Post your Transsexual Dating Advice

[peggygee]

Great thread.



Anyone else looking for love?

[cogent]

I'm frankly new to all this. At this point, I'm not sure what I want, so I confess I'm in exploration mode; really, the only way I will know for certain that I want to be with a TS gal is to empirically determine that. And that means, natch, spending time with some.

That said, finding a TS gal has proven, so far, frustrating. I'm trying a number of dating sites with no success. (And, actually, that search is what led me here.) The alternative appears to be to try an escort, but I'm not (yet) comfortable with that option. Really, I'd just like to go on an honest to Ghu date just like with any other gal. Given that I'm not near the apparently TS hotspots of LA nor NYC, I may be out of luck. (I'm near Washington, DC, and would love to learn of any similar places in the DC metropolitian area. I'd be willing to even hike to Baltimore or Richmond.)

So, yes, though there's a physical intimacy dimension to my search (as with most all relationships), it is by no means the sole dimension. I'm open to long term relationships.

[Somedude21]

I'm frankly new to all this. At this point, I'm not sure what I want, so I confess I'm in exploration mode; really, the only way I will know for certain that I want to be with a TS gal is to empirically determine that. And that means, natch, spending time with some.

That said, finding a TS gal has proven, so far, frustrating. I'm trying a number of dating sites with no success. (And, actually, that search is what led me here.) The alternative appears to be to try an escort, but I'm not (yet) comfortable with that option. Really, I'd just like to go on an honest to Ghu date just like with any other gal. Given that I'm not near the apparently TS hotspots of LA nor NYC, I may be out of luck. (I'm near Washington, DC, and would love to learn of any similar places in the DC metropolitian area. I'd be willing to even hike to Baltimore or Richmond.)

So, yes, though there's a physical intimacy dimension to my search (as with most all relationships), it is by no means the sole dimension. I'm open to long term relationships.

I'm in much the same boat here (as in, still in "exploration mode"), except I have one very large problem...I'm not 21 yet, and that keeps me from getting into any of the "hot spots". Furthermore, when I DO turn 21, I'll be moving far away from them too.

Goddammit. Sometimes I just hate my luck.

[lust4ts]

Be polite, don't act stoopid, and try not to poke her in the eye more than once on the first night out.