptation exhibit themselves in men's pursuit of sex---during the hunt--the chase--all keen all attractive--all deceptive to lure the prey...

And then when the prey is caught--or the relationship commences for the purpose of the analogy----mind turns to jelly, peevishness begins---and baby you become the psychiatrist.

Of course this is a simplistic generalization---but 100,000 years of biology cannot simply be dismissed by three decades of progressive thought and the invention of the cellphone.

[Moon]

Hi all

Just to add my penny's worth.

Not all TG girls I have met want money, in fact none of them. I have had 3 relationships with TS's over 18 years and have always found them to be fulfilling and loving. I have never made my partner into something I want them to be, and have accepted and loved them for who they are, not what they look like and they have done likewise, it is a pleasure to find love with someone who shares the same view of life as you do. Sometimes times are good and sometimes not, but the bond of love keeps you together. I have aways been proud of my partner and my family and friends accept the person who shares my life, again looking beyond the actual person and seeing they pleasure the relationship bring to us both.

I have not been on this site long but can see that it doesn't appear what was intended.

I also agree many here seem to be looking for a cheap thrill with posts like how big is yours, who is this person, etc. I guess some people need to grow up a little.

The posts I like reading some may find boring because I am not really interested in seeing pictures of cocks. There is more to a TG girl than her cock, to me it is the person inside that counts the most.

Yes sex is great but there is more to a relationship than sex. The person maybe the greatest lover in the world, but that count for nothing if they are useless at forming and contributing to a relationship.

My previous relationships have always been on equal terms and decisions have been made jointly after careful discussion, never one sided.

So Girls..... us men are not all the same, some of us are looking for friendships on mutual ground, where we can talk about how our days have been, the weather, whats going on in the world. Subjest many may find uninteresting, but life is about sharing the boring things as well as the more interesting

I hope many of the girls here find friendships like that, and if they blosom into something more all the better.

Thats my penny's worth anyway

Take care all

Moon

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Even if you do fall for a TS they just don't believe it. Is it really that rare for you Ladies?

Alot of guys are really very nice, but that's just not enough for a good ltr. It seems to me that the guys who "fall" tend to be very needy, are horrible listeners, and more infatuated than truely loving. They project so much onto you that it's unhealthy. I don't want to be a man's shrink or mother figure.

Precisely----and this in part stems from 100,000 years of evolution of men as the hunters in the society--when the hunt was over or a failure the men's minds went to jelly---but during the hunt the senses were keen---a useful adaptation when you need to hunt and catch food for survival. Foodwise, it's useless today--but the vestiges of the adaptation exhibit themselves in men's pursuit of sex---during the hunt--the chase--all keen all attractive--all deceptive to lure the prey...

And then when the prey is caught--or the relationship commences for the purpose of the analogy----mind turns to jelly, peevishness begins---and baby you become the psychiatrist.

Of course this is a simplistic generalization---but 100,000 years of biology cannot simply be dismissed by three decades of progressive thought and the invention of the cellphone.

Great reply and read olite71. And so TRUE!

~Kisses.

HTG

[burnera]

I've never been a part of the whole sex worker world. So i can't make any comments about that. Hell i've never even been to a strip club.

I've gone out with a lot of people.
One thing is for sure: Dating is very difficult.
Not just for me, but for everyone!

There's so many stupid variables and emotion that goes into the whole thing. It's pretty frustrating.
So none of us are alone on that front. Don't ever feel like you're the only person in the world who can't find a decent partner.

[supertrack9999]

I've been looking for the right ts girlfriend for over a year. I haven't found the one yet for a ltr. I'm a fairly young good looking guy who makes a decent living. So I don't think I would have much of a problem. I just need to be sure the one I find isn't in the relationship to use me for my money.

[swingplus]

So many of you want to suck my shecock and swallow everything that comes out of me... over and over every day of you lives. Don't you hate wishing and wanting? You want that feeling. You want to feel someone beautiful loves you.

Instead all of you are posting spam in here about meaningless "cum shots" or "big shemale cocks"... I mean what the fuck is that. You will just be fucking wanting it a year from now... 5 years from now... the rest of your lives.

I mean really why don't you do something about it? This forum has become pic collectors heaven and the good guys who started this site have left. Megabody almost never posts. This isn't what it was. You guys can post pictures and fantasize, but there are real TS girls who want what you want. Most of you are chicken shit and scared to take what is there. Fuck those of you who fantasize about us but wouldn't risk loving us. Fuck the girls who are so jaded they won't give you a chance.

I want a love story. I want to hear a TS and a guy made it and it was real. I need that. I want to know that what my parents and grandparents can happen to me and my friends. You might want to jack off wishing her cock was deep inside you, but until you really say it and mean it, and

Vicki

OK, Vicki, Here's your love story. I met Robin about a year ago, when I was still married and living with my wife. We were swingers and so was Robin, so it was just a sex get together. We had a wonderful time, and I became very fond of Robin and kept in touch. In the succeeding months the marriage went south, and so did the wife. Robin came to town to visit me one weekend, then another and another..... We came to be closer and more of a couple very quickly. Next week she is moving in with me and I have asked her to marry me as soon as my divorce is final.

So, Yes!, there are real love stories out there; not just cock fantasies and pictures. I got the brass ring and feel that I am the luckiest guy in the world.

[southern81]

hey Vicki heres the thang some of us live in small city in no where areas. i mean unless you live in big citys like houston, dallas, Baton Rouge New orleans your kind of fucked. which i'm not really complaining i love living in southwest Louisiana we have the best food and parties